Christian Ladies-Let's Pray for our Babies!!

[Mom To 2]

Hi ladies, if you could please keep praying for me. I'm finding myself falling into a depression that I am so scared I won't be able 'shake'. I've been treated for depression in the past and I hate the meds. I just feel myself getting so irritable, angry and upset so easily. If I don't have something to keep me occupied, I just fall apart. I feel no happiness inside right now. I started a new job at work, and I was in Pittsburgh for 3 weeks training when I lost my baby. I hate my job.....I blame it and the stress for losing my baby. I have no appetite. I just don't care about anything. I know you all tell me not to apologize for asking for prayer, but I feel I should given my state and all the happiness you all feel and deserve and I am trying sooooo hard to share in it with you all, I wish you all nothing but the best and think of you all often!!!
Thank you for your continued prayers and support....

I am so sorry with what your going through and we are all here for you. I lost my baby in January, and I would have been due in just a few weeks. Although I feel so blessed that this pregnancy is going so well, I still mourn the baby I could have been holding soon. Please come to us anytime, we are here for you and our heavenly father NEVER leaves your side.

 

[future hopes]

hello lovely ladies, sorry ive not been on for a day or two.

i have my app today at 2.20 with my high risk consultant and im a little nervous.

im really really hoping that i get to have a scan and we can find out wat we r having it wud make my day if i can c baba again, was told she may scan me again today at my last scan so im really hoping she does, and that he or she is not to shy and we can find out if its a boy or girl.

im also really hoping we get to hear babys h/b for the very first time, im really nervous so please can u keep me and baby in ure preyes.

 

[meandmrb2011]

Melenarz .... hugs as always sweet sister !!!

I went to my ob clinic yesterday . I cld feel tightenings and lots of twitching but they are not sore and im not crampy etc. So i thought it best to mention it . Anyway they want to see me at 11weeks now rather than 13. Not sure what they are planning on doing . I guess check my cervix and have a look at abby maybe ..... anyway. I am feeling disappointed as i was so desperate to have a "normal" pregnancy and this is only going to bump me further up the high risk list which i just dont want!!!

 

[future hopes]

awww hun i know its not nice i have a very high risk pregnancy and its so scerey but i just take each day as it comes. i c my high risk consultant today and im really hoping she scans me i know i was only scaned a few weeks ago but its always so reasuring wen u c little one. im also hoping to hear the hb as i havent heard it yet.

im sure ure b fine hunny its good they r seeing u earlier and there keeping a eye on u.

 

[future hopes]

Hi ladies, if you could please keep praying for me. I'm finding myself falling into a depression that I am so scared I won't be able 'shake'. I've been treated for depression in the past and I hate the meds. I just feel myself getting so irritable, angry and upset so easily. If I don't have something to keep me occupied, I just fall apart. I feel no happiness inside right now. I started a new job at work, and I was in Pittsburgh for 3 weeks training when I lost my baby. I hate my job.....I blame it and the stress for losing my baby. I have no appetite. I just don't care about anything. I know you all tell me not to apologize for asking for prayer, but I feel I should given my state and all the happiness you all feel and deserve and I am trying sooooo hard to share in it with you all, I wish you all nothing but the best and think of you all often!!!
Thank you for your continued prayers and support....

I am so sorry with what your going through and we are all here for you. I lost my baby in January, and I would have been due in just a few weeks. Although I feel so blessed that this pregnancy is going so well, I still mourn the baby I could have been holding soon. Please come to us anytime, we are here for you and our heavenly father NEVER leaves your side.

i am so sorry to hunny ive lost 3 babies at 11 weeks, 6 weeks and 5+weeks and words can not describe the pain. please do not feel babd for asking for preyer hunny i feel u reall deserver it, u r such a insperation and u r so very brave. m/c are so horrible my whole heart just completly goes out to u.

