Christian Ladies-Let's Pray for our Babies!!

[melenarz]

I cannot get into why I am asking for prayer but it is major. It does not directly concern my pregnancy although it could affect it down the road. All i can say is my husband needs help and i cannot say more than that. please take a minute and pray for him.. and for a solution to what is now "our" problem since we are married. I am sorry for being so vague but I do not want to break any trust. I hope you all understand. Thank you.

I can completely understand and appreciate.....many prayers to you and your family.

 

[runnergrl]

Thank you ladies for your prayers. They are very powerful. Bree-I am laying it down at his feet and trusting that it will somehow get taken care of. I need to feel more than the secure love of my heavenly Father. I need to feel physical love from my husband too. I'm sorry if that sounds selfish. He is very selfish in the midst of our crisis.

 

[PrincessBree]

I am miscarrying our baby The night before last I started getting bad cramps and passed some tissue (not the baby), yesterday morning I had an ultrasound which confirms I'm miscarrying. The baby was still there (and actually measuring the age it should, if not a couple of days ahead 7w4d), but there was no heartbeat We are devastated. The dr. gave me misoprostol to speed things up, now it's just a waiting game of when everything will pass We aren't sure exactly what caused the miscarriage, but have a hunch my progesterone may not have been high enough to sustain the pregnancy. They plan on putting me on progesterone supplements next time as soon as I get a positive test. Please keep us in your prayers as we deal with our loss.

I wish you all well in your pregnancies and hope you all have happy healthy babies.

I am so, so sorry hun. I can completely relate as we lost our baby almost 2 weeks ago now. I thank God my physical pain was minimal, but I tell you, the emotional pain has more than made up for it. No words can offer much comfort right now, but I will tell you what a good friend told me, and I found some comfort and continue to..... Someone told her this when she lost her 3rd baby at 12 weeks pregnant: the purpose of life is eternal life. While nothing can take away the pain right now, I pray that you can find sense of peace in knowing one day you will see your little one again. I have also found a bit of peace in the thought of the fact that if my face is not he first that my baby sees, it is that of our Lord.....

I am praying that you will feel the peace and love of Jesus in your life....praying that you can find comfort in Him. I know my faith was no bigger than a mustard seed when the process started for me, but I clung to it with all I had, and I can tell you its growing again.....

Sending you love and hugs.....

Hun,

Thank you for posting this reply,I know its not for me,but your faith in God at this time has been such an inspiration to me.And I can really see the hand of God on you.Thank you for sharing in what He has been doing in you and allowing Him to use you even at the most difficult time.

Lots of love

PrincessBree x

 

[InChristAlone]

Thank you ladies for your prayers. They are very powerful. Bree-I am laying it down at his feet and trusting that it will somehow get taken care of. I need to feel more than the secure love of my heavenly Father. I need to feel physical love from my husband too. I'm sorry if that sounds selfish. He is very selfish in the midst of our crisis.

Praying for you and your husband runnergrl, praying that you will know His very real hand on your life right now and praying for protection over your marriage and for love and unity between you right now. Holy Spirit be my sister's comforter and be her rock in the midst of the storm.

 

[PrincessBree]

Thank you ladies for your prayers. They are very powerful. Bree-I am laying it down at his feet and trusting that it will somehow get taken care of. I need to feel more than the secure love of my heavenly Father. I need to feel physical love from my husband too. I'm sorry if that sounds selfish. He is very selfish in the midst of our crisis.

I dont think it is selfish to desire love from our spouse.You may well be surprised by how God responds to your situation.xx Praying for you xx

 

[angela2011]

I am miscarrying our baby The night before last I started getting bad cramps and passed some tissue (not the baby), yesterday morning I had an ultrasound which confirms I'm miscarrying. The baby was still there (and actually measuring the age it should, if not a couple of days ahead 7w4d), but there was no heartbeat We are devastated. The dr. gave me misoprostol to speed things up, now it's just a waiting game of when everything will pass We aren't sure exactly what caused the miscarriage, but have a hunch my progesterone may not have been high enough to sustain the pregnancy. They plan on putting me on progesterone supplements next time as soon as I get a positive test. Please keep us in your prayers as we deal with our loss.

