Can anyone help me make sense of these hpt? Terrified of another loss!

[hopemommy2015]

After suffering through 2 losses (one "chemical pregnancy," I hate that term) I have gotten another BFP! First one at 11 DPO although it was very very faint. I have tested every morning since, (now 15 DPO with no sign of AF) but I can't tell if these lines are getting fainter or if I should be worried that they are not getting darker or because they are so faint. I did switch tests from FRER to the dollar general brand (Baby one step) so maybe that could be why they aren't getting darker. I'm so scared of losing another but would rather know now then allow myself to get excited and be heart broken again. Please let me know what you guys think about these lines. I know the pictures aren't great but hopefully someone can relate. Thanks.

 

[bernie86]

The pictures are hard to see, but its very exciting! My advise would be just to wait til the end of the week before testing again and Im sure the line will be darker.... testing twice a day might drive you nuts. Good luck Im hoping its a nice bright BFP for you

 

[hopemommy2015]

Thank you. I've been testing once and day and it is driving me crazy. lol. I'm trying to wait until the week to see the doctor but it's so hard.
Hope you get your BFP soon too! Hopefully, its less stressful and confusing than mine. lol.

 

[KozmikKitten]

The reality is, even if your lines get darker, there is no gaurantee. You should allow yourself to feel some happiness over this BFP, because every baby deserves to be celebrated! I know, after 3 losses myself, that is very difficult to do.

I really hope this is a sticky one for you! But I agree, I think you should wait a couple days at least before you test again, so that you can see a definite change in the line.

 

[bernie86]

Thank you, Im not expecting any BFP this month since AF hasnt visited yet, but praying for the next cycle to bring good news! I hope you can let yourself get excited and praying for you to have a happy healthy pregnancy!!

 

[hopemommy2015]

KozmikKitten- Thank you. I am feeling hopeful and trying to be positive. It's so hard to not be obsessed. I'm also trying to hold back just in case. The first two devastated me.
bernie86- Thanks. I'll still be praying for your BFP asap.

 

[Blu10]

Firstly congratulations. Thats def a BFP on the 2nd FRER. I uaed very similar cheapies after a strikingly positive FRER and barely got a line so I wouldnt use them again. Id buy another FRER or clearblue digi but it definitely looks as though youre pregnant xx

 

[TTC 84]

Congratulations Hun I would test again in a couple of days I wouldn't stress about your lines I had absolutely perfect progression last bfp and it ended in MMC, so I don't think lines are a good indication of good or bad . Your definately pregnant xx

 

[sil]

I would also wait a few days (although I know I never listened to people who said that and still tested daily, haha! I know it's hard).

Also, I would not be comparing your FRER results to the results of the other tests. Lines and line progression can vary a lot on different brands, so it's never good to compare one brand to another. I'd try to stick to the same brand for comparisons. Good luck hun, come on sticky bean!!

 

[hopemommy2015]

Thank you all so much! I love this site! The support I feel is awesome! Plus, its so nice to have ladies who understand my crazy questions instead of just making me feel like a loon! lol.
I'm going to stop testing daily, mostly because I'm out of tests but also because I know that it's not healthy.
It's starting to sink in that I'm actually pregnant. I'm getting excited now! I have a feeling I'll be on here quite a bit. lol. Thanks again.