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Sounds to me like you've got teething girls! Sammuel wouldn't be put down, go to sleep etc when his last one came through. Of course he still ate, but it's Sammuel!!!
Jess you're not doing anything wrong :hugs:

Lou GREAT news on SAHM - you'll be able to chat to us all day forever :yipee: and play games!!

Lisa I love that pic! Love stroppy faces :)

Casey - re the weaning. I'd just be really concerned that he's already 7.5 months, and if you only give him these cracker things for a while, he'll become really fussy. I'm not saying that is what WILL happen, just that's what my concern would be.
Are you up for BLW? It takes them AGES to eat, and while he's eating you can get on with some other stuff. You need to be there in case he chokes of course, but you can be in the same room and get on with something else, rather than sitting there spoon feeding him.
I know it's messy, but we have wooden floors and just wipe up after, it takes 5 mins including his seat. We do Sammuels dinner at about 6-6.30 and then straight in the bath, then feed in bed and he (usually) goes to sleep. He also has one of those cover-all bibs.

I know you are VERY routine driven, and your routine is going to change, but it has to at some time. You need to cut down your pumping which I know you are doing, and this is the next step!!

If I were you, I would start with just one meal a day, before bath time. Let him play with some food, chunks of banana, ripe mango etc, and see how he goes. You can gradually introduce more. I started with just evening meals, then breakfast, then lunch. You can also avoid messy foods in the day, so you don't need to clean up so much! Toast for example hardly makes a mess at all!
And if it's warm, sit outside and eat. Chompy or the birds can clean up!

You know I'm not being horrible... I'm just giving you my totally honest opinion as an outsiders view. :hugs:

x x x
 
I appreciate it suz for real. No one else is around to help me or tell me what's up- which is nice for the most part- no annoying inlaw advice, but I do need some wisdom here and there. I really want to try ... God there are all these things that need to change now and I am procrastinating. So delayed solids create a fussy baby or a fussy eater?
 
I've heard it makes them a fussy eater Casey... something about exposing them to different tastes during that window of time can be crucial

I understand how you feel on the procrastinating though... why fix something that isn't broken? If you've got everything going good and Jimmy is happy, why disrupt it? I may need you to encourage me a bit on some issues later! :) I do NOT like to mess with Daniel's routine because he's SO easy to manage and I don't have the energy/stamina for a fussy baby (you girls with fussier babies deserve a medal imo!)
 
Well put Lisa. That's exactly how I feel!! Is it weird that I think a fussy eater later doesn't sound that bad?
 
Yes Casey from what I've read, now is a crucial time for them to explore tastes. So if they're not given any food, or only one or two foods, they'll get so used to them that they won't like anything else. So yes it could make him a really fussy eater.

I know you are super organised/OCD :haha: with your pumping/freezing, but you could let that go and replace it with super organised foods. You could drop a pump, and instead use that time to prepare some foods. I prepare stuff in larger quantities than I need now, and freeze it for another day. So some days involve nothing more than turning the oven on and sticking whatever I've made in to it!

You could also (with Bob) have a big cooking / freezing session one weekend every month or something to get lots of stuff made and frozen for the whole month.

Hope that helps?
Also if it helps we could post what we're feeding our babies each day to give you some ideas / inspiration?
x x x
 
Is it weird that I think a fussy eater later doesn't sound that bad?

When you have to make him a separate dinner to you constantly because he won't eat stuff it will!
Also imagine when he's at school / a picnic or whatever and he'll hardly eat anything that's on offer :(

I'd hate to not enjoy lots of different foods!

x x x
 
I agree with Suz Casey- it may seem like hard work now but having a fussy toddler or reluctant eater would be much harder!! And probably messier in the long run too - imagine a toddler throwing a paddy cos he doesn't know how to eat! They can throw much further than babies! :haha:

It's not really, really messy to be honest- and it depends on the food. I think purees definitely make more mess- if I give Ben yoghurt, breakfast pouches or porridge then it is a bit messy (although I do pre-load spoons and let him feed himself which is much
messier). "solid" foods though make much less mess. Toast, vegetables, boiled potatoes etc.. I just eat what he's having and it only takes a couple of minutes to clean up!

Today I gave Ben a baked potato with beans! I was expecting a mess cos i thought it would be difficult for him- but have seen people on the BLW thread saying they were easier to eat than you'd think! I scraped rhe potato out of the skins and mixed it with low salt baked beans (tinned haricot beans in tomato sauce for you USers) and some cream cheese- then put the inside back in the skin and cut each half into three wedge shapes. He did brilliantly and hardly made any mess at all! I was so proud :haha:

Here he is....


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the food he's eating looks vile all mashed up like that, lol.. but he's remarkably clean!
(your kitchen is beautiful!!!... note to self, clean up the area where I'll be feeding Daniel when he's ready to wean, I don't want messy backgrounds in all my pictures of him eating, lol)
 
Your kitchen does look very tidy lou!! Great idea on the potato... Sammuel hates potato at the moment. But I might try it soon!

X x x
 
The kitchen is only that clean because Ste took Ben swimming this morning so I had an hour to clean! It was messier yesterday! :haha:

I didn't expect him to like it Suz but he really did! It had a bit of salt-free butter in too x

Just read back properly- Ellen and Jess- sorry your girlies are giving you hassle! I'm sure it's either teeth or just a short phase! The clingiest time is supposed to be between 7-9 months xxx
 
Lou cute pics! I don't know how to cook. I only ever make salads and sandwiches and cereal. And I eat a lot of fruit and cheese. The whole idea if using the oven makes me want to go buy gerber in a jar.
 
Casey if you can cook a piece of toast and cut up fruit & vegetables that's all you need for now! Babies LOVE fruit.

x x x
 
Salads, sandwiches, cereal, toast, cheese, fruit- it's like a baby's perfect diet Casey!! :-)
 
Thanks ladies! Why u so nice and helpful to me? Aww it's nice to get attention and advice from u all. Hugs.
 
Cos we love you casey!!!! :hugs: and also don't want jimmy to starve :haha:

X x x
 
Because we love you!! We don't want you to be scared! You'll enjoy it once you throw yourself in :hugs:
 
you can microwave potatoes! (just pierce a million times with a fork so they don't explode) no oven needed! :)

My kitchen is NEVER that neat looking... of course I don't have enough counter space or cupboards so its just full and overflowing... in my dining area there is a messy bookshelf that we use as extra pantry space so it has cereal boxes, birdseed, random stuff etc, lol... that will be prime background area when we get our feeding chair out so I'm going to have to rethink the placement of the chair or do some major organization/clean up!
 
Thanks Casey! It's definitely about control! She likes to do things her way! I'll mention it tomorrow though anyway, we're off to see the pediatrician and hopefully, finally, get discharged from hospital!!

Ellen, sorry Pearl is being a madame too.... Must be these strong willed girls we've bred! God help their husbands!! :rofl:
 

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