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[Lii24]

I have had a huge outbreak of spots
is due on Wednesday, I would normally get one or two the day before of day of AF. Not like this though!!
Also this time last month, after ovulation my boobs were sore, like excruciatingly painful until after AF.... Normally they hurt about a week before up until AF....this month......nothing!! So confused!

How are all you lovely ladies doing?

Little one- have u tested again?

 

[littleone1993]

Af arrived on Halloween would you believe. I could not believe it.

I have had enough of TTCing though but there's no way I could take a month off. I know when I ovulate and I know my fertile periods so I have no idea how I could stop!

 

[Wishing_]

Lol what a typical witch! This is why we call it a witch to being with. You shouldn't give. If you know how your body works it only a matter time before you do conceive.

 

[Lii24]

Littleone - sorry to hear got you.
I would keep at it if you know your body so well.
I never Meant literally a month off, just try not to put to much emphasis onto it.

But you never know November could be your month,

 

[littleone1993]

I hope so.

DH's brother has male factor infertility and I'm terrified DH has an issue too.

I want November to be my month. I really do

 

[Wishing_]

Why don't you get him tested to find out? They try to help you two conceive.

 

[littleone1993]

Yeah I'm going to see my gp with him because I just don't understand why it hasn't happened

Does anyone else feel like this? I'm sure there is nothing wrong but I'm going to be crushed if there is

 

[Wishing_]

I actually thought it was one of us. My gyn said if we don't get pregnant within 3-6 months that she'll run some tests on the both of us.

 

[thenewmrshowe]

I'm 24 and this is our first cycle ttc... I would love to join your group! I am at CD15 and was apparently supposed to ov yesterday, but I don't think I did... So we are still doing the BD...

 

[itsnowmyturn]

Hello and welcome, I'm cycle day 25 of first cycle since coming out of an induced temporary menopause, I haven't od yet but still bd more than we did just incase x

 

[Lii24]

Yeah I'm going to see my gp with him because I just don't understand why it hasn't happened

Does anyone else feel like this? I'm sure there is nothing wrong but I'm going to be crushed if there is

I know how you feel, after two years of TTC myself and DH decided it was time to ask for help. We went to my gp who referred us to a fertility specialist, we were both convinced it was DH as I have a child from previous. After two SA his results came back great.....which then put the stress and panic onto me knowing it was possibly me.....I was gutted when results showed it was!!
But you have to look on the bright side, there is things they can do to help if there is a problem

I'm 24 and this is our first cycle ttc... I would love to join your group! I am at CD15 and was apparently supposed to ov yesterday, but I don't think I did... So we are still doing the BD...

Welcome do you temp? Chart?


I am due AF today, so far no signs of her! No sore boobs, no brown discharge (sorry tmi) nothing like normal....however beginning of last week my face broke out in spots (not normal) and ive had back ache for last two days and a running nose......think they are linked to me being cold as DH wont let me put heating on yet !!
Although can guarantee after I post this she will show her ugly face....lol

 

[Wishing_]

That happens lol but Fx for you!

 

[littleone1993]

I am feeling much better today

I just think after a bad day I couldn't control my complete and utter breakdown! DH and I are booking an appointment with the gp though in a few days. I don't really think there's anything wrong I just don't understand why it hasn't happened yet.

I went baby shopping for a family friends baby shower and all I want is a baby of my own to shop for!!!

 

[Lii24]

You will get that chance
And fingers crossed for you it happens soon!
That's great about the GP, better to go and get checked if its been a long time.

Still no for me, woke up feeling nauseous but that's passed I think I was just hungry :-/
I am trying my damned hardest to try not to symptom spot (although not getting PMS symptoms either) keep telling myself she will arrive today.
After nearly 3years trying I very much doubt it would have happened!
Thought I was having cramps this morning but its more like twinges/pinches, so not usual at all and I've had backache for 3days different areas but that could just be the way my sleeping. Grrrr I wish she would give me a sign she is coming so I could stop thinkin "what if"
I will test on Saturday if still no show!

 

[thenewmrshowe]

i can't seem to notice when I'm going to OV... I mean that would be beneficial to my knowledge I would assume... This whole game is stupid.. how come every person I know in high school and since has just up and gotten pregnant accidentally... And some of them didn't even want it... hmmm... just venting I guess

 

[Wishing_]

I hate the waiting game.

An hour ago a friend posted on FB that she heard her baby's heartbeat. I felt like crying

Yesterday I had some yellow snot like discharge. I keep reading that we get it when were pregnant unless it has a odor and itches which it doesn't.

I'm hoping this is my month.

 

[Lii24]

Fx for you wishing!
My friend keeps telling me about all her symptoms and I swear down they are preg symptoms if ever I've seen them, but she keeps doing it almost like she is trying to rub salt in a wound! I have to switch off from her because I'm jealous? Envious? I don't know!

Mrs Howe- you can vent all you like we all need to time to time!

still not arrived, had tiny bit of light brown discharge yesterday (sorry tmi) around 3.30pm so I thought for sure she would be here b tis morning but still nothing.
Starting to get annoyed more than anything as trying to tell myself it's not gunna happen as I don't wanna be disappointed with a like every month for nearly 3years!!
I had a hsg in September and this is my 2nd cycle since so maybe it's messed up due to that?
I hav no symptoms at all, we'll for last 2days felt nauseous when I woke up but I just assume I'm hungry.
Fell asleep midday yesterday too but put hat won to a pants night sleep.

Grrrr why is so frustrating! Wish we had a switch to turn on/off

 

[Wishing_]

I was nauseous all day yesterday but I ended up throwing up later on in the day.

So today I make a year with my childhood friend/bully & I'm debating if I should poas. I know it's way to early but what else could be a better gift?! ​

 

[Wishing_]

So I didn't poas. I was afraid that it would be a I didn't want to ruin my own day if it did came out negative. I'm praying that the doesn't come.

My friend is a week away from being 4 months pregnant. My cousins baby is due in December. Usually with my cousin someone else is pregnant because I remember my aunt tell us she was pregnant and my cousin couldn't be happier because her son wasn't the baby of the family. Let my future baby be the baby of the family!

Sorry for ranting!!

 

[littleone1993]

I handed my notice in today I am literally so happy!

My manager was an absolute arse and the look on her face when she realised I'd Finally snapped and found another job was priceless. Our notice is only a week and 4 of us (out of 6) supervisors have handed in our notice within the last 3 weeks because she is that much of an arse.

She changed overtime and shifts without ringing and asking/even telling us! And she treats us all like complete idiots.

But my new job is fabulous. I've known the manager for a few years as she's a family friend, we get on really well and it's a fabulous company. The maternity pay is amazing and they're so good to new and younger mums so I can't wait to start. It's just what I needed at the moment after the realisation that my TTC journey is more than likely going to turn into a LTTC journey.

My friend is slightly psychic though and she said I'd be pregnant by January. I don't know what to think though, I just never thought it'd take me this long in the first place! I've definitely made the right decision.