LoveMy2Boys2
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Hi ladies!
So this is my 3rd baby.... Both deliveries have been just me and my husband.... We let family/friends come in for visits until it was time to push...... Well this is our last baby, and I only have 1 sister..... She most likely won't be able to have babies due to many issues, they have still been trying and she is heartbroken and devastated..... Today she asked if I would consider letting her be in the room when I deliver.....
I truly would be honored to give her that much, let her be there and see the whole experience since she probably won't have that chance in life.... ( I truly can't even imagine .... I feel so blessed to have my 3 and can spare the embarrassment of my open vagina or poo during pushing for her sake lol) but my husband has 2 sisters , and then there are our parents..... Which I want NONE of them in the room while pushing...... Do you think they will be upset? Or drama? I feel this is an understandable situation...... I'm also worried what if my husband says he wants one person in The room from his side... Is it still fair for me to say no? I feel like if he chose his mom then my mom would be offended she's not there , then one more person after another would justify being there also..... I'm not sure how to handle this situation as I want to let my sister be there but don't want anybody else in there, simply for the fact it's just a private thing for me.... Emotionally and physically.....
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you!!!
So this is my 3rd baby.... Both deliveries have been just me and my husband.... We let family/friends come in for visits until it was time to push...... Well this is our last baby, and I only have 1 sister..... She most likely won't be able to have babies due to many issues, they have still been trying and she is heartbroken and devastated..... Today she asked if I would consider letting her be in the room when I deliver.....
I truly would be honored to give her that much, let her be there and see the whole experience since she probably won't have that chance in life.... ( I truly can't even imagine .... I feel so blessed to have my 3 and can spare the embarrassment of my open vagina or poo during pushing for her sake lol) but my husband has 2 sisters , and then there are our parents..... Which I want NONE of them in the room while pushing...... Do you think they will be upset? Or drama? I feel this is an understandable situation...... I'm also worried what if my husband says he wants one person in The room from his side... Is it still fair for me to say no? I feel like if he chose his mom then my mom would be offended she's not there , then one more person after another would justify being there also..... I'm not sure how to handle this situation as I want to let my sister be there but don't want anybody else in there, simply for the fact it's just a private thing for me.... Emotionally and physically.....
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you!!!