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have done some surfing on the subject of sitting too early and some say if you sit them early ie not able to support themselves with their hands that it can be harmful to their spines.....but this is not evidence based research, so ill ask my boss and try and find some actual research. conor can support himself now and turns in circles using his hands.....i dont wnat him to start bum shuffling so i keep putting him on his tummy alot and lift his hind legs to encourage crawling!!!!
 
Sorry trixie, I didn't mean for you to take your time to research, but thank you for the input!! It sounds ok then because she does support herself, she just can't pull herself up when lying flat yet. She has been desperately trying to crawl. She gets on her knees and rocks back and forth, yesterday she even hopped forward a couple times and then I think she is going to do it and then she just pushes her legs out and lands on her tummy. I've been thinking she is going to crawl any day now for the past month lol!
So I think Giada has a tooth coming in. I gave her a big chunk of pear tonight to munch on (I thought the blw info said it was ok) and the next think I know she bites off a big chunk and I freaked out. I stuck my finger in her mouth to scoop it out but I have long nails and was worried I scratched her so I asked dh to use his finger to check her mouth and when he did she bit down and he felt a tooth. So I put my finger there and sure enough there was something hard and scratchy poking through but she wouldn't let me look at it. Does this mean I am in for it tonight? She had a tough time going down for naps today and didn't take as long of naps as normal. I guess we'll see how tonight goes. How long does the pain usually last for them?
Love your new avatar trixie! Conor looks adorable!!! Can't believe how big they are getting. I am going to miss having a "baby" I wish this period lasted a bit longer. Hey if you end up with multiples you can send one my way ha ha! I'd love to have another baby without the pregnancy! I wish it were that easy. What are your chances of conceiving multiples again? Did the dr say there was a good chance?
Hope everyone is doing well!
 
if you felt something scratchy on her gum, thats defo a tooth, and its prob cut already....conor was a nitemare 2weeks before cutting so you have missed the worse part!!

havent asked the doctor, in fact i havent seen a doctor for me since my post natal!!!.....still havent went in for my smear.....just made a mental note....must do that this week or next!
 
just googled again!!!!! im 5 times more likely to conceive multiples cause i conceived identical twins and a 3rd non identical.....its the non identical that are hereditory and could cause me to have more!
i was actually so surprised conor was on his own!! tobaira i dont know how you do it....i would love my girls to be here but conor is enough work for me!!!
 
You are going to be dying for that first ultrasound next time around trixie!! I always thought I wanted twins but I think I would die. Although I would like 2 but don't want to go through pregnancy again, so maybe I would have been happy in that respect. I don't know if my body would have held up though.
So last night was AWFUL!!! Giada woke at 11:30 and was up for half an hour. Not too bad since I hadn't even gone to bed yet . But then she woke again at almost 3:30 and would wake and cry every time I put her down. She did this for 2 hours!!! I am so tired today. I can feel scratchiness of the tooth but I really can't see anything?? She doesn't really let me look so it is hard, but I have gotten some glimpses of her gums and I don't see a thing-but both dh and I definitely feel it. I'm going to see if some motrin might help her sleep tonight.
 
Ways Motrin?? Is that like calpol??which is paracetamol ... I had to give Conor some agin today! He was wit the childminder today and woke from his last nap at 1.45pm and was soooo tired when he came home !! He had a nap at 6 pm!! Never again, it took me till 9 to get him to sleep... I hope he sleeps now...

I think the worst is over so hopefully when she cuts the tooth she will get some relief! But Conor's seem to be going on forever!
 
Hi ladies!! How are you all? Whew, lots to catch up on since I've been off on vacation.....

First, Dreamer, I am so sorry that you, your sister, and family are having to go through such a tough time. I hope things are getting better for you all now. I know how you feel about letting it out on here...it was the same when we were going through my brother being in rehab for drugs as I didn't want people around here knowing about it.....it really is a good outlet to get some support and :hugs: without everyone you know personally all in your family's business.

Tobaira and Fizzio...good to hear from you. Sounds like the girls are doing great Tobaira; and so glad you and Amber are doing well and that your PND is improving for you Fizzio.

Claire, good to hear you and Darcy are doing well too!!

