CD1 Today, need your help to plan this month... Tired of AF- Help me getting my BFP

[apms]

Hello everyone,

I have just got my AF and really very sad right now, we are TTC from past 4 months now, I need suggestions and recommendations from you ladies on how should I plan this cycle.

The first 3 months of my trying was really improper, I dint knew about ovulation and we dint BDed properly during those months but the last month I took OPK and BD perfectly but still got my AF. I had some symptoms as well but may be they were for something else!!!


I have cycle of 28 to 30 days. I am 23 years old and DH 24 years old.


This month we are planning to BD on CD 11, CD 13, CD 14, CD 15, CD 16, CD 17, CD 18


We wont BD before CD 11 because I want my DH to produce enough sperm and for me to gain that interest in doing the deed.



Now I wanted to know:

# Should I take folic acid or anything to get better chance of getting pregnant? or should I take any particular food? I dont want to take any tablets without doctor prescription just in case if it spoils anything for baby... too much of folic acid may do damages as well???


# Is my plan of doing the deed is perfect? I heard some say we should do once in 2 days for DH to produce enough sperm and some says we should do it daily on fertile days.



I would really appreciate if anyone could be with me and suggest me to go through this entire month... Seriously need your suggestions ladies... pls!!!

 

[tamil girl]

Jus Dont worry dear. Its perfectly normal to feel down when you Dont succeed while TTC.. we have been TTC with our first baby for the past 5 months.. this is the sixth month and I become equally upset every month.. jus stay positive.. am with u.. as far as the folic acid is concerned I have started it this month.. am on CD 7. I believe that bd ing on alternative days during or fertile period helps more to produce sperms which r of good quality.. and if possible b d Twice on the day when u r planning to.. for eg if its on cd14 do it twice that day.. stay cool n pray .. thats all.. all pray for u..

 

[tamil girl]

Sorry, I meant I ll pray for u

 

[apms]

nandri tamil girl (Thank you)



I am not sure how to know the exact day of ovulation... I would like to know when the white discharge comes? Is it during ovulation or before ovulation or after ovulation? Last month I had few drops of white discharge on CD 13 and huge discharge of CD 14.

 

[baby_rose]

sort of kinda with you, currently CD15 out of 29-30 day cycles, cycle #2 I'm 22 bf is 25 all I can tell you is we gatta take our temps which I myself just started doing this cycle and I'm trying to get used to it lol, we cant go to war with out no weapons lmao (opk's and thermometers) IDK about you but it sorta freaks out my bf he believes its magically going to happen and reality is sometimes we gatta push a little more, I hate not being in control and after coming off my pills in september my body has gotten into a wack mode and it gets to me somedays i cry somedays im mad hehehehe... dont let it get to you mentally

 

[apms]

Hello Everyone,

I had white discharge on Monday morning, it was just a drop and on Monday night I had huge white discharge does that mean I ovulated on Monday?

Luckily I did the deed on Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday and will continue doing it for next 4 days at least.


When does this white discharge comes exactly? Before ovulation or during ovulation or after ovulation?

 

[Aiysh]

hi, hope u get a bfp! the sticky discharge or wet discharge (like water) is fertile and if you got a huge blob of egg white cervical mucus (its stretchy) that's a sign you're o'ing or are going to ovulate really soon. the white non stretchy pasty like cream stuff is after you ovulate until your period (but it doesn't mean youre not pregnant) hope that helps, also hang in there its not a long time you've been ttc'ing! it can healthy couples up to a year, I was panicking as well, but im ttc month 9 now and Im trying to remind myself it can take between a year and a half, I googled how long it took women to get bfps and many were well up to a year or over a year so hang in there!

I would definetly take folic acid from now as your ttc'ing and a good TTC multivitamin (they have folic acid already in them and other things ttc'ers need and they don't have vit a which is good as you don't want high levels of that)

xx

 

[apms]

Thanks for your reply, it seems I already ovulated and it was early this month for me Anyways I did my deed now its upto those little swimmers to find egg and get me BFP!!! lol

Anyways I am bit worried to take any kind of medicine without consulting doctor so will just try like this for few months and then consult doctor if I dont get pregnant.

 

[apms]

Hello everyone,

Hope someone can help me.

It is DPO 3 today for me and I am getting some body pains specially my right hand and fingers and I also felt bit dizzy few hours back.

