Chart help!?!

[Tridda]

Yeah it seems like a lot of women get the backache, mine almost feels like i pulled a muscle on my lower left side. Cant bend over too far so not sure if maybe i just tweaked my back somehow or if it really is related. Im not really sure how this part works, the first time i got pregnant i wasnt even aware so I wasn looking for any symptoms at all!

Your boobs are real sore huh? Mine have been more sensitive than sore, and they seem more round than normal. Aside from that everything feels pretty normal.

So with your b12, they just continue to give you injections throughout pregnancy? How often do they have to check that?

 

[Goldenpup]

They are achy, more so when I lie down at night. Hurts to lie on them but during the day they aren't so bad. I kinda poke them to see how they are. Lol.
I've had little waves of nausea but nothing OTT! Don't have major symptoms as such.

B12 will be every 3 months for rest of my life. As far as I know they don't check until you've been having injections for a year.

Did you know u were pregnant before you has the mc?

 

[Tridda]

Haha I've been poking at mine too just to see if they are sore!! Poor things...haha

I did know I was pregnant, but it was a few days after AF was due. And even after i knew i wasnt as paranoid and wasnt aware of symptoms at all lol :/

Assuming this one sticks, its gonna be a long 9 months of worrying!!

 

[Goldenpup]

I feel the exact same way about worrying. Are you in the uk?

 

[Tridda]

Nope, US. Think were opposite time wise!

 

[Goldenpup]

Yea I think we are. It's 8pm here.

Just had the shock of my life. My bro and his gf have just announced their pregnancy. Unplanned when they know what we've been through. Really hoping the shock doesn't affect my little baby

 

[Tridda]

Wow! Kind of frustrating I'm sure. People having unplanned pregnancies now annoy me because I know what it takes for some couples to conceive! How far along is she? Did you tell them about your little bean?

 

[Goldenpup]

She's 2 months. No I couldn't because until I'm past 8 weeks (that's when I lost the last one) I won't be confident about the baby. Feel really bad about my reaction. Just hoping the shock doesn't do anything. My heart has been pounding for an hour now!
They've only been together about a year!

 

[Tridda]

I understand, we don't plan on saying anything until 3 months to make sure it's sticking.

Don't feel bad about your reaction, I think anyone would respond that way. After I miscarried I started resenting women who would have "accident" babies, like how?? Don't let it affect you though, you have a little bean now and think about how much more special it will be than if you just had one on accident!

 

[Goldenpup]

Aw I know. I think it was because it was so unexpected. My mum and dad know because they knew about the mc and I wanted support from the start. We plan on waiting til 3 months too to officially announce it.
Feels silly but it feels like they stole my excitement. Hopefully I'll get it back tomorrow

I just need to focus on my little bun.

Was your OH there when you took the test?

 

[Tridda]

Theres a few people that know about my mc too, my OH's brothers GF found out she was pregnant about 3 months before I found out I was. We didnt tell anyone, and when they did their gender reveal party we couldnt be there, so his mom came by to show him a video of them revealing it was a boy literally 15 minutes after I ha miscarried! Was horrible, we ended up telling them later because they wondered why my OH was so down about the video!

Dont let them take your excitement, after this initial shock you will go back to being excited! Just concentrate on your little family

My OH left for work this morning and right after I took the test, ironically my phone was dead so i couldnt even tell him until it charged enough to use! Lol. Then I sent him the same pic I put on here i think im gonna grab a couple more tests one for tonight and one for a couple days from now.

Was your OH there when you tested? How did he react??

 

[Goldenpup]

What a horrible experience that must've been.
Dh's bro and his gf were 5 weeks ahead of us and we lost the lo so it was hard when the baby arrived. Really hoping things don't repeat themselves.

My dh was at work, I'd a funny feeling about that cycle so went and bought a test and came back and took it. I was shaking with excitement. Dh text to say a DVD night and bottle of wine would be nice for that evening. I phoned him and said I'll not be drinking wine for 9 months. He was so shocked and excited.

 

[Tridda]

The same brother that is having a baby now? Or is this a different brother?

Haha what a cute way of telling your DH, no wine for 9 months My OH is super happy too, but we are trying not to get too attached till the 3 month mark... Its really hard not to to though. I dont know how id handle another mc so I'm trying to think the worst and be pleasantly surprised when we get a positive outcome :/ I'm for sure getting alot more symptoms. My nipples are hard all the time (tmi), such a weird feeling.

How are things going for you symptom wise?

 

[Goldenpup]

It was dh's bro. It was still very hard.

I have the nipple thing too and they are getting darker and darker. Although they aren't sore. Keep getting nauseous in the evening, this evening was the first time I ran to the bathroom. Today I've had a real backache. Hoping everything is ok and it's baby settling and my body adjusting. Scares me though for although I'd spotting last time from week 6 (6+4) I'd a scan at 7+5 and on week 8 if a sore back. Then at 8+2 I lost the baby. So far this time I've no spotting. Hoping it stays that way.
I know what you mean about trying not to get too excited. It is hard. I feel like there's more pressure for everything to be ok now that my bro is expecting.

 

[Tridda]

Yeah i get little flashes of nausea here and there, but nothin to really have an effect. I have had a backache 4 days now, first two days i could barely bend over. Its all on my left side... Its worrysome but it seems like a real common pregnancy symptom..although im concerned about the severity. Would love to skip to 2 months from now!

 

[Goldenpup]

Can I skip it with you??

I was thinking... New title of this little page.
"Let's start this journey together"

 

[Tridda]

That sounds good to me, maybe we'll get some more early pregnant ladies

 

[Tridda]

Gosh, I'm feeling the back pain this morning.. Can't get rid of these AF like cramps either! Worries me :/

 

[Goldenpup]

Hopefully it'll all settle down soon. My back has eased today thankfully

 

[Tridda]

Yeah... I can't stop testing. I took a digital today and my temp went up a bit, AF would be due Friday. I'm not gonna test again till Monday or so. I've decided not to go in for blood work until I make it thru next week. Last time I wasted time and $$ getting blood work done at 5 weeks and MC'D shortly after