I wish you all well in your pregnancies and hope you all have happy healthy babies.

I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you

 

[angela2011]

I cannot get into why I am asking for prayer but it is major. It does not directly concern my pregnancy although it could affect it down the road. All i can say is my husband needs help and i cannot say more than that. please take a minute and pray for him.. and for a solution to what is now "our" problem since we are married. I am sorry for being so vague but I do not want to break any trust. I hope you all understand. Thank you.

You and your husband are in my prayers

 

[runnergrl]

Markswife-I am praying for you today. I can't imagine. Hope the love of Jesus surrounds you and comforts you through all of this. I pray you feel His presence

 

[future hopes]

Future-when do you plan on telling your parents? And you have a pretty impressive bump already-how do you hide it? I hope that goes well and good luck today. Hope u get to find out what you are having and that every thing looks good!

i just put on loose clothing and hold my tummy in lol. i know im gonna have to tell them soon tho but there is never a good time. my mum had a nervous breakdown about 3 months ago and now there marige is really on the rocks, my dad has even gone to spain to visit his parents with out her, he comes back on friday but i know with everything being so up in the air with them that my news will b like the icing on the cake or the last straw,

i already had the we dont want u ever getting pregnant again lecture about 4 months back. so its really really hard.

im 32 yrs old but im the only child so they r so strict and they have always had power over me. with my last pregnancy they didnt talk to me for a year so as u can c its a very diffacult subject to anounce

i had a scan but she didnt check the sex so ill have to wait till my 20 week scan. although my OH is 95% sure its a boy he said he saw boy bits hmmmmmmmmm mind u he wasnt wrong last time so it will be interesting to c if hes rite again.

That is so sad to hear about your parents abusing their power over you, and at 32 years old it looks like they would allow you to live your own life if you're not trying to sponge off them and expect them to help you all the time.
If they go without talking to you after the announcement of the baby on the way how will you handle it?? My husband has 2 sisters that he doesn't have anything to do with because of the way they treat us, so I can sympathize. His mother also goes months on end without talking to us for no particular reason, but at the beginning of our relationship went 2 years without seeing/talking to him because he wouldn't leave me.
Someone told me about this quote a while back, and it's helped me realize that just because you're tied to someone genetically doesn't mean you're obligated to a close relationship with them indefinitely.
"God removes people from your life sometimes to protect you - don't run after them"... I think this is something that's good to live by. I feel like if somebody isn't enriching or making your life better, then loving them from a distance is the best way to go.

Aww hun i wont cope it will really really hurt me if i lose them over this or it causes more problems to there marrige, i just know ill get the blame for anything bad.
No i never ever ask them for money or help but they just like to b in control. Wen i do tell my mum ill prob get horrible negative texts saying things like ure dad is so disapointed in u and ive disapointed the whole family blah blah blah. Pregnancy is just such a sore subject wit them. We were getting married this year but my dad said he didnt want me to and refused to walk me up the isle. So wedding has been canceled because all i wanted was my dad to giv me away but he said he wont for a few years. Im glad u understand wat im goin through. Alot of people tell me to just tell them where to go but i just dont hav the heart to do that and i love them both so very much. Oh hun its just so hard
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[future hopes]

I am miscarrying our baby The night before last I started getting bad cramps and passed some tissue (not the baby), yesterday morning I had an ultrasound which confirms I'm miscarrying. The baby was still there (and actually measuring the age it should, if not a couple of days ahead 7w4d), but there was no heartbeat We are devastated. The dr. gave me misoprostol to speed things up, now it's just a waiting game of when everything will pass We aren't sure exactly what caused the miscarriage, but have a hunch my progesterone may not have been high enough to sustain the pregnancy. They plan on putting me on progesterone supplements next time as soon as I get a positive test. Please keep us in your prayers as we deal with our loss.

I wish you all well in your pregnancies and hope you all have happy healthy babies.

