Can someone give me some encouragement?

[Beccaface]

Yea.
Or people who don't even want one...
I want one!
My OH's sister had one and she didn't even want him.
xxx

 

[floofymad]

Fully understand hun x it's so hard.
People all around are having babies, and it seems so easy for them. Every programme on tv is about babies and it makes you want it more.
I haven't touched a drop since January and daren't do certain things, in case it's happening inside, but I don't know.
Friends of mine have waited ages and had to have some help, but they've got there in the end. Stick in there and it'll be your time soon.... x

 

[Beccaface]

Thanks for your kind words love.
xxx

 

[Jay_Bird]

Just have to keep thinking how worth it it's going to be

xOxOx

 

[Beccaface]

I know.
All except the labour gah.
xxx

 

[floofymad]

Yeah, especially after some of the stories I've heard!

 

[Beccaface]

Haha, I'll have my OH holding my hand.
& My mother if she forgives me for getting pregnant in the first place lol.
xx

 

[Jay_Bird]

Haha!
Forward thinking, that's more like it

xOxOx

 

[Beccaface]

Haha.
I really hope my mother doesn't kill me.
She isn't going to be best pleased lol.
x

 

[Jay_Bird]

Oh dearrr
Well at the end of the day if this is what you want then you should just go for it.
Why would she not be happy about it?!

xOxOx

 

[Beccaface]

I'm only 20.
And my mother is a pain the butt.
She controls me a little bit.
xx

 

[Jay_Bird]

Ahhh!
I know what you mean!
I got my tongue pierced for my 18th from my Sister and my Dad didn't talk to me for two weeks hahaha!!!

Babies are different though no one can resist them, so it's guaranteed she'll come round

xOxOx

 

[Beccaface]

That's what my OH says...or something along those lines
His mum already has a grandchild and his nan has 2 great grandchildren.
So we need a girl & EVERYONE will love us on his side lol.
xx

 

[Jay_Bird]

Haha!
Well then that's something!
Are you hoping for a girl in particular or do you not mind?!

xOxOx

 

[Beccaface]

I would LOVE a girl.
But I reeeeaaallly don't mind.
Like if I had a boy, I'd love him just as much.
What about you?
xx

 

[Lalah]

Hey Beccaface. I only read your posted so what I'm about to say might be covered/said by one of the other ladies. Could the problem be because your trying so hard? We all know how much it sucks to walk by 17 year old girls and see them pushing baby carriages. Or a family with 4 or 5 kids. I think, actually I believe that your trying too hard, and we all know that if we push something it'll only take longer. Let nature take it's course. Stop charting, stop obsessing (even though I know it's hard) and just let things go with the flow and tell yourself "if it happens, it happens" and I'm sure next month we will all be congratulating you on your BFP. I actually had a girlfriend tell me today that I'm looking into things too much, and I stopped and thought to myself "wow she's right". She even said the more you drive yourself crazy the more stress you'll put on the baby if in fact your pregnant. That's why I'm trying to help other women on her instead of googling and search my own symptoms.

I wish you and your partner all the best, and I promise you it will happen but you just have to relax. FX

 

[Beccaface]

Yea, I'm actually stopping symptoms spotting, I'm sick of doing it.
It's tiring me out. I'm going to let nature do what it has to do.
Thanks Lalah.
xxx

 

[schnoodle]

hey sweetie how are you today?? your never out til the witch shows hun xx

 

[Beccaface]

I'm ok. I'm having a few cramps and pulling sensations.
Which are never good.
I'm really gasses, so pains might be that.

Thanks for posting hunny.
Love you.
xxx

 

[schnoodle]

gassy is good hun, you know where i am if you need a chat x