Trixie, your new avatar of Conor is sooo cute! And good luck with the TTC/NTNP. I kinda wish we were already NTNP, but as I got the Mirena IUD put in, it's a "no-go" for a while. I originally wanted to wait till Jan 2014 to start TTC again, but now I'm thinking when I go for my annual OB appt in Feb, I may have it taken out and just do NTNP for a while. I hate that I got it put in really (I like the Mirena ok, but I still haven't had a period, even when I stopped BF and I just feel like it's probably not the safest thing having a foreign object in my body). I think my post-pregnancy hormones got the best of me and I "jumped the gun" so to speak, and got it without really thinking it through. I really would have it taken out now, but keep thinking about all the money I spent on it and feel like it would be a waste to have only had it 4 months when it's supposed to last 5 years. Oh well, I'm still fairly young, 28, so have plenty of time to have another baby, but have always wanted my kids close in age. I have always thought I'd only want 2; but since having Jack, I would be open to a 3rd. Just when I think about only being able to go through pregnancy only 1 more time really makes me sad....call me crazy, but I LOVED being pregnant!! I miss it so much. Especially feeling him kick and move around. Maybe that's why I think I'm ready to do it again....

Stranje...it def sounds like Giada has cut her first tooth!! Sounds exactly like how Jack cut his first. No warning, just felt a sharp bit in his mouth when he bit down on my finger...It was a few days before I actually saw it. Then his 2nd one cut through the very next day! He really hasn't had too hard of a time with it so far. Hopefully, it won't be too bad for her...or you. I did have to give him some Ibuprofen a few times just to help him sleep, and it did seem to work.

So we just got home from the beach on Monday. We had a great time. Jack did really well with everything. Except for he HATED the ocean waves. He would cry every time I'd put him in the water and let the waves hit his legs. I think it was the loud noises the waves made. (he hates loud noises...sometimes if someone sneezes or coughs loudly, it makes him cry!). But he loved the pool and playing in the sand under the shade. I'll post a few pics in the next post.

I know none of you live in the southest US, but we are preparing for Hurricane Isaac. We actually left the beach just in time as everyone was starting to board up buildings and prepare for Isaac to make landfall. I live in central Mississippi, so we won't get the actual hurricane, but we will likely get lots of storms and heavy winds; still enough to do lots of damage. (when Katrina hit, we were without power for nearly 2 weeks). So hopefully things won't get that bad this time. I'll try to keep y'all updated on things.

Hope everyone is well.
 
Here's a few pics.....The second one is of him crying when we let the waves touch him...bless his heart!
 

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And here are a few that we took in our "family photo session" which we ended up taking with my camera and had my brother's friend be the photographer since the professional pics would have cost a fortune...I still think they all turned out nicely though....
 

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Lady, those are such LOVELY pictures. I love the beach, it reminds me we should take Darcey down sometime and get some pictures taken. I hope Issac doesn't effect you too much.

Trixie and Stranje, I hope your LO's are sleeping better and the teething is improving.

Dreamer, how's things?

Sorry have to go, baby crying x
 
ahh isnt he sooooo cute!

im jealous, the rain was hideous here today, like a bloody monsoon, without the heat!!!

my really good friend got engaged today.....im really pleased obviously, but sad that i know that james has no intention of asking me! he is just so set in his ways!
id love to get married!
 
What beautiful pics ladyl!!! Jack is such a cutie!!! And those pictures totally look professional! We want get some done too but they are so expensive here! So glad you had a good trip and I really hope everything is ok with the storm. I could never live in hurricane areas. I would probably have a heart attack from anxiety lol! We get the earthquakes here, but I will take that any day over hurricanes. Praying that you guys stay safe and no damage is done! Keep us posted!

