emyandpotato
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Having a bit of a wobble about my ceremony. It was going to be in this room but I'm having doubts. It's bigger in reality, by the way.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...402.1073741829.120148354715236&type=3&theater
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...7629912.105040.120148354715236&type=3&theater
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...76536954.94164.307106799382506&type=3&theater
There is also this room, which is their standard ceremony room, but there's something about it that doesn't feel right to me![Shrugg :shrug: :shrug:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/srug.gif)
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?..._402230466536805_578175305_n.jpg&size=960,640
Then there is the church. As churches go it's stunning, can't fault it. Thing is, we're not religious. OH's family are Catholic, but my OH is clueless about Christianity and in fact any religion. I study theology and can appreciate religion and think there are many good points but at the same time a great deal of modern Christian teachings make me quite angry and I don't agree with them. This is the church, by the way:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...62570593.69416.307106799382506&type=3&theater
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...76536954.94164.307106799382506&type=3&theater
Pros of venue room:
- Quirky and unique, fits with the day
- Can have the humanist ceremony we planned for
- Can have people sitting on the floor, moroccan rugs, etc etc
- No time constraints
- Free
- Right next to reception
- It is a lovely room
Cons of venue room:
- Looking at photos, I'm unsure about certain aspects, particularly the black framed painting above the fireplace and that bloody carpet
- Worry about chairs and having to move them from ceremony to reception
- Not allowed candles in that room
- Might be a little cramped
- Have to find someone to officiate
Pros of church:
- Beautiful
- Spacious
- No concern about finding a fake registrar as there will obviously be a vicar
Cons:
- We're not religious
- I HATE singing hymns
- *May* have time limits
- A bit predictable
So, what would you do?!
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...402.1073741829.120148354715236&type=3&theater
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...7629912.105040.120148354715236&type=3&theater
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...76536954.94164.307106799382506&type=3&theater
There is also this room, which is their standard ceremony room, but there's something about it that doesn't feel right to me
![Shrugg :shrug: :shrug:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/srug.gif)
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?..._402230466536805_578175305_n.jpg&size=960,640
Then there is the church. As churches go it's stunning, can't fault it. Thing is, we're not religious. OH's family are Catholic, but my OH is clueless about Christianity and in fact any religion. I study theology and can appreciate religion and think there are many good points but at the same time a great deal of modern Christian teachings make me quite angry and I don't agree with them. This is the church, by the way:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...62570593.69416.307106799382506&type=3&theater
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?...76536954.94164.307106799382506&type=3&theater
Pros of venue room:
- Quirky and unique, fits with the day
- Can have the humanist ceremony we planned for
- Can have people sitting on the floor, moroccan rugs, etc etc
- No time constraints
- Free
- Right next to reception
- It is a lovely room
Cons of venue room:
- Looking at photos, I'm unsure about certain aspects, particularly the black framed painting above the fireplace and that bloody carpet
- Worry about chairs and having to move them from ceremony to reception
- Not allowed candles in that room
- Might be a little cramped
- Have to find someone to officiate
Pros of church:
- Beautiful
- Spacious
- No concern about finding a fake registrar as there will obviously be a vicar
Cons:
- We're not religious
- I HATE singing hymns
- *May* have time limits
- A bit predictable
So, what would you do?!