I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you

Marks wife i am so very sorry hunny its just so sad ive had 3mc so i know wat its like and words can not explain. U r in my thoughts and my heart goes out to u

 

[markswife10]

Thank you SO much girls for the prayers and hugs , they are much appreciated! We are dealing pretty well with the miscarriage, considering. We are leaning on Jesus and each other and every day gets better. We named our baby so that he/she has a name in heaven (we named him/her Jalen Adonia). We are just picturing Jesus holding our little angel in his arms.

I know we will get our rainbow baby when it is God's time for it to happen. I just hope and pray that it is sooner rather than later. I would never wish a miscarriage on anyone, it is such a heart wrenching time.

 

[blessedmomma]

what a great thread!

im not currently pregnant, but could be anytime. we use no form of birth control and trust the Lord to design our family to His will. we give our bodies as a living sacrifice to Him. we want as many children as He wants us to have.

i would like to follow along and pray over your pregnancies and lives with you. and God willing, He will see DH and i fit to raise another child for His glory

 

[PrincessBree]

Thank you SO much girls for the prayers and hugs , they are much appreciated! We are dealing pretty well with the miscarriage, considering. We are leaning on Jesus and each other and every day gets better. We named our baby so that he/she has a name in heaven (we named him/her Jalen Adonia). We are just picturing Jesus holding our little angel in his arms.

I know we will get our rainbow baby when it is God's time for it to happen. I just hope and pray that it is sooner rather than later. I would never wish a miscarriage on anyone, it is such a heart wrenching time.

your faith in Jesus literally brings me to tears xx I love the name Jalen Adonai it is such a pretty name,she will be up there with Jesus and my angel,Gabriel Jeremiah Eden,doing what angels do

I know the pain in undescriable but after the rain the sun does come out.God will visit you again and give you the desires of your heart xx

You are in our thoughts but most importantly you are in our prayers

xxPrincessBreexx

 

[PrincessBree]

what a great thread!

im not currently pregnant, but could be anytime. we use no form of birth control and trust the Lord to design our family to His will. we give our bodies as a living sacrifice to Him. we want as many children as He wants us to have.

i would like to follow along and pray over your pregnancies and lives with you. and God willing, He will see DH and i fit to raise another child for His glory

Hey BlessedMomma!!I remember I messaged you one time to ask about attachment parenting!!Now it is so wonderful to see you here praying with you all!!Don't worry this group has become a place which is not only for first tri mums,but also for those who like praying for others,who want to also be encouraged and those who need support after early pregnancy loss.We also pray for families,marriages,finances!So many things!!

i was thinking maybe you could share your parenting style with the group as some of the ladies may be interested in raising their sweet babies in the same way xx

So good to have you on board xx

PrincessBreex

 

[future hopes]

hello ladies i got my home dopler this morning and i just had to have a go strait away. at first i heard the woosh woosh of the placenta but i kept moving the thingy and i put it right down near my right overy and i cud still hear the woosh woosh loudly but in the background i cud hear a quiet beating like a train and i counted the beats and they were 137 bpm now that has to be the hb for sure. OH heard it to and said thats it, it was just a shame i cudent turn down the placenta noises because that woohing was so loud if i cud of turned it down hb wud of been much louder. think i woke baby up to because it was all quiet at first and after i found the hb i cud hear little one kicking and moving around such a little wriggle bum

i just want to give thanks to our lord for blessing me with this perfect little miricle i just thank him so much for keeping baby healthy and i want to prey he continues to keep baby and me well and healthy also id like to prey for u all on here, for a healthy and happy pregnancy for those who have lost i prey they have healing and feel the comfort and love of our father i prey he cradels them in his arms and heal all there pain. for those ttc i prey he rewards u all soon with ure own miricles. and for those who just need love and guidence i prey our lord brings himself to u. amen

 

