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Did he reply about divorce? I'm so sad he's such a prick and is putting you through this :(
Why did he ignore you? Did he give a reason?

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Still 7 weeks is very early, but FF do sleep through quicker... It's very hard to be happy for someone when they tell you though :(

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The hardest thing is that he's been doing two lots of 5 hour stretches a night for weeks and she's "so tired and exhausted"!! :rofl:
 
To be fair she always follows saying that with... "I have no idea how you do it!"

I really hope Ben gets the idea of sleep soon...! He's soooooo bad now!
 
I think it's great you are sticking to your guns, i think i would have tried all sorts of sleeping technique by now.
Went to a greek christening today.... poor baby was completely dunked in water (over her head) she was all smiling and giggling before, then afterwards she was just hysterical and could not catch her breath she was so traumatised... it all seemed a bit barbaric!
 
How old was the baby? We dunk them at swimming, maybe they should have done that first so she was prepared!!

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yes i know people do it at swimming lessons but it's not in a metal chauldron with a weird guy with a long beard holding them! poor girl didn't see it coming... she was really freaked out. she was about 5 months i think.. not sure if she had swimming lesson plus i believe at swimming lesson they give a cue so the babies get used to it...
she was also naked in a very cold church.... just seemed all a bit brutal. I know babies cry even at church of england christening just having the water poured on their head... but she was in a real state of panic... i just felt so sorry for her
 
No, he hasn't replied about the divorce.... He said he knows he should have come and spoken to me, but that he froze and didn't know what to do. I basically told him that I didn't know who he was anymore and that I've either been dillusional for 11 years, or he's having some kind of breakdown... either way I don't want it anymore.

Lou, I really don't know how you do it... I make very sure not to complain on here, but I do complain sometimes if Lili wakes earlier than usual... even if she has been asleep for 12 hours... Don't get the guns... PLEASE!! :flower:
 
she was sort of dunked downward from a sitting position but thinking about it, she was pulling away from the man so she might well have had her head back a bit
 
V yeh its a totally different thing of course but the could have whispered the cue to her :haha: poor thing!! :(

Jess I'm glad you've said that to him... Either way I agree you don't need to deal with it anymore. :hugs: we love you!!

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you've hit the nail on the head Jess... you don't have to put up with it all. It seems like you are much stronger than he probably ever realised you are! Take control back!
 
Lili dunks herself now! I don't even give her a cue... she just keeps putting her face in the water! If it had been her getting baptised she'd have dived in!! :rofl: :rofl:

I'm feeling much stronger thanks girls... And I'm getting a bit of attention from various people which is really good for the old self esteem! ;)
 
Aww poor thing V :-(

Jess- I don't mind you girls moaning! :lol: I should imagine it makes you tired when you're used to them sleeping later. Plus you have to go to work too!

It usually doesn't bother me at all (only joking when I shoot you all :rofl: ) It's been my decision not to sleep train and I'm sure when I moan some think "for gods sake just leave him!" :haha:

It's just she went out to her works Xmas party on Friday (for 7 hours) and she's moaning it's made her tired- even though he's slept through the last two nights. It's not even her fault- it's normal moaning- it just makes me wish Ben would come on a little bit! Because he won't take a bottle I've not even been on a night out or even had a few hours away from him shopping or anything yet!!! I'm literally with him 24-7 - morning, noon and all through the night!!!!
 
I bet you are getting attention looking like you did last night! I showed Ste and he just said "WOW"!!!! :thumbup:
 
Jess you looked absolutely stunning!

https://sites.google.com/site/antibreastfeedingcampaign/ someone just posted this in a FB group I'm in... I can't even believe its been written!!

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