Trixie motrin is ibprofin. Do you guys have that there? One of our most popular brands is advil. I had never heard of calpol. I don't think we have that here. Weird how we have different medicines!
I wish we had some of that rain! We are melting over here! (I know I can't complain, it's much hotter everywhere else)

So I still can't see Giada's tooth. The night before last was HORRIBLE!!! SHe was up from 12:30-3am and she screamed for 45 minutes of it. I had given her motrin before bed since it seemed to work the night before (the night before I gave it to her when she woke up at 10pm and then she slept the rest of the night) Well I guess it didn't last as long this time. So then I gave her more at 2am and 10 minutes later she started crying and crying and wouldn't stop. She had a ton of gas and as soon as she stopped the gas the crying stopped. I'm wondering if the second dose of motrin upset her stomach. I can't take too much ibprofin or it upsets my stomach. Anyway that night was awful so last night I tried the more natural approach and bought hylands teething tablets. I gave her those before bed and two doses of camilla, the other natural teething stuff, and she slept all the way through again!! Yay, I was so happy. And to make things even better, I had gotten a calium+magnesium supplement to help with sleep for dh to take and it is the first night in a while where he didn't wake me up with weird sleep habits. I woke up quite a bit expecting things from both of them, but that is fine, at least I was able to fall right back asleep. It was heaven! I gave the same teething stuff tonight and hoping it will work again. She spit up some of her last bottle so hopefully the teething stuff stayed in her stomach! Crossing my fingers that she and dh sleep peacefully again!
How's everyone else doing? Sorry you didn't have much time for an update claire!!
 
well conor has now given me the cold!!! thanks button!

i wonder is there any remedies i can give him other than calpol....which is paracetamol!

he slept terrible the other night...woke at 3.30 and that was him till 9 am and he was sooo tired! last night was better only up from 10-10.30 and then 530 then woke for the day at 7.30.....i have ordered ambesol liquid as i heard its better than the gel and astons and parsons from amazon....they are brilliant but they only put them back on the market or on amazon anyway just recently....

need to go.....mithering!!!!
 
Oh no trixie!!! I hope you both feel better soon. No fun at all. I have not been sick in years (unless you count my weird muscle problems that give me pain) Every time I think i am getting sick, or am around sick people, I eat raw cloves of garlic. I know everyone thinks I'm weird and gross and I admit that I don't smell well for a while, but I have not been sick for a long time!! My problem is that when I actually do get sick, I get REALLY sick! I'll end up n bed for a week with the flu or even pneumonia I had once, and it's never just a cold that goes away in a week. For now I'm sticking to my garlic remedy even though I don't smell very pleasant!

Thanks Claire! Giada has had 2 good nights since I started the hylands teething tablets. I give her 3 at bed time, 2 doses of camilla, and 6 squirts of gripe water and for two nights in a row her teeth didn't bother her at all. DH did ok last night. He only woke me up once right after I fell asleep, so not too bad. I did make a poor decision and flipped giada from tummy to back at 6am and I accidentally woke her up and I think she got a bit shocked and started crying. BUt I just ssshhh'd and patted her and she stopped right away, babbled for about 15 minutes and fell back asleep on her tummy and I left her. So it was my fault and I didn't have to get up. I think the teething tablets have really helped. Her schedule was really off today as we were gone all day and she didn't get proper naps, so not sure how tonight will go. Crossing my fingers. What is paracetamol?? Do we have that here under a different name? I'm glad Darcey is over her cold. It must be so scary when they are having breathing issues. I think I'd be up all night freaked out!! Glad it is over with for her! Congrats on you dh getting a job! Hope it turns out to be something he likes! What finger foods is darcey eating. I'm still scared to death about choking!
I highly recommend the hyland teething tablets!!! What a difference the last two nights have been. I think the combination of that and the camilla and gripe water (which I always give her before bed) has made a huge difference.
Hope everyone is having a nice weekend.
Ladyl- I've been meaning to ask how your brother is doing? Any updates? I hope things are going smoothly :hugs:
 
Hi all,
Lady what cute pics of Jack and lovely one of the two of you. Glad you had a lovely time. I hope Isaac doesnt affect you too much.

Trix sorry to hear about Conors cold, how is he doing now? And how are you feeling?

Claire glad Darcey is doing better now, would have been horrible with the struggling to breath, thankfully Erin hasnt had a bad cold yet. Sure it will come any time though!! And congrats on your hubbys job :)

Stranj, I think usually you have paracetamol as acetaminophen or in branded form in the US as tylenol or panadol or alternatives... In the UK its quite often sold as paracetamol, and Calpol lists it as the ingredient. It's an alternative to Ibuprofen. It's really funny seeing someone say whats paracetamol because in the UK its such a common pain relief and a widely known name, you just take it for granted everyone calls it that lol

And glad you've had a couple of good nights sleep with the teething granules. Erin had a few awful nights but the last 2 shes slept a 9 hour stretch so I've been able to catch up a bit, although my OH really annoys me when he leaves for work as he is so blimin loud and I'm awake for about an hour when he goes before falling back to sleep. Really need to have words with him.