 

[meandmrb2011]

awww hun i know its not nice i have a very high risk pregnancy and its so scerey but i just take each day as it comes. i c my high risk consultant today and im really hoping she scans me i know i was only scaned a few weeks ago but its always so reasuring wen u c little one. im also hoping to hear the hb as i havent heard it yet.

im sure ure b fine hunny its good they r seeing u earlier and there keeping a eye on u.

This is my 2nd high risk so just tiring as it will prevent the birth i am so desperate for ! I know babies health is most important but , well you know what its like to have all your options taken away. Hard to adjust at first !!! Thanks for all your support. You are a star!!

 

[future hopes]

awww hun i know its not nice i have a very high risk pregnancy and its so scerey but i just take each day as it comes. i c my high risk consultant today and im really hoping she scans me i know i was only scaned a few weeks ago but its always so reasuring wen u c little one. im also hoping to hear the hb as i havent heard it yet.

im sure ure b fine hunny its good they r seeing u earlier and there keeping a eye on u.

This is my 2nd high risk so just tiring as it will prevent the birth i am so desperate for ! I know babies health is most important but , well you know what its like to have all your options taken away. Hard to adjust at first !!! Thanks for all your support. You are a star!!

oh sweety i know and it all feel so medical and not like nature as it shud. i have to have loads of tests done wen i hit 25 weeks its gonna be growth scans and glucose intolerence tests and steroids to mature babys lungs and bloodtests and poking and proding lol. oh its all fun fun fun. i havent got a clue how ill be giving birth yet because im at high risk of pre eclamsisa and stuff so ill guess ill just have to ride it out and wate and see.

my parents stil dont know im so frightened about telling them there gonna go really crazy

 

[runnergrl]

Future-when do you plan on telling your parents? And you have a pretty impressive bump already-how do you hide it? I hope that goes well and good luck today. Hope u get to find out what you are having and that every thing looks good!

 

[future hopes]

so just got back from my app. my blood preshure was a little high so they had to re do it a few times. also they still cant find babys hb on the dopler they did hear a few kicks but no hb at all.
so she gave me a quick scan and thank the lord baby was very active and kicking and moving around loads and i got to see the hb so that was resuring.

still dont understand why it can not be found on a dopler es me being 15 weeks my friend said baby may b only a little one which i know is very highly possible because i was told that the meds im on can make baby on the small side but healthy, i dont mind baby being small cuz all mine have been 9lbs and nearly 8lbs so having a small baby that stays baby for longer wud be nice, but only if its healthy which i know is gods plan for all of us.

my angel sounds dopler shud arive soon so im hoping ill b able to find baby on that.

my friends baby was only 6lbs a full term and she never heard his hb till about 18 19 weeks pluss my baby does look small on scan so im just hoping its that and im just tell myself if i cant find babys hb then dont panic i need to giv it time.

u never know i may find it on me dopler wen it arives i hope i do becuase it will b a lovely reminder of the gift that our lord has given to me.

 

[future hopes]

Future-when do you plan on telling your parents? And you have a pretty impressive bump already-how do you hide it? I hope that goes well and good luck today. Hope u get to find out what you are having and that every thing looks good!

i just put on loose clothing and hold my tummy in lol. i know im gonna have to tell them soon tho but there is never a good time. my mum had a nervous breakdown about 3 months ago and now there marige is really on the rocks, my dad has even gone to spain to visit his parents with out her, he comes back on friday but i know with everything being so up in the air with them that my news will b like the icing on the cake or the last straw,

i already had the we dont want u ever getting pregnant again lecture about 4 months back. so its really really hard.

im 32 yrs old but im the only child so they r so strict and they have always had power over me. with my last pregnancy they didnt talk to me for a year so as u can c its a very diffacult subject to anounce

i had a scan but she didnt check the sex so ill have to wait till my 20 week scan. although my OH is 95% sure its a boy he said he saw boy bits hmmmmmmmmm mind u he wasnt wrong last time so it will be interesting to c if hes rite again.

