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[Starry Night]

Good luck, Kasey!

Sabster - sometimes it can take awhile for our bodies to return to normal after a m/c. It usually takes me about 2 or 3 months to feel completely like myself. Though I do hope AF is staying away because a bfp is on its way!

afm - no AF yet. My cycles have been 40 days long for the past two years and it seems this latest m/c hasn't messed with that system. If anything, I think it may be coming a bit later as I *think* I got some ovulation signs 3 days later than I was expecting. It is tough to tell with this wacky cycle. I will probably test again this Friday as that is when AF should be due if I were to have a 40 day cycle but I could possibly be only 11dpo if I ovulated when I think I did.

I also bought a basal thermometre today so will start temping for the next couple of cycles. I don't plan on doing it long term but I hope it can shed some light on what is going on and maybe add some extra info when I see the fertility specialist someday (still waiting to get officially referred)

 

[Kasey84]

BFN today...so depressing Since my cycles are a bit wacky, I'll test again if AF doesn't show within a week.

This is so frustrating!

 

[Sabster]

Sorry to hear about BFN!! don't lose hope... it's not always easy but dont become hopeless!

goood luck

 

[Starry Night]

I guess I should update. I got a bfn on Friday but I was expecting it. Not really getting overpowering preggo signs though I am getting some. I think my body is still going haywire because of the m/c. It usually takes me several months to return to normal. AF should be due today at the latest but as I didn't get any obvious ov signs this month I'm not sure when to actually expect it to show.

My OB appointment is this week so am hoping it arrives before then (or I get a bfp, of course)

 

[Kasey84]

Good luck Starry night! I hope you get a BFP! My cycles have been messed up since my mc as well and I never quite know when to expect AF! I know how frustrating it is!

 

[Kasey84]

Hi ladies!
I tested again this morning and finally got my

Thrilled, excited, and terrified all at once!

Spreading the to you all!

 

[Sunnyleah]

Congrats Kasey!!!

 

[Starry Night]

Oh wow, Kasey!!! That is so awesome!!! Have a happy and healthy 9 months!

afm - day late and still no AF. Will try to wait until Wednesday to test again (only one test left) but may cave and test tomorrow.

 

[Sabster]

CONGRATS KACEY!!!!

NO AF here.. I think im on CD 41 now... wow. I'm going nuts. I took a test and it was BFN, I might take another one... Im very confused, moody and annoyed!!!

 

[sallyhansen76]

Congradulations Kasey!!!

Im spreading some dust too to all you lovely ladies. xxxx

 

[Starry Night]

CONGRATS KACEY!!!!

NO AF here.. I think im on CD 41 now... wow. I'm going nuts. I took a test and it was BFN, I might take another one... Im very confused, moody and annoyed!!!

I'm on CD43 here but my cycles have been 40 days exactly for the past two years. I had a bfn on Friday the day before AF was due so I'm officially going longer than that this time. And I'm so with you on being moody and annoyed and very much confused! I normally know exactly where I am in my cycle based of how I'm feeling but I have been getting mixed signals the entire time.

I hope we're both on our ways to a new bfp!

Kasey - is your doctor going to be watching you extra closely this time?

Sally - looks like things are still going OK for you. How have you been feeling?

 

[Kasey84]

Sabster- good luck if you test again! Keep us updated!

Starry night- if your cycles are normally regular and your late, that's a good sign! Keep us posted!

I'm seeing my doctor Wednesday and definitely hoping she will monitor me closely and get me an early ultrasound.

 

[Starry Night]

It may be a few days before testing. I'm not sure. DH is really pushing for me to wait. I only have one test left and they are so costly to get more.

I'm actually hoping I'm late with my cycle because if I ovulated on CD26 like I normally do then I would be without any chances. I didn't BD at all the week leading up to that day. I don't think I BD'd until the day after. But I got ewcm on CD28. So we'll see.

I hope your doctor will be willing to monitor you more closely. So far I haven't had any luck with that. I'm hoping my number of losses will finally garner sympathy once I do get pregnant again.

 

[Sabster]

I tested again and it was BFN, I guess my body is trying to go back to normal? Im not really sure what's going on. I'm trying not to stress out and just let me body return to normal so I can hopefully one day become pregnant.

I hope you are all doing well !!!!!

 

[Starry Night]

I got another bfn as well and still no sign of AF. But my OB appointment is tomorrow. Hopefully, I can get testing underway.

 

[Kasey84]

I'm sorry for the bfn Sabster and starry night. I'm sending lots of baby dust your way.

I want to say thanks to all you wonderful ladies for your support over the past few months. It's gotten me through the darkest time of my life. I pray you all get BFP's soon and join me in the PAL group. xo

 

[Starry Night]

I see the OB today so I hope testing can get underway soon. I was on the fertility clinic's website and they say they want all the basic tests to be done by the doctor or OB beforehand...including a basic semen analysis on hubby. The website also claims a 3 to 6 month wait which isn't too bad especially since my doctor told me a year.

 

[sallyhansen76]

Starrynight, Thank you. Everything has been a bit of a rough go. but i ve made it through to 2nd tri and baby is ehalthy. I got HG and was hospitalized few times. Find out gender on wednesday! As long as baby is healthy i ll take whatever pain and problems comes my way.

Im stilll checking in on your girls and cheering you all on! xxx

 

[Starry Night]

Sally - sorry to hear that you have HG. I'm such a wuss when it comes to the slightest bit of nausea so I can't imagine how you tough ladies cope with it all. I hope it eases for you. Our rainbows are definitely worth all the troubles in pregnancy but it would still be nice if there weren't any!

afm - saw the OB today and it looks like I won't have to be referred to the fertility clinic. I got the genetic screening and other blood work done today. So did DH (glad he happened to be with me as I didn't know it would be happening that soon). It's not a thorough testing which makes me a little disappointed but the OB thinks that I have as good a chance as any for my next pregnancy to carry to term.

 

[Starry Night]

Well, it looks like the witch finally caught me. I'm just glad this cycle is over. I hope things are more normal next time out.