Bloody hell Chell!!!! I can't believe that... So glad you got away and found yourself a lovely man... But jeez no wonder you still dream about him... After those threats I'm not surprised. Yay for lovely Lars!
I think we all come to our senses in the end. Well most of us. My 2 main BFs before Danny were both compulsive liars. I am not and never have been a pushover in any area of my life, but for some reason I did just put up with it from them. The first one also was pretty emotionally abusive and occasionally violent. Not too bad but still... we got together when I was 18 and he was 26 (what does that say about him for a start?!) and he just wrecked my confidence, but I stuck with him 'cos I loved him' - how pathetic!! He also liked porn but not old ladies
He once showed me a pic in a lads mag of this woman (obv very attractive) and told me she was his ex, Later found out his ex was actually a total minger and he'd just picked out this random woman with the sole purpose of making me feel shit about myself
Then after him my BF was a total compulsive liar. It was so ridiculous, one of the many lies he told was that his dad bought him a guitar for his 21st and got it engraved. Then when I asked to see it he said his uncle had it for re-stringing - er yeh, his uncle must have had it the whole 2 years we were together! I felt sad for him about that lie cos it was obviously just about a fantasy great relationship with his dad...
After we split he told me he was going to Africa to 'help sick children'. He phoned me one night saying they'd been fired at and had to leave their camp, and all about the sick kids with HIV. Erm yeh, turned out he'd been in Barcelona!!!!!
Final one: He told me (also after split) they'd bought his mum a puppy for her bday. I saw his mum and said 'how's the puppy'? "er what puppy?' she said. I panicked and thought I'd ruined her surprise, so fumbled an answer... Anyway, of course it was a lie. He even showed my sister a picture of the local pub dog (about 8 years old) to PROVE this puppy wasn't a lie

what a TOOL!!!!!
I guess it's ex stories night tonight!
Where's Ellen and Laura lately?
x x x