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[Peach Blossom]

Thanks ladies. Love you all!

Casey, he's not on meds... I've been tempted to spike his food with viagra before though!

 

[kcw81]

Haha! I thought he was on anti depressants. Ok then shit! Not fair he has got to step up To the plate and partner up with u . I swear once you talk u will feel soooooo much better even if things dont change right away.

 

[SBB]

I think the girls have said it all really.
I think we just get into a rut, and once the cuddles and affection dies down and we let it continue like that for ages then it's hard to pick it back up. I guess in hindsight the thing to do is always keep it going and not let it slack for longer than a couple of weeks before addressing it. I know that doesn't help now!

Do you feel like this could become a real issue? Or do you think you are hormonal/pmt? Obviously it's a real issue, but I just know that pmt can make it much worse...



X x x

 

[Rudeollie]

Oh Jess sweetie. Im so sorry things are rough at the mo. all advice given is pure gold hun...............How about arragning your mum to watch Lili and texting him for a date?? Not even a night maybe an afternoon out, some drinkies and then dinner............Bedtime for Lili then bedtime for you both perhaps???

Love you xxx

 

[Peach Blossom]

Do you feel like this could become a real issue? Or do you think you are hormonal/pmt? Obviously it's a real issue, but I just know that pmt can make it much worse...



X x x

I think TBH I feel like this on a cyclical basis... not every month! I think it's compounded by PMT and being alone with Lili so much. Most of the time I can cope with it, but now and then I get myself in to a right 2&8 about it. I know I need to tackle it, but he's so dismissive when I try to talk about these things. His main line being "it's not important to me to be physical"... Doesn't seem to matter what's important to me.

 

[Peach Blossom]

Oh Jess sweetie. Im so sorry things are rough at the mo. all advice given is pure gold hun...............How about arragning your mum to watch Lili and texting him for a date?? Not even a night maybe an afternoon out, some drinkies and then dinner............Bedtime for Lili then bedtime for you both perhaps???

Love you xxx

Funnily enough I did that in France! He raced through dinner so we could get back in time to watch Top Gear on tv.... I think we'll move Lili in to her room at the weekend... that might help...

 

[babyloulou]

Did he used to think it was important to be physical with you? Or has he always been that way? Has he always had a low sex drive? X

 

[Peach Blossom]

Ellen, sorry, I forgot to say... OMG!!! Spain! How amazing! Will you go? Xx

 

[Rudeollie]

Gosh Jess thats got to be hard...............If its important to you to be physical then he need to grow a pair and suck it up. At least a few times a month u know?? That way both of you are satisfied......................

I have to say tho he would have no balls left if he rushed dinner with me for frickin topgear! lol! Shall I come kick him in the balls love??? x

 

[Rudeollie]

LOL! Jess we are SERIOUSLY considering it. Some of the apartments are amazing and the opp would be fab..............And Ive just googled its an hour away from a fab mountain range for boarding.............And 3 hrs from Alicante! Hahaha x

 

[Peach Blossom]

Did he used to think it was important to be physical with you? Or has he always been that way? Has he always had a low sex drive? X

Think he's always been like that but felt obliged at the beginning of the relationship... The depression definitely had an impact though... He has a wierd block in his head that stops his sex drive unless he's totally relaxed and worry free... Which is never!

 

[Rudeollie]

Aww Jess , sorry I just went off ranting there..............Does he see someone over the depression?? maybe he needs to??

 

[Peach Blossom]

Don't apologise! I don't think depression is an issue anymore. He was depressed cos he wasn't getting any work as an actor. But now he has his film making and he's happy with it.... If I didn't like Top gear too he would have got severe beats!! having said that I didn't rush dinner for it!

Think I just need to get it all out and tell him and not worry about his reaction.

By boarding do you mean snow boarding?! Will Pearl be one of those sickening toddlers who wizz past everyone on the slopes?! it's an amazing opportunity! Lots to think about though. Do either of you speak Spanish?!

 

[babyloulou]

You definitely need to not worry about his reaction and just say it! Why should you be living unhappy just because you don't want to upset him by making him talk about it!

Do you think the acting thing still gets him down? Was it what he'd always wanted to be? If you need to cheer him up tell him i remember him in Bad Girls! Then tell him I think he's a tosser!

 

[Rudeollie]

Hahaha yeah snowboarding.............Paul is a snowboarder and I was a skateboarder so we kinda rock the slopes hahaha So pearl had BEST pick it up and give skiers some grief hahaha!

No fluent spanish for us, I speak French tho so not TOO far from the lingo. But the company is British American so not TOO much spanish needed. Ive joined a madrid mummys group online to get some tips on areas and stuff. I gotta take the cats...........And mum hahaha!

Bless, I like TG too. Not Jeremy tho hahaha Seriously tho, a good talk is what you two need. Get it all out there and start at the beginning hun xxx

 

[Rudeollie]

Lou I swear to GOD i just pissed myself! that is effin hilariious! Hahahaha x

 

[babyloulou]

I love Jeremy! I think he's funny!

Would your mum go with you Ellen? X

 

[Rudeollie]

Shes over tomorrow Lou so will discuss it then................. I reckon so and paul told the job this and they said theyd sort stuff out x

 

[babyloulou]

They must really want him!! They are willing to ship the whole family, MIL and cats over there!

 

[Peach Blossom]

Haha Lou, will pass the message on! He really loved acting, but has always wanted to be a director so I don't think he really misses it... Put it this way his agent called and said he'd been checked for a regular on casualty and he said no... I just think he's so wrapped up in his world and life that he's forgotten we're supposed to share our lives!