 

[runnergrl]

well good luck with telling them. they really have no right telling you how to live your life. you are an adult who makes her own decisions. you should have to ask for approval or their input at all. Im sorry they arent more supportive

 

[future hopes]

yep thats wat everyone says hun. i just wish i didnt care so much telling them wudent be so bad. i just get worried about them disowning me oh and this will b another disapointment for them thats how they will c it.
there not christian like me so they wont c it as a blessing like i do.

they even went as far as telling me i cudent have anymore children after my liver transplant it was one of the first things they said wen i came out of the induced coma. they told me the surgean told them i shud never ever have anymore. but ive later found out that no one said that to them.

i cried my eyes out wen they told me i cudent have no more because me and my fiancii really wanted a sibling for our son but they just said it to put me off. i bet wen i tell them my news there bring it up tho. its just gonna be awfull im so dreading it

 

[PrincessBree]

Hey ladies just wanted to drop by and share with you all xx

I am so happy to hear about your appoint Future!Bless God that baby is doing great!Babydreamer looking forward to hearing from you concerning your appointment xx meabdmrb2011 sorry to hear your possible high risk when I read this I was reminded of your signature verse jeremiah 29 the plans He has for you and baby are GOOD so whether or not it is high risk or low risk His plan and way is good for you and baby,to bring you both hope and a future xz I'm praying for you hun xx

I wanted to testify today about the power of prayer I asked for y'all ladies to pray for me and I really have to thank you all x

On Sunday it's like God gave me supernatural strength to dance and not only that but God used the dance to reach several women and I was able to minister to them on a personal level.I was completely humbled at the fact that God would use the experience of loosing my baby in such a powerful way but He has and I openly thank Him for that.

One thing I have learnt is how precious life is and how precious we each are to God and as sisters in Christ we are to lift up one another to God and encourage one another x you all have been used not only in encouraging me and others during their time of tradegy,pain,worry an anxiety but also in their healing their joy and moving forward.I know that I here I am amongst some of the most wonderful women I have ever come into contact with,because of your hearts for God and for others xx

I will soon be starting my own blog because I feel the Lord leading me to take this whole thing forward and share more about what He has been teaching me about walking with Him,being a godly wife,being a minister of the gospel,a woman of worth,a worshipper etc I really would just like to share a lot more then I can here.Not that I have arrived but I too am still learning but I would love to give away what He has given to me,to bless someone else x will let you know when it's all up and running.

Love to you all I am praying for you xx

 

[future hopes]

thank u so much princess

 

[markswife10]

I am miscarrying our baby The night before last I started getting bad cramps and passed some tissue (not the baby), yesterday morning I had an ultrasound which confirms I'm miscarrying. The baby was still there (and actually measuring the age it should, if not a couple of days ahead 7w4d), but there was no heartbeat We are devastated. The dr. gave me misoprostol to speed things up, now it's just a waiting game of when everything will pass We aren't sure exactly what caused the miscarriage, but have a hunch my progesterone may not have been high enough to sustain the pregnancy. They plan on putting me on progesterone supplements next time as soon as I get a positive test. Please keep us in your prayers as we deal with our loss.

I wish you all well in your pregnancies and hope you all have happy healthy babies.

 

[Mrs5707]

Future-when do you plan on telling your parents? And you have a pretty impressive bump already-how do you hide it? I hope that goes well and good luck today. Hope u get to find out what you are having and that every thing looks good!

i just put on loose clothing and hold my tummy in lol. i know im gonna have to tell them soon tho but there is never a good time. my mum had a nervous breakdown about 3 months ago and now there marige is really on the rocks, my dad has even gone to spain to visit his parents with out her, he comes back on friday but i know with everything being so up in the air with them that my news will b like the icing on the cake or the last straw,

i already had the we dont want u ever getting pregnant again lecture about 4 months back. so its really really hard.

im 32 yrs old but im the only child so they r so strict and they have always had power over me. with my last pregnancy they didnt talk to me for a year so as u can c its a very diffacult subject to anounce

i had a scan but she didnt check the sex so ill have to wait till my 20 week scan. although my OH is 95% sure its a boy he said he saw boy bits hmmmmmmmmm mind u he wasnt wrong last time so it will be interesting to c if hes rite again.

