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Joe used to do the opposite... finish the butter and put the empty tub back in the fridge! :hissy:
 
awww Jess, he is an absolute tool, don't put yourself through more pain and sorrow if he is not even wanting to stay with you anyway. What does the councellor says?
 
She says that the way he has done this is brutal and that he seems to be recreating history. She agrees that I need to have an answer. I need to know what went wrong, what he wants thats different for my own piece of mind.... I'm just so sad about all this... :cry:
 
I am glad she is talking sense and is on your side Jess. Brutal is right! Its so crazy how selfish and a bad person he is being when he used to be sorta decent.
 
Jess I'm sorry :hugs: it does seem that divorce is the only option really :( I know it's the hardest thing but I think you'll be happier in the long run...

Danny uses all the toilet paper but about 2 sheets, just so you can't quite see the card roll. He then pretends he didn't realise he'd used it all :growlmad:

X x x
 
i think unless you take control and make decisions and file for divorce, he will not react or even try to explain himself... i just can't believe how little consideration he has for your feelings... I mean fair enough he wants out, but he has been your partner for many year and has fathered a child with you... he must care about not hurting you! You have done nothing to hurt him, why is he not feeling more guilty about hurting you??? Even just out of respect for the mother of his child?? What a selfish, self centred b*stard!
 
I totally agree with V I can't believe how little he seems to care. He is a pig.

I definitely want to kick him in the face at Lilis party.

X x x
 
Ben's been asleep for two and a half hours after going to bed really easily......!!! :happydance:

(hope I'm not jinxing it!!)
 
I am sure between us we could set a few dogs on him and make sure he does not father any more child! :twisted:
 
Yikes V! Lou that's great! Please stay asleep Ben!! You can do it!
 
:rofl: love you girls. He was asking about her party today and who was going... When I told him he grimaced.... I can happily tell you it will be pure hell for him!! :)
 
aw Jess, sorry he can't seem to give you the answers you need. Maybe one day that will come, in the meantime, if you can reconcile yourself to not having the answers it may be easier on you. (I had to do that with an ex... just accept things, and I did get the closure I needed years later when he called me out of the blue to apologize.. so random)

I'm guessing he doesn't really understand or know whats going on inside his own head. Because if he knew why he was feeling this way then he's an even bigger jackass for not sharing with you.

You deserve better and this limbo is not good for you. It sounds like its time to move on.
I'm sad for you though, it must still be hard even though he's making the decision an easy one (if that makes sense).

I'm surprised he has the ability to feel discomfort about what he's doing! Shocked!
 
How'd the doc go Lisa?

We just got back from stopping by dh Christmas party. Jimmy met all bob's co workers and he didn't bawl in anyone's face so it was a success! He did pretty good considering how loud it was and all these new faces in his face. Dh is still there making the rounds and prob getting drunk. He has a ride thankfully. I can't believe Xmas is next weekend! My sister is coming to stay with us and she hasn't seen Jims since he was newborn. I'm excited.
 
Ugh dh just got home an hour and a half late and reeked of beer. He never ever goes out so I should give him a pass but I am pissed and disgusted and was a bitch to him . Ugh. If he was going to stay late to drink lots he should have just admitted it instead of making me think he was all grown up now and would be home at 9.
 
aw thats exciting Casey! :)

The doc's was ok.. he couldn't detect any noticable issues and Daniel is just so darned healthy and happy and thriving that he really can't see what would be the issue. He called a consult over to a vascular specialist and we're getting an ultrasound done just to look for any abnormalities that could cause a blockage or pinch a vessel etc. My SIL had gotten a picture of it though so we showed that to the doc and he could see how bad it was (and apparently it has been worse than this when she's caught it before, she just didn't want to let it get worse so she snapped the picture and straightened him out so the color could come back).
https://i288.photobucket.com/albums/ll165/bethijimika/misc012-1.jpg
 
one more pic https://i288.photobucket.com/albums/ll165/bethijimika/misc011.jpg
 

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