Christian ladies TTC, we can encourage one another.

[Shellvz]

Dr advised our only option is IVF. He has ruled out falling pregnant naturally or insemination and we have ruled out donor sperm.

He gave us the IVF sales pitch - as expected but there are so many variables: expense, hormone injections, tests & surgical procedures for both of us. Plus the ethical dilemmas of embryo's.

So, what does God say? He has the final word!

 

[Godsjewel]

Dr advised our only option is IVF. He has ruled out falling pregnant naturally or insemination and we have ruled out donor sperm.

He gave us the IVF sales pitch - as expected but there are so many variables: expense, hormone injections, tests & surgical procedures for both of us. Plus the ethical dilemmas of embryo's.

So, what does God say? He has the final word!

Hi Dear

Time and time again the doctors told my husband and I that IVF would be our last option. We told them many times that it wasn't a possibility and would joke around saying we could buy a new car with that money. Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that my husbands insurance would cover it. I myself feel at total peace about it and am just adding this on as another chapter in my testimony. A lady that used to join us on this thread recently did IVF and is now pregnant. She messaged me awhile back and has been such an encouragement to me now that I will be going through this IVF process. I see this as another way for me to help others that will travel down this road.

This is definitely something that you and your hubby will need to pray about and I pray that God shows you the answer and brings you peace whatever is decided

 

[Godsjewel]

Congrats to the new BFPs!

I am so happy to hear that the Lord has blessed you with a new path to your LO, GJ. Three fresh IVFs almost completely covered by insurance! God is so good. I cried when I read it.

AFM- I've been waiting for December to come for quite some time. I don't know why, but I've been feeling like this month is going to a big one in terms of TTC. And not necessarily just for me. Maybe because this was our lucky month one year ago. It didn't end the way I would have liked, but I know everything happens for a reason. I just can't see it yet. But that's okay. I'm confident in the knowledge that the Lord is working in my life to bring me to the place he wants me to be. This year (and the next), I'm leaving it all in God's hands. I can't tell you how wonderful it is to feel that TTC weight lifted off my shoulders....and it feels a bit easier to just wait and see what will happen in the coming year.

Hi Sweetheart!!!

Your positive attitude fills my heart with joy

God is so good and I too am looking forward to see what He is going to do in 2013!!!

 

[Praying4bump]

Hi ladies! It has been a while since I posted but I have been lurking around trying not to focus so much on ttc and more on my relationship with God.
Congrats to All the bfps! I'm sorry about all the heart breaks.

We have been oficially ttc for 19mos and started seeing an RE last week. Its still sad that I have to go through this process but im making peace with it because this is the path my God has chosen for me.
You ladies give me courage to accept my path. Im keeping you all in my prayers.

 

[Heather11]

Dr advised our only option is IVF. He has ruled out falling pregnant naturally or insemination and we have ruled out donor sperm.

He gave us the IVF sales pitch - as expected but there are so many variables: expense, hormone injections, tests & surgical procedures for both of us. Plus the ethical dilemmas of embryo's.

So, what does God say? He has the final word!

We were just told that IVF is our only option as well! I am here if you ever want to chat! And you are right God will help you decide if this is the right decision for you and yours!

 

[Shellvz]

Hi Ladies,

Thank you so much for your kind words, encouragement and support. I have decided to take a break from all things ttc while we pray and decide our future.

I need to stop for my own sanity. Checking on this thread has been helpful but is becoming more painful as we face our future - potentially childless.

I wish everyone all the best and hope that you all receive the child of your hearts.

God bless,

Shell

 

[BRK06]

With Christmas getting closer I have to say that with the latest TTC set back I have not really been in the mood for any type of Christmas celebration. Between the parties and the gifts and all of the hustle and bustle it really just turned me off. I have just been so down lately.

One of the things I do in my spare time is "adopt" deployed soldiers. I send them letters, cards, and care packages for support. I was putting together my care package for my soldier this afternoon and as I was putting together and it started to put me back into the holiday spirit. Upon reflection I feel it is because putting together the care package to send overseas is an act of the true Christmas spirit and celebration of life and love before it became all about presents and material things.

Somethings this season get so busy and we need to take a step back and remember the real reason we are celebrating Christmas.

I think it is awesome you are taking care of troops like that They really appreciate it!

 

[BRK06]

Hi Ladies,

Thank you so much for your kind words, encouragement and support. I have decided to take a break from all things ttc while we pray and decide our future.

I need to stop for my own sanity. Checking on this thread has been helpful but is becoming more painful as we face our future - potentially childless.

I wish everyone all the best and hope that you all receive the child of your hearts.

