Briss
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Vonn, it's good that you carry on with acu, I am sure it's doing something positive and keeps you young. i had a chinese doc who actually thought it was good when needle hurts it means it's working, they even have a term for this in chinese. i had physio when i was pregnant for my back and they also used needles to release muscles and it hurt but it worked beautifully i could feel the difference immediately. diet is also great, i was also dieting when i got pregnant. although i stopped immediately after BFP and gained 20 kg... still have 10 kg pregnancy weight to lose.
why were the cycles canceled? is it because they could not line up the donor? maybe see how the july cycle goes and if they cancel again start looking elsewhere? i usually tried 2 cycles with a clinic and if nothing worked moved on but this means cycles that went to EC at least. i had many canceled cycles but with natural IVF it's the case cos it's easy to miss ovulation.
I know what you mean re changing clinics, i spent so much time looking abroad and finally found a clinic and we tried twice and it did not work and yet i really could not find it in me to do all that research all over again. i am glad i did in the end. and i really can't say why i got pregnant both times in Munich and never in Brno. but i do believe it's to do with the clinic and lab in particular and possibly with the doctor who performed EC/ET.
my labour was rather long, two days!! it might be my fault cos i wanted natural birth and perhaps i was naive. i learnt hypnobirthing and various other techniques and was sure i was prepared but frankly nothing can prepare you. my baby was also quite big 4.250 kg while i am petite this was definitely a factor. i do not want to scare you with details cos at the end of the day almost every woman will have a story to tell about her birth experience but yours (and I am sure you will get to experience it and hopefully soon) will be different to everyone else's.
the first weeks/months after birth and again it's different for everyone but for me it's been hard cos i ended up breastfeeding exclusively on demand and that means 24/7 some days I did not get to sleep at all, on good days i was getting 3 hours and only because my DH or mum would step in to take her so i could sleep. i also was not prepared at all. i did not read anything about what happens post birth because i was just so terrified even in pregnancy i would only read for the relevant week and not further i was scared. i did not buy any baby stuff except for hospital bag. so when we finally got our baby i did not even know how to change nappy and was afraid to touch her she seemed so fragile. it was a strange feeling cos I know so much about TTC stuff and almost nothing about pregnancy/baby stuff.
but this is nothing trust me, because at the end of the day I feel happy every day. not the entire day of course but many times a day.
I just got my bloods and they are not great. i will have a scan later this month to see how things are looking after birth. i also started using my CBFM but have not seen a peak yet. if all goes well i am hoping to start natural IVF when she is 6 months. i still want to carry on breastfeeding so not sure if i can take any medication.
why were the cycles canceled? is it because they could not line up the donor? maybe see how the july cycle goes and if they cancel again start looking elsewhere? i usually tried 2 cycles with a clinic and if nothing worked moved on but this means cycles that went to EC at least. i had many canceled cycles but with natural IVF it's the case cos it's easy to miss ovulation.
I know what you mean re changing clinics, i spent so much time looking abroad and finally found a clinic and we tried twice and it did not work and yet i really could not find it in me to do all that research all over again. i am glad i did in the end. and i really can't say why i got pregnant both times in Munich and never in Brno. but i do believe it's to do with the clinic and lab in particular and possibly with the doctor who performed EC/ET.
my labour was rather long, two days!! it might be my fault cos i wanted natural birth and perhaps i was naive. i learnt hypnobirthing and various other techniques and was sure i was prepared but frankly nothing can prepare you. my baby was also quite big 4.250 kg while i am petite this was definitely a factor. i do not want to scare you with details cos at the end of the day almost every woman will have a story to tell about her birth experience but yours (and I am sure you will get to experience it and hopefully soon) will be different to everyone else's.
the first weeks/months after birth and again it's different for everyone but for me it's been hard cos i ended up breastfeeding exclusively on demand and that means 24/7 some days I did not get to sleep at all, on good days i was getting 3 hours and only because my DH or mum would step in to take her so i could sleep. i also was not prepared at all. i did not read anything about what happens post birth because i was just so terrified even in pregnancy i would only read for the relevant week and not further i was scared. i did not buy any baby stuff except for hospital bag. so when we finally got our baby i did not even know how to change nappy and was afraid to touch her she seemed so fragile. it was a strange feeling cos I know so much about TTC stuff and almost nothing about pregnancy/baby stuff.
but this is nothing trust me, because at the end of the day I feel happy every day. not the entire day of course but many times a day.
I just got my bloods and they are not great. i will have a scan later this month to see how things are looking after birth. i also started using my CBFM but have not seen a peak yet. if all goes well i am hoping to start natural IVF when she is 6 months. i still want to carry on breastfeeding so not sure if i can take any medication.