Bump and body issues

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So im 21 weeks friday but my bumps not very bumpy i just look fat still i seen girls on here and 17 and 18 weeks with big round bumps and even though i dont want to be massive i wish i looked a bit more pregnant rather than just fat sorry for the rant just makin me feel a bit down about my body latley anyone else have body blues since they got pregnant ??
 
I was really small at 21 weeks, didn't look pregnant at all with clothes on, I only got noticeably pregnant around 27 weeks, so don't worry most people don't get a proper bump until mid-late 20's, I did most of my growing from 30 weeks + and by 37 weeks I was measuring 5cm ahead :shock:, I wouldn't let it get you down, I bet you look fab really :hugs:
 
Yes i think most women feel pretty uncomfortable about their body especially during that early "fat or pregnant.??" stage Lol , but also through out their whole pregnancy , i know i still do.! but try not to worry about it too much :hugs: because it's all worth it for your little one
 
I felt the same as you! I saw pictures of bumps that were a few weeks behind me that looked about three times the size whereas I just looked fat! My bump started coming properly and big (as in you'd know I was pregnant and wouldn't look at me and wonder if I was fat or pregnant :haha:) when I was about 25 weeks. It'll come shortly :flower:
 
Enjoy the time without a bump. Seriously. Enjoy painting your toes and putting on shoes and seeing your feet while you can.
 
I was teeny tiny at 21 weeks, I looked like i'd just put on some extra pounds, everyone's bumps seem to develop at different rates. I've had people not notice I was pregnant even in the last few weeks, don't worry about it, you'll be bumpy enough soon and then you'll wish you LO would be out because you'll start to get uncomfortable. We can't win really :haha:
 
I bet you look great hun! And little bumpy will soon become massive :)
I'm just really down atm cos I've come to the realisation that I've literally just turned 22 and my body is RUINED :( I'm overweight from my last pregnancy even though I was abit chubby before, I've got natural Gcup breasts that sag down to my knees. My stomach really is something else, you'd have to see it to believe it even though its not as bad atm cos of being pregnant. It baffles my mind how my boyfriend can even bare to look at me tbh :(
Your probably better off having a lovely neat bump that after effects won't be so bad ;) lol

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as a pp said, enjoy your time without a bump! i was forever moaning about not looking pregnant and now i've ballooned - i can't sleep, put on shoes or look at myself without thinking "urgh fatty", not to mention the stretch marks :haha:

you'll get your bump soon don't worry, everyone grows at their own rate :flower:
 
I'm at the not sure if I'm looking chunky or pregnant and I hate it! I know it won't last long though.
 
I was teeny tiny at 21 weeks, I looked like i'd just put on some extra pounds, everyone's bumps seem to develop at different rates. I've had people not notice I was pregnant even in the last few weeks, don't worry about it, you'll be bumpy enough soon and then you'll wish you LO would be out because you'll start to get uncomfortable. We can't win really :haha:

Lol that's basically the same for me, it's horrible, I've had people say I don't look pregnant when I know I've put weight on makes me think I'm just fat :cry: :haha:
 
Everyone's bump grows differently and at different times. I'm sure one day you'll wake up and will have popped! At 40 weeks you'll wish you still had your small bump!
 

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