God bless,

Shell

I pray God's blessings on you too Sis! I will keep you in prayer. I understand the need to take a break and distance yourself for a bit. Whenever you need us we will all be here!

 

[Dynamicmae]

Hey ladies!!! Did progesterone test 7 dpo.... Was 1.2 :'( Shows absolutely noooooo ovulation. Last month wass 66 showed strong ovulation. Was 1.6 the first month no ovulation. Now I'm wondering if only my one ovary works. It was my 3rd round of clomid 50mg CD 2-6 and I'm due to see doc tomorrow. Feeling a little down

 

[Godsjewel]

Hey ladies!!! Did progesterone test 7 dpo.... Was 1.2 :'( Shows absolutely noooooo ovulation. Last month wass 66 showed strong ovulation. Was 1.6 the first month no ovulation. Now I'm wondering if only my one ovary works. It was my 3rd round of clomid 50mg CD 2-6 and I'm due to see doc tomorrow. Feeling a little down

I'm sorry the results weren't what you wanted, I'm sure the doc will have an answer for you tomorrow about what is going on and will maybe up your dose, or try a different medication.

Everything will be ok sis, I will continue to pray for you

 

[Godsjewel]

Joseph
The Forgotten Member of the Christmas Story​

There is no doubt that you are being bombarded with everything Christmas. It’s everywhere you look. Turn on the television and there are commercials offering you the greatest bargains you could ever hope for. Decorations line the streets and radio stations blast “Jingle Bells” and “We Wish You A Merry Christmas”. It’s hard to feel merry when you are struggling with infertility, and all you want for Christmas is a positive pregnancy test. Your heart is filled with so many questions, and in this time when our attention is turned to God’s plan for humanity, you can’t help but wonder about His plan for you. Today would be a good day to sit down with Joseph. Share a few moments with the man who adopted the Savior. The one who wiped His nose and taught Him a trade. The one whose heart must have carried as many questions that first Christmas as yours does this Christmas.

Have you ever really thought about Joseph? What he thought and felt? He knows all about a life that doesn’t go according to a plan. He thought he would marry the girl down the road, he’d build her a nice home and they’d have children--together--and they’d be like everyone else. Sound familiar? He had no idea that God had such a plan and that he would play such a role. Don’t you imagine he must have scratched his head more than once as he pondered the part he was to play in this scene? “God, why me? Why did You choose me? I don’t know if I can do this.” Can’t you see his face as he tried to get Mary settled in a stable for the birth of Jesus? “God, I’m failing you. I’m failing her. I’m failing Him. I can’t do this right. I just can’t do this. I just wanted to get married and have a family, God! I feel like such a failure.”

Scripture doesn’t tell us much about Joseph so we don’t really know if he felt like this or not. We do know that he must have loved Mary, and that he trusted God with all of his heart. No matter what his exact thoughts were, he had to be amazed at the magnitude of the role he was called upon to play. I believe there were times when his calling felt too heavy, the job seemed too hard. Does yours? Does the burden of infertility weigh too heavily on your heart? Especially during times when society focuses so intensely on family and children? Think again on Joseph.

During the times Joseph must have struggled in feeling like he wasn’t doing enough for his unique family, he must have felt like a failure, yet Heaven must have smiled. Why? Because Joseph’s trusting heart was leading him down the path Heaven had planned for him. He couldn’t see the entirety of God’s plan and couldn’t understand all that he was asked to do, but his servant’s heart trusted God. He was playing a role in the events that would change not only his world, but the world.

There are times as you are called upon to carry the burden of infertility when you are faced with facets of God’s plan that you do not understand. You may feel like a failure, much like Joseph may have. You may feel as if you are failing your family by not giving your spouse a child or not giving your parents grandchildren. Somehow, your servant’s heart keeps trusting in God and His magnificent plan for your life. And Heaven smiles because your trusting heart keeps you walking the path God has planned for you even when His plan has included infertility for a while.

Joseph may have winced when he looked inside that dirty, little stall where his sweetheart would labor to bring the Savior into the world. He may have thought he was doing Him an incredible injustice by not providing better. But God led him there just as He led the shepherd and the Magi there. Just as He led you to your physician or support group, or into the care of your supportive friend or the church family who loves you not even knowing the struggle you face.

And Heaven smiles.

-Beth Forbus

 

[pvsmith12]

Hi everyone.

