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[Peach Blossom]

He's gone for good... won't even try counselling. He's throwing away 11 years on "I don't know"... Oh girls, what am I going to do? How can I be on my own?

 

[SBB]

Oh Jess I'm so sorry you will be ok I promise. Not right now but I know you will be ok in time... Just got to take it day by day...

You WILL be happy. This could be the best thing... You deserve to be happy and loved

X x x

 

[Euronova]

So so sorry Jess.... but I agree you deserve more, A LOT more and I have no doubt you will be happier... as Suz said not right now but soon enough... i think you will be happier in the end.

 

[babyloulou]

Oh god Jess I'm sorry Did he give you any reasons? Anything?

You will be fine you know babe. You've felt apart from him for so long and felt so lonely that you are going to be so much happier in the long run - I know that seems impossible but you will I promise

 

[Peach Blossom]

he said that he wouldn't be going to counselling for the right reasons and that he "didn't know" whether it would work and he didn't want to hurt me all over again 3 months down the line by realising that he didn't want it to work. He said that it was just too big a journey too big a task to get back to where we were... I hate him... right now I hate him so so much...

 

[SBB]

I cried at your Facebook status

I can't believe he's throwing it all away... He's such a fool.

We have to arrange you coming to stay in my village and lou coming down. We will cheer you up or at least distract you

X x x

 

[SBB]

I hate him too....

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

That would be lovely.. Right now I can't think beyond tomorrow, but I'll have a think about it and work out when. xx

 

[Euronova]

Actually for once i think this is a good decision, clearly as we suspected he was doing the counselling just to save the face but he could not even be bothered... shows how little consideration he has for you and Lili... he will regret it, i have no doubt, but i think it's fair he is not putting you through months of counselling and anguish if his heart is not into it and he does not even want to give it a fair shot....
what a d*ckhead though to get himself in that place in the first place... i doubt he will ever be happy with anyone! You will!

 

[babyloulou]

I hate him too

 

[SBB]

That would be lovely.. Right now I can't think beyond tomorrow, but I'll have a think about it and work out when. xx

Of course sweetie, take your time

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

If there's anything you need Jess- anything at all- Ben and I are only a direct train ride away in either direction xx

 

[SBB]

And I'm not far away either, can always come and see you or meet somewhere half way if you want a change of scene...

X x x

 

[Euronova]

Yes Jess, anything I can do let me know... I am literally next door!!

 

[kcw81]

Jess so sorry Hun! This sucks!!! It must hurt so bad. I wish you had your sister or someone who could come over and be there for you! Joe is such a quitter.

 

[Onelildream]

Jess- i'm so sorry,Hun. I cannot believe the selfishness required to leave your wife and baby girl. What a horrible man. I am so sad for you. I pray that you will find the strength to move forward and the comfort needed to make it on your own... Like the girls said, you can do this, Joe has been absent for a looong time... U deserve so much better. You deserve someone that is fully faithful and loving and admires everything about you. We love you.

 

[lisaf]

Aw Jess he is such a fucking coward. You deserve better

 

[SBB]

Hey girls :wave:

I tidied the whole house this morning, now need to sleep for a day!

X x x

 

[kcw81]

Hi suz! Why do you have more time to be online it seems like? And to clean? Is S sleeping better??

 

[SBB]

No it's cos I can't be bothered with working

S sleeps pretty good (sorry lou!) he settled himself into a routine ages ago, morning nap for 1-1.5 hours and bed at 7... Its only if he has an afternoon nap it goes wrong!

Jess where are you? Been thinking about you all day, hope you're ok

X x x