Just wanted to say a farewell to everyone as I have decided to discontinue using the site, and I dont like to just slink off without saying anything. This has been a decision of my own, after much thinking recently. I no longer feel that bnb is the right place for me. Which is not to say anything bad of other site users or start the gossip mill running. But surfice to say Im a stong opionionated person who has quite different beliefs, lifestyle and views to a large percentage of users here, and this has at times caused conflict, that has resulted in mine and other users alienation, which as this is a support forum is unfair on anyone. But at the same time I am who I am and do not wish to tame the way I feel or speak. This forum is wonderfull and is responsible for me making some great friends, and given me lots of abvice and support, but I feel a lot of the time that although we share the mutual bond of having or wanting to have children, maybe I have very little else in common with most people here, and frequently say or do the wrong things, and feel akward. Anyhow on to pastures new and all that, good luck to everyone and your TTCing and pregnancies. families etc.