Ok, so this really has nothing to do with baby making, but I am so excited that I just had to share! I have been searching and praying for another job - yes, the one I have is full time, but it's horrible and I really don't enjoy being here. Most of the people I work with are obsessed with having the whole office immersed in drama... constantly, the office used to be an old horse barn, so it's not the most pleasant place to work, and (since it's a family run business) myself and the other 2 newest ladies get treated horribly.

Anyway, I have been searching for months for a new job, as well as praying for guidance from God, but there has just been nothing. Earlier in the year I applied for a program where they would train you to be a Continuing Care Assistant, but was wait-listed because I had a full time job. I was super upset about it, since I would love to be a CCA but can't afford to go back to school. Well, today one of the ladies from the program called and asked if I was still interested! They are starting a new class in February and I already qualified and everything last year. Right now I am waiting for a call back, but I am praying that this is really going to happen for me.

 

[Godsjewel]

Hi everyone.

Ok, so this really has nothing to do with baby making, but I am so excited that I just had to share! I have been searching and praying for another job - yes, the one I have is full time, but it's horrible and I really don't enjoy being here. Most of the people I work with are obsessed with having the whole office immersed in drama... constantly, the office used to be an old horse barn, so it's not the most pleasant place to work, and (since it's a family run business) myself and the other 2 newest ladies get treated horribly.

Anyway, I have been searching for months for a new job, as well as praying for guidance from God, but there has just been nothing. Earlier in the year I applied for a program where they would train you to be a Continuing Care Assistant, but was wait-listed because I had a full time job. I was super upset about it, since I would love to be a CCA but can't afford to go back to school. Well, today one of the ladies from the program called and asked if I was still interested! They are starting a new class in February and I already qualified and everything last year. Right now I am waiting for a call back, but I am praying that this is really going to happen for me.

That is great news hun! Thank you Lord for blessing my sis with this wonderful opportunity, you knew her hearts desire.

Keep us updated on how things go!

 

[BaByWiLLoW]

Hi ladies! In need of prayers please!! I took test yesterday with a faint positive but then again this morning and nothing so I am trying so hard not to lose faith that the Lord has blessed us but I just dont know??

 

[No Doubt]

Pv praying that everything works in your favor. You will get a call and it will be everything you want it to be. I pray the Lord blessed you in this new opportunity greatly!

Willow I know what you mean about maybe maybe not. Maybe try having faith that whatever the outcome God is in control. This may be easier than trying to keep the faith that something is there and a hit less nerve wrecking too. But I do hope that God blesses you with a wonderful bundle!

 

[pvsmith12]

I got a call back. I have to get an updated Criminal Record Check for them and in January I will be called to go for an interview with the employers. I am hoping that since this will be my second year going through this process, and the fact that I was #2 on the wait list last year, I have a better chance at getting a spot in the class.

Thank you ladies for your prayers, I really appreciate them.

Willow: I will be praying that you get answers soon, and hopefully the Lord has blessed you with a tiny little bundle to call your own.

 

[Godsjewel]

A Christmas Secret​

Shh! Can you keep a secret? You can’t tell! My husband’s Christmas gift has been sitting on our kitchen counter for two weeks and he doesn’t know it! It’s wrapped up in a beautiful, decorative box that is quite ornate. The uniquely shaped box he assumes to be a new Christmas decoration is actually a gift he has been hinting for quite some time. He walks by it every day and has no idea. He stands within inches of his present and reads the mail! I have to admit, I enjoy being a little sneaky and the thought of hidden treasures makes me smile.

Do you realize that God has hidden treasures all around you today? He understands that infertility can take a toll on your heart--especially around the holidays. He knows the burden that baby hunger brings, so He gives you an extra measure of love. He may not have placed them in brightly colored boxes on your kitchen countertops, but they are there.

Where are these hidden Christmas gifts from God? Perhaps God has given you a measure of His love in a phone call from a friend who just called to check on you after she knew you had an important doctor’s appointment. Just the fact that she cared spoke volumes to your heart. (A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.--Proverbs 25:11) Remember your pastor’s sermon that really seemed to speak to your heart? Maybe God was being a little sneaky and placed that in your pastor’s heart just for you. There are many times we receive emails telling us that one of these devotions was just what someone needed for the struggle they were going through on a particular day. God had placed a hidden treasure right in front of them--right on their computer screen! Something as simple as an encouraging book you find in a Christian book store, or even a song on the radio can remind you of the love God has for you in troubling times. Perhaps you’ve never considered that encounters such as these can be more than just coincidences and could actually be hidden gifts from God to help you through this most difficult journey through infertility.

Remember when you were a little girl? Did you sneak around the house at Christmas time, trying your best to find the Christmas gifts you knew were hidden somewhere just out of sight? Why not be like that again? Look around you for the hidden treasures of God’s love.

