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[NatalieB]

I said before that my boyfriend was over the moon about the baby..
Now things have changed

At first I wasnt sure whether it was the right thing to do,
But now after having my scan, and seeing the baby,
Im so sure I want it..

But now he's changed his mind,
Saying the timings wrong and stuff?

He said he would support me whatever,
But he doesnt think its a good idea now..

 

[candice123]

Hey hun, welcome- sad to say, but this is how boys can act when the stark reality of everything hits them!! He probrably didnt have it in his head that he was going to be a dad, but since ur scan it has all become tooo real for him. Time may do the trick, but depending on what his priorities are, u wont know till the baby comes. I really hope you have a strong family network around you cos it is hard doing it on ur own, all the best, Candice xx

 

[NatalieB]

Too scared of a negative reaction,
So havent told them yet..

Thanks though hun.x

 

[Mynxie]

it's probably just reality setting in.

how come you had an early scan huni?

 

[Jodie__x]

I said before that my boyfriend was over the moon about the baby..
Now things have changed

At first I wasnt sure whether it was the right thing to do,
But now after having my scan, and seeing the baby,
Im so sure I want it..

But now he's changed his mind,
Saying the timings wrong and stuff?

He said he would support me whatever,
But he doesnt think its a good idea now..

Im in exactly the same position !! one min he was like i want this baby , talking about moving in 2gever and shit like that ,, nxt it was its not right , we didnt plan to have it so why cant you just get rid ov it ! .. but hes always told me that if i do keep the baby he will be there for me too !! ..

do what you feel is what you really want , and he will come round to the idea, and if he doesnt than fine , you will be great on your own!
either way you dont want to live to regret your decistion .. thats what im thinking anyway

good luck either way

 

[NatalieB]

Well my periods have always been abit funny anyway,
Never really a regular pattern,
& when I didnt come on,
It didnt really worry me..

So I kinda lost track of when I was on
& when I wasnt

So the first time I went to see the midwife,
I had no idea of how far I actually was,
& I thought I was alot futher than I am..

So the midwife made me my appointment for my dating scan,
Presuming I was 12 weeks

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

I said before that my boyfriend was over the moon about the baby..
Now things have changed

At first I wasnt sure whether it was the right thing to do,
But now after having my scan, and seeing the baby,
Im so sure I want it..

But now he's changed his mind,
Saying the timings wrong and stuff?

He said he would support me whatever,
But he doesnt think its a good idea now..

this is exactly what happened with me and Jaydens dad, hes probably just scared of how much things are goin to change etc.
jsut take things slow an things wil work themselves out. if e doesnt stick by u an ur baby its his loss, u will b a great mummy xx

 

[NatalieB]

At first I said the timing was wrong and stuff,
As Im still quite young,
Just basically worried about everything.

Now Ive got used to the idea,
I love it,
But he's totally changed..

I dont understand it,
He was so happy at the idea of having a baby at first

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

At first I said the timing was wrong and stuff,
As Im still quite young,
Just basically worried about everything.

Now Ive got used to the idea,
I love it,
But he's totally changed..

I dont understand it,
He was so happy at the idea of having a baby at first

you will worry but everything will work out boss!
he probably will change his mind once he gets used to the idea, if not you will be a really good mum to your baby. an you will av help of your family + mates (once you tell them) xx

 

[leeanne]

Good luck and hope your boyfriend comes around to the idea that you are both having a baby!

 

[NatalieB]

Thanks =]

 

[mBLACK]

An experience that is very common among young women + young men. Just always keep in mind that this is YOUR baby and YOUR life, don't let his wants influence your decision to the point where, if you want it but he doesn't, you'll terminate the pregnancy for him. This is your body + life that is going to be the most affected, just follow your heart and do what you truly think is right. Men can be idiots. But trust me on this one, you can do just fine without him if he doesn't want to participate in raising your child. You are strong and only you know what's best.

 

[lfc_sarah]

Hes probaly just scared babe.

Theres been a few times in my pregnancy, in the beginning mostly, where ive thought "the timings wrong" and got scared about it... but mostly im excited and cant wait.
I think it helps for a woman because they are the ones who are actually carrying the baby...

Men cant really bond with a child until its born, where its different for the woman.

Im sure he'll come round to the idea and if not, im sure youll be a great mum anyway

xxx

 

[Serene123]

I said before that my boyfriend was over the moon about the baby..
Now things have changed

At first I wasnt sure whether it was the right thing to do,
But now after having my scan, and seeing the baby,
Im so sure I want it..

But now he's changed his mind,
Saying the timings wrong and stuff?

He said he would support me whatever,
But he doesnt think its a good idea now..

My boyfriend didn't think my munchkin was a good idea either. Now, he's so in love with her he wouldn't change it for the world. Everyone has doubts, he's intitled to have his. Just reassure him that you're doing the best thing for everyone.

 

[Maria+Cookie]

Im going through the same thing my babys daddy tld me he wanted a family and everything and wld be there for me no matter what but out of no where when i found out i was pregnant i tld him and he whent crazy saying he wasnt ready and all that lame stuff even though it really hurt me from everything he said i started to forget about it cuz now i kno how he really is i tlk to him once and a while cuz were not together anymore he tld me he didnt want a relationship right now so i didnt worry about it now hes really excited about having her and hes making so plans to be with her all the time but hes acting like theres nothing much going on till i started getting contractions yesterday i dnt really worry bout him though as long as im having my baby and she comes out ok im fine i dnt really need to be with the babys daddy to be happy dnt let anyone make u change ur mind about not having the baby do wat u think is best its ur choice and no one else ur gnna be the one goin through things not them so its ur choice i kno i made mine and now i only have 2 weeks left =D