Can I join? I feel I dont fit into TTC boards anymore

[Lilly123]

Hi all

Well we have been TTC for 9 months and I just feel like I dont fit into TTC board anymore as most of my cycle buddies have got their BFPs or have had a BFP before and I have never.... have got low sperm results from 4 home tests that DH did and going to doc next week for some more investigations.... I know i am meant to be 12 months ttc to join but I just feel like I dont belong in ttc section anymore it hurts to see BFPs that happen after 1 month and I cant deal with it anymore.... let me know if thats ok?

I understand if not.

 

[rachelle1975]

Hey Tanya

Hun this is for people who have problems conceiving as well as those who have been trying for a while - if you have low count and stuff of course you fit in here - funnily enough, sounds like my DH and your DH have something in common!!

Welcome to this board chick - everyone is lovely.

When will you guys start going for tests?xx

 

[miel]

Today it's hard for me too...i don't stop to see BFP from right to left !!!...

i feel like i am falling behind something ...you know like in school when everyone get good score and i am not

Welcome darling ...

 

[FJL]

You'll find lots of support in here, good luck for your tests

I don't even go into BFP announcements anymore...the only exception is if I notice a preg ticker on an LTTTer's profile, then I rush in to give my congrats.

 

[genkigemini]

Hi and welcome to the LTTTC boards.

This is the place you come to when you "outgrow" the TTC section. Everyone here is lovely and I am sure you'll love it here.

Good luck with your tests!

 

[Farie]

Hey chick, welcome, I've kinda moved over here, we have been TTC 12 months and are having lot's of tests at the mo to try to pinpoint why no BFP for us.
My 1st 21 day blood test came back as showing no Ov so not a great start but hey ho .... keep testing and we'll see what happens.

 

[CurlySue]

Today it's hard for me too...i don't stop to see BFP from right to left !!!...

i feel like i am falling behind something ...you know like in school when everyone get good score and i am not

Welcome darling ...

Or when everyone moves up to the next class and you are left lagging behind?

I look in the BFP announcement section sometimes and it really pains me that I don't recognise any of the names, that most of them signed up in September 2008 and are already pregnant.

Why not us, eh? Why can't WE be like that?

 

[Lilly123]

hi girls - thanks for the warm welcome.... it is so good to speak to people going through the same... thank you for allowing me to join... going to see doc next Friday and will have SA done on DH and tests done on me....I am definitely ovulating as have been charting and using OPKs but not sure about anything else... my mom took 10 years to conceive me and she had fibroids and endo so hope i dont have the same..... thanks for all the support... means alot!

 

[maz]

Hi :wave:

Welcome to our friendly little group. Good luck with the tests and if you have any questions or just need to have a good moan, you know where we are ...

 

[NikiJJones]

Hi Tanya,
I've just moved over here too. Everything has suddenly got to me, and I think it is about time I accepted that there's a problem.
Always here for you.

 

[trish30]

Hi
I have so much problems with ttc and i do not even know if the little hope that i have i should keep it up or just throw in the towel and forget everything. Sometime i think maybe we are not meant to have all the thing we wish for and for me it is all the most all the things. OMG, maybe i am depressed,LOL.

 

[HAYS]

Hey chickaroo welcome to this board!!!
we are all here to listen & help
xxxx