As women who want to get pregnant we are absolute professionals at looking for signs. Every time we are in the midst of a two-week wait between ovulation day and day 28, we look for a sign we are pregnant. Could that twinge mean anything? I don’t think I feel very well today. Could that be morning sickness starting? Why not put this unintentional talent to work for you? Look for a sign that God is offering you extra encouragement today? “Could that song be God’s way of reminding me that He really is Emmanuel, God with me? He won’t leave me--even through infertility!”
God loves you.

He’s passionate about you. He wants to show you His love for you. And when you find His gifts of love, I believe He smiles.
-Beth Forbus

 

[beckysprayer]

Hi everyone.

Ok, so this really has nothing to do with baby making, but I am so excited that I just had to share! I have been searching and praying for another job - yes, the one I have is full time, but it's horrible and I really don't enjoy being here. Most of the people I work with are obsessed with having the whole office immersed in drama... constantly, the office used to be an old horse barn, so it's not the most pleasant place to work, and (since it's a family run business) myself and the other 2 newest ladies get treated horribly.

Anyway, I have been searching for months for a new job, as well as praying for guidance from God, but there has just been nothing. Earlier in the year I applied for a program where they would train you to be a Continuing Care Assistant, but was wait-listed because I had a full time job. I was super upset about it, since I would love to be a CCA but can't afford to go back to school. Well, today one of the ladies from the program called and asked if I was still interested! They are starting a new class in February and I already qualified and everything last year. Right now I am waiting for a call back, but I am praying that this is really going to happen for me.

That is wonderful! I'm praying for you and this job. It sounds like a wonderful opportunity.

Hi ladies! In need of prayers please!! I took test yesterday with a faint positive but then again this morning and nothing so I am trying so hard not to lose faith that the Lord has blessed us but I just dont know??

Praying for you! I hope it is a real BFP for you

Hey ladies!!! Did progesterone test 7 dpo.... Was 1.2 :'( Shows absolutely noooooo ovulation. Last month wass 66 showed strong ovulation. Was 1.6 the first month no ovulation. Now I'm wondering if only my one ovary works. It was my 3rd round of clomid 50mg CD 2-6 and I'm due to see doc tomorrow. Feeling a little down

I'm so sorry! I hate the letdown each month, but hopefully your doctor will have a good explanation.

Hi Ladies,

Thank you so much for your kind words, encouragement and support. I have decided to take a break from all things ttc while we pray and decide our future.

I need to stop for my own sanity. Checking on this thread has been helpful but is becoming more painful as we face our future - potentially childless.

I wish everyone all the best and hope that you all receive the child of your hearts.

God bless,

Shell

I'm praying for you and know God has wonderful things in store for you. Taking a break is very helpful sometimes though, it has been for me anyway. We will all still be praying for you though.

Dr advised our only option is IVF. He has ruled out falling pregnant naturally or insemination and we have ruled out donor sperm.

He gave us the IVF sales pitch - as expected but there are so many variables: expense, hormone injections, tests & surgical procedures for both of us. Plus the ethical dilemmas of embryo's.

So, what does God say? He has the final word!

We were just told that IVF is our only option as well! I am here if you ever want to chat! And you are right God will help you decide if this is the right decision for you and yours!

Praying for both of you. How wonderful that God brought so many of you on here to IVF around the same time. What a wonderful support system built in, whether you decide to go that route or not.

AFM, I'm having a low day. AF came and since we started TTC last December, that makes one full year of it. Not a milestone I wanted to reach... No more storms please, I'm ready for my rainbow

 

[Dynamicmae]

Was at th doc yesterday. It turns out I only have one functioning ovary so only ovulate every second cycle. I only have 6 chances a year to get pregnant... The left ovary show STRONG ovulation. But due to many cysts being removed from the right ovary it is covered in to much scar tissue to be able to ovulate. Doc wants hubby to go for sperm count and me to go check that tubes aren't blocked. Medical insurance doesn't cover any of this Hubby and I chatted and we've decided to go for the tests this month (scratch the money together) cause we don't wanna waste any time. I googled the HSG tube test and it seems really scary! Gosh! Keeping the faith and trusting God will carry us through on every level!

 

[No Doubt]

Dynamic the hsg is not bad. I had to have one last November and was a bit freaked before hand. There is some slight cramping when they are putting the balloon in, just like if it were af. Other than that you don't feel anything. Plus you get to see it while its happening, at least I did. And they will often tell you there what they see, but them say wait for the official from your doc. Nothing for you to be worried about. I'm sure you will be fine!