Got to go...will be back on as not finished lol
xx

ETA: sorry about that.
Erin is now 7 months, 18.2lb (following the 75th centile line) and 70cm long. Shes such a little poppet, love all the smiles and giggles, she just melts my heart


Things are ok with my sister. Still waiting on counselling but my sister does seem to be in a much better place, obviously not fine yet or anything but shes been very open and willing to get help and she starts a new job in a week so i think that will give her a lot to focus on and motivate her.

I think she has a bit of a problem with drink, not an alcoholic but her whole social life revolved around drink and she doesnt know when shes had enough. Shes decided not to drink anything for a month and she says she wants to get to the point where she could just have a couple of drinks. She said to me yesterday shes realised she doesnt need to drink to have fun which is a good start. Its really hard for me to understand as I'm not a drinker, I'll have the odd baileys or an irish coffee more because i like the taste but other than that i havent had anything else to drink since becoming pregnant, and even before i would rarely have more than 1 or 2 malibu and cokes on a rare night out.

shes keeping busy for now so thats good, just hope the counselling app comes through soon. not sure if we have a mental health crisis team but will look into it, although the way things are right now i wouldnt say she needs it but would be good for her to be able to speak to them if she felt she needed to

thanks ladies :D
 
Claire if my OH surprised me with a ring I'd die from the shock!!!!

Good to hear from you girls, glad everything is well with your sister dreamer. It will take time and a lot of support but hopefully the new job will make her focus on something else.

Girls I'm sooo sick, I feel it going into my chest now! Typical! I've no immune system, I'd love to take the garlic Stranje but like do you just eat a clove straight?? is it not horrible?? I love garlic in food but not sure I could do that!!
I'll have to go to the chemist tomorrow or if my chest is bad I'll go to the doctor and get an antibiotic cause this just won't go away like a normal cold it will prob turn into a chest infection!! Conor is getting a bit better but he is still sneezing and has abit of a rattle so may get him seen to as well!

Teething is a bloody nightmare! I wish he would just get them all at once and be done with it!
 
Hi all. Feeling slightly more human today!! Conor seems a little better too but his top teeth are defo cutting !

He is really trying to crawl, he has learnt to move by turning on belly all fours then sticks one leg up and falls back on his bum, he does this continuously and manages to get half way cross the room, I need to start baby proofing soon!!!

How is everyone???
 
Hi Everyone!
Dreamer so glad your sister is feeling a bit better at the moment. She is lucky to have you and I hope she sticks with cutting down on drinking. Alcohol is a depressant and unfortunately it is what everyone turns to when depressed as it can temporarily numb the pain, but it actually makes you more depressed. It's so hard and I just hope she stays motivated and gets some help so she can get on a good path. Sometimes people just need a little push and then do really well :hugs:

Trixie so glad you are feeling a bit better! This teeth thing is awful! I could finally see Giada's tooth coming through today so it must have grown a bit. She was in a grumpy mood all day so I'm curious how tonight will go. The teething tablets so far have really helped her not wake during the night (or at least not cause her to cry) Last night she woke 2 or three times and cried for like one second and then kept sleeping. It was really bizarre. I feel like she was maybe uncomfortable but too tired to wake up and cry about it. So far with the use of the teething tablets it hasn't been to bad at all, but I don't know if I am through the worst of it, or if the worst is going to start now that the tooth is moving more through Plus I feel the other one right under the gums. I guess we'll see!

Ladyl, are you and your family ok after the storm. I'm not sure where you are located in relevance to the damage. HOpe you are all safe :hugs:

Hope everyone is doing well. I still wonder about futuremama. I wish we would hear from her. I pm'd her a while ago but nothing :( Hope she is ok. Hope all you other ladies are ok too. Haven't heard from baby777 for a while and some of the other new moms. I guess everyone is overwhelmed as we should be right now!
 
Conor started to crawl today!!!! Now the fun starts!!
 

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