[PrincessBree]

hello ladies i got my home dopler this morning and i just had to have a go strait away. at first i heard the woosh woosh of the placenta but i kept moving the thingy and i put it right down near my right overy and i cud still hear the woosh woosh loudly but in the background i cud hear a quiet beating like a train and i counted the beats and they were 137 bpm now that has to be the hb for sure. OH heard it to and said thats it, it was just a shame i cudent turn down the placenta noises because that woohing was so loud if i cud of turned it down hb wud of been much louder. think i woke baby up to because it was all quiet at first and after i found the hb i cud hear little one kicking and moving around such a little wriggle bum

i just want to give thanks to our lord for blessing me with this perfect little miricle i just thank him so much for keeping baby healthy and i want to prey he continues to keep baby and me well and healthy also id like to prey for u all on here, for a healthy and happy pregnancy for those who have lost i prey they have healing and feel the comfort and love of our father i prey he cradels them in his arms and heal all there pain. for those ttc i prey he rewards u all soon with ure own miricles. and for those who just need love and guidence i prey our lord brings himself to u. amen

YAY JESUS!!!LOL I am sooo happy that you have finally gotten to hear your darlings heartbeat!That must of been one of the most beautiful sounds that you have ever heard!Praise You name Lord for keeping mum and baby both safe!The doctors say high risk,but we believe You for miracles Lord!

Thanks for that blessing and prayer hun!It was beautiful!xx

 

[future hopes]

hay

oh it was the most wonderfull sound it really brought a smile to my face. i really panicked at first because i cudent find nothing and then i found it i am just so thankfull princess,

i think the next thing i need prey for is telling my parents because ther not gonna be happy at all there gonna go mad but im hoping ure preys will soften and work on them so wen i do tell them it wont be so bad. i dont want them being angry at me and my OH

 

[PrincessBree]

Hey Ladies,

I know many of the ladies here already have children.But I wanted to know for you all,how has this pregnancy changed you (if at all)?What has been different this time around?We have been praying loads how has this helped (if at all)?Do you feel closer to God?Further away?It's sometimes good to evaluate-Would be interesting to know xx Looking forward to hearing from you all!!

To answer my own question-I feel that on getting pregnant,though I was close to the Lord before, it just drew me even closer.In terms of my prayer life and devotional life went to new extremes lol.And initially loosing the baby I stayed in that place of fellowship with the Lord.But then as the pain got worse I began to draw away from Him,because I felt I could not handle the pain,shame and even guilt at times of loosing the babyx

But as time has gone on I have realised how much that time of pain and suffering actually bought me into a closer relationship with Him.Though at times my prayers were only "Lord help me...Lord lift me.."He seems to have heard and answered,even my slightest whimper.

I have never felt this close to the Lord,as I do now.I think I can join in with David in saying, "it was good for me to be afflicted,so that i can know the ways of the Lord.."Psalm 119:71.I am Not saying it was good for me to loose the baby,but I can definately now see that my pain has a had a greater purpose.It has made me into an even more devoted lover of Jesus.

Also I guess ectopic pregnancy has made me see how delicate our lives really are!Like we should always live every moment to the full.Live every day in love,doing all that we can to fulfill our purpose in God.I have learnt not to allow life and circumstances to be my joy,but rather to allow the Lord to be my strength,my hope and joy.

So that is how pregnancy has changed me!Hows about you??xx

 

[future hopes]

i think its made me feel even closser hun. i mean i was close to him anyway i have a cross and bible right next to me wen i sleep i believe it keeps me safe.

 

[future hopes]

Thank you SO much girls for the prayers and hugs , they are much appreciated! We are dealing pretty well with the miscarriage, considering. We are leaning on Jesus and each other and every day gets better. We named our baby so that he/she has a name in heaven (we named him/her Jalen Adonia). We are just picturing Jesus holding our little angel in his arms.

I know we will get our rainbow baby when it is God's time for it to happen. I just hope and pray that it is sooner rather than later. I would never wish a miscarriage on anyone, it is such a heart wrenching time.

nothing can explain the pain hun i think u r so brave for continuing to rite on here and i really feel god is with u right now and he is helping u. i know ive already said it but my whole heart truly goes out to u ure in my thoughts hunny and im sending lots of love and