can fighting and yelling and stress cause misscarrige

[bbymammademi]

im ten weeks pregnant and me and my boyfriend fight every single day, but last night was the worst i was screaming crying and i even started hitting him. im so scared it could of harmed my baby please help

 

[KnitWit]

I would try not to worry unless you start experiencing unusually painful cramps or if you start bleeding. I don't think stress alone would cause a miscarriage.
There's no use worrying about it you will only make yourself ill. I really hope things sort themselves out for you soon.

 

[3boys]

its ok hun, i wouldnt make a habit of it but if getting stress out and arguing caused mc's i wouldnt have any children! x x

 

[jennifer28]

I dont think so, but ask ur doctor. I believe the baby is well protected. I do the same with my boyfriend. your hormones are just so out of control you just spaz out.

 

[bbymammademi]

thank you so much for the replies i just get so nervous im youngg and this is my first time doing any of this so i dont really kno anything

 

[daffire]

I do not think it would cause a miscarriage. But it is bad for your baby (following studies) and bad for you. Maybe take a small time off with your boyfriend or have a calm discussion of the solution to your issues.

 

[emilyrose.x]

miscarraige cant usually be explained hun but try not too worry - if you've not had any bleeding or severe cramps then take it all is ok me and my OH had a MASSIVE arguement a few weeks back and i can remember posting "can a huge argument cause a miscarraige to start? its just a worry - this is my first too we lost one in December at 7 weeks 2 days but hoping all goes okay this time happy and healthy 9 months bbz! (well 7 months now hehe ) x

 

[MLS]

Stress can cause a m/c but I dont thinkone bad fight is going to hurt anything. Dont worry.

Maybe try walking away froma situation until your both calmer, and then discussing it without yelling. Thats probably best for your baby.

 

[bbymammademi]

we fight all the time almost every day just little arguments and stuff but last night was the biggest fight weve ever had

 

[AFC84]

Not sure where in the world you are but could you try relationship counselling? Me and my OH have just started going to Relate and it's supposed to be really good. Definitely worth trying to make things calmer.

 

[bbymammademi]

i live in san diego californiaa, thanks i think ill try that

 

[AFC84]

Ahh ok, probably not called Relate like it is over here then but I expect there's a US equivalent...it's just a big organisation that offers all kinds of counselling...it's means tested so if you're on a low income then you may not have to pay. Good luck