I hate saying this, but I really can't stand my 6 year old! He doesn't listen at all and constantly argues with us. I have to tell him to do something several times and then he yells "OK!" and stomps off to do it. He argues about everything and constantly has a bad attitude! When we tell him he's not going to be able to do XYZ because of something he did, he will say "yes I am" "I AM going to do XYZ" over and over again. He constantly picks on his younger brothers which makes them cry and whine. When I tell him not to do something he will continue to do it. He lies so much, I don't believe anything he says anymore. He will even lie over the smallest things. We've tried rewarding him for good behavior and punishing him for bad, but nothing seems to work. It seems like he never learns not to do something because it will get him in trouble. Things are so much better when he is at school and its just his younger brothers (ages 4 & 2). I don't know what to do with him! I feel like I'm constantly yelling at him and it's hurting our relationship. Is this just a phase? Will he grow out of it? Should I take him to counseling or something? Please help!