That is so sad to hear about your parents abusing their power over you, and at 32 years old it looks like they would allow you to live your own life if you're not trying to sponge off them and expect them to help you all the time.
If they go without talking to you after the announcement of the baby on the way how will you handle it?? My husband has 2 sisters that he doesn't have anything to do with because of the way they treat us, so I can sympathize. His mother also goes months on end without talking to us for no particular reason, but at the beginning of our relationship went 2 years without seeing/talking to him because he wouldn't leave me.
Someone told me about this quote a while back, and it's helped me realize that just because you're tied to someone genetically doesn't mean you're obligated to a close relationship with them indefinitely.
"God removes people from your life sometimes to protect you - don't run after them"... I think this is something that's good to live by. I feel like if somebody isn't enriching or making your life better, then loving them from a distance is the best way to go.

 

[runnergrl]

I cannot get into why I am asking for prayer but it is major. It does not directly concern my pregnancy although it could affect it down the road. All i can say is my husband needs help and i cannot say more than that. please take a minute and pray for him.. and for a solution to what is now "our" problem since we are married. I am sorry for being so vague but I do not want to break any trust. I hope you all understand. Thank you.

 

[PrincessBree]

Hun I am so sorry to hear about your baby I will be praying for your continued strength at this time.just know that our Father is with you during this time and He will never leave you.Your baby is safe in His arms xx

"The Lord is near to the broken hearted.."Psalm 34:18

 

[PrincessBree]

I cannot get into why I am asking for prayer but it is major. It does not directly concern my pregnancy although it could affect it down the road. All i can say is my husband needs help and i cannot say more than that. please take a minute and pray for him.. and for a solution to what is now "our" problem since we are married. I am sorry for being so vague but I do not want to break any trust. I hope you all understand. Thank you.

Hun when I read your prayer request its like I felt tears prick my eyes and I felt as though the Lord wanted me to tell you that He will not leave you to carry this burden alone but rather to lay it all on Him and He will take care of it all.i will be praying for you and dh we don't need specifics because the Lord knows and sees all and will hear your cry xx

Stay blessed sis xx

 

[melenarz]

I am miscarrying our baby The night before last I started getting bad cramps and passed some tissue (not the baby), yesterday morning I had an ultrasound which confirms I'm miscarrying. The baby was still there (and actually measuring the age it should, if not a couple of days ahead 7w4d), but there was no heartbeat We are devastated. The dr. gave me misoprostol to speed things up, now it's just a waiting game of when everything will pass We aren't sure exactly what caused the miscarriage, but have a hunch my progesterone may not have been high enough to sustain the pregnancy. They plan on putting me on progesterone supplements next time as soon as I get a positive test. Please keep us in your prayers as we deal with our loss.

I wish you all well in your pregnancies and hope you all have happy healthy babies.

I am so, so sorry hun. I can completely relate as we lost our baby almost 2 weeks ago now. I thank God my physical pain was minimal, but I tell you, the emotional pain has more than made up for it. No words can offer much comfort right now, but I will tell you what a good friend told me, and I found some comfort and continue to..... Someone told her this when she lost her 3rd baby at 12 weeks pregnant: the purpose of life is eternal life. While nothing can take away the pain right now, I pray that you can find sense of peace in knowing one day you will see your little one again. I have also found a bit of peace in the thought of the fact that if my face is not he first that my baby sees, it is that of our Lord.....

I am praying that you will feel the peace and love of Jesus in your life....praying that you can find comfort in Him. I know my faith was no bigger than a mustard seed when the process started for me, but I clung to it with all I had, and I can tell you its growing again.....

Sending you love and hugs.....