Could this be related to anything I am expecting?

 

[apms]

I am confused!!!!

Until now I was thinking I ovulated early this month on CD 11 or 12th as I had huge discharge which usually comes when I ovulate or about to ovulate... but to my surprise I received small amount of discharge again on my CD 15 and CD 16 placing me in doubt on when I ovulated? I dont do charts and dint even used OPK this month.


When you think I ovulated?

CD 11 when I had huge amount of discharge which is same as I get every month when I ovulate

or

CD 15 when I had just small very small amount of discharge on my undies??


I have headache and body pains from yesterday.

 

[DosPinkies]

A lot of women have fertile CM for whatever reason after they ovulate. You may very well have ovulated back on CD 11 like you thought, especially since it was a large amount. If I were you, if you don't get your BFP this month, I would start temping and using OPK's. It will take a lot of the guesswork out of figuring out your ovulation date, and you'll be able to relax and know you timed things right.

 

[apms]

Thanks for your reply DosPinkies, so can this discharge be good sign of TWW? or its just be some infection or some left out or something such? I had this small amount of discharge twice after ovulation.

 

[DosPinkies]

Here's an article that might give you some more information about it.
https://www.justmommies.com/getting...ction/ewcm-egg-white-cervical-mucous-after-ov

 

[apms]

Thanks for your the link. I will check it right away.

I feel like getting periods anytime soon but I am too early for it now. Hope its a good sign. Fingures crossed

 

[apms]

I am bit worried now, all my symptoms disappeared, I feel completely normal now

I just had white egg white drops yesterday night on my V, is that a good sign?

Really worried and tensed.

 

[apms]

Need your help, I have or had following symptoms:


1 DPO: Nothing

2 and 3 DPO: Headache and dizziness

4 DPO: Had dizziness just once in morning and then found egg white discharge on my undies which I just get 1 day before AF and never before that. I just get egg white discharge during my ovulation but this month I got it several time after ovulation

5 DPO: Nothing just had egg white discharge on my undies again today it would be very small

6 DPO: Had stomach pain and felt like getting AF for a hour or so

7 DPO: Had stomach pain

8 DPO: All symptoms gone and nothing now ... was really tensed

9 DPO: No symptoms and I just saw egg white discharge on my undies

10 DPO: No symptoms just leg pain comes and goes frequently



What you guys think?

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Ladies my husband was doing male research yesterday and told me it's effective to have sex every other day after the woman is off her period. This ensures the sperm is consist through the month. Men fire low sperm if they have been inactive for a while

He also mentioned men need to be aroused a lot before sex in order for the sperm to travel far. 30 odd minutes of foreplay!

He has ordered some wellman pills to boost his sperm count.

Lets hope this mixed with preeseed and opk's brings us our long awaited peanut!

 

[Merrier12]

Ladies my husband was doing male research yesterday and told me it's effective to have sex every other day after the woman is off her period. This ensures the sperm is consist through the month. Men fire low sperm if they have been inactive for a while

He also mentioned men need to be aroused a lot before sex in order for the sperm to travel far. 30 odd minutes of foreplay!

He has ordered some wellman pills to boost his sperm count.

Lets hope this mixed with preeseed and opk's brings us our long awaited peanut!

Good to know! Thank you!
Where did you get your preeseed?!

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Ladies my husband was doing male research yesterday and told me it's effective to have sex every other day after the woman is off her period. This ensures the sperm is consist through the month. Men fire low sperm if they have been inactive for a while

He also mentioned men need to be aroused a lot before sex in order for the sperm to travel far. 30 odd minutes of foreplay!

He has ordered some wellman pills to boost his sperm count.

Lets hope this mixed with preeseed and opk's brings us our long awaited peanut!

Good to know! Thank you!
Where did you get your preeseed?!

Ordered it off Amazon.

I don't know how much of this is true but hubby is still researching and found out today that men shouldn't have hot showers or sit in saunas before sex. Apparently the sperm dies in heat. Balls should be kept in a cool dry place before sex...and we thought we were all technical. Humph! Too many factors to think about.

 

[apms]

My CM is dry again today I am around 11 DPO today. I think I am out for this month. All symptoms are gone, dry CM and nothing else left for me to keep any hopes.