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[CLAIRYFAIRY]

Good luck Sam I would be terrified too
Claire x

 

[babyloulou]

More places for us all to obsess DragonMummy!

 

[babyloulou]

How are you kissy? Just noticed you're online xx

 

[xkissyx]

hi lou was just catchin up and reading through ... am good thanks still no ovulation for me but had a fasting blood test done today and its checked for allsorts including all hormones the nurse said they'd be back tuesday so just intime for fs appoinment ..

how's u today lou .. congrats on the ovulation bring on the bfp!!

i had the most emotional mood ever last night just kinda had a mini break-down had a right go at OH he deserved it tho he made such an insesitive comment he said "don't know why your doing them damn things your just chasing the dream" .. i wouldn't say were on great talkin terms atm we had it out but don't think he realises exacly what am goin through he see's everything so simple ya have unprotected sex ya get pregnant and anything different he doesn't want to know
i feel stuck in limbo constantly i'd love to get answers as to what is wrong because am not buying that its just a hormone imbalance ... least if it was PCOS i could deal with it xx

 

[keepsmiling]

aww kissy sorry ur having such a bad time with things at th mo
fingers crossed things get better 4 u soon xx

 

[xkissyx]

i'm sure they'll get better in time its just such a struggle with lots of questions and no answers xx

 

[babyloulou]

Aww I'm sorry Kissy- sorry you had a row with OH about it! You will feel loads better once you have had your fertility appointment I'm sure! Make sure OH goes with you too because they will want to arrange his SA test and everything- if he doesn't go with you they will just say you have to make another appointment with him. Mine came and waited in the waiting room until I'd had all the checks then I called him in for the last 5 minutes!

Your OH will start to feel more involved as his tests are done too and everything. And it might help for him to hear from the FS that you two are going to need help- rather than just hearing it from you.

Chin up love- 5 more days and things will start moving for you! Always here if you need a chat xxx

 

[caz & bob]

hi girls sorry for some of you whos having a bad time sam good luck hun well me carnt wait to ovulat hope it earlyer this month haha x x x x

 

[xkissyx]

thanks lou ... i asked if he needed a SA and they said no because he has 2 children already that were conceived within the first 3 months of trying for each and so the blame lays with my body ... am sure i will feel lots better when i see FS but in the meantime limbo sucks bigtime!

got more peeved off because my cousin that has just had a baby and gave him to her mum when he was 2 week old well... she said if she's pregnant again she's gettin an abortion or giving it up for adoption because she doesn't want a baby, i told her straight ya don't want babies then don't have unprotected sex she's ment to be gettin implant in so we'll see what happens there her son has only just gone 3 months ....

on the upside i think my neighbour has appologised am not sure ... the bin men came other day n she brought our bin in for us and even put it in its place i suppose it was her way of saying sorry usually they just push it aside so they can get thier cars in and out the drive xx

 

[babyloulou]

Ha ha- she's probably scared of you now Kis!!

Was it the FS who said that your OH didn't need am SA or just your doc? I think F.S's usually request one anyway regardless of previous children because sperm counts can vary alot within a couple of years! For example my OH's first sample showed only 3% motile sperm and 7% normal forms- three months later (and after a few lifestyle changes) it was 26% motile sperm and 13% normal forms! That just shows you how sperm can change and how different things can affect them!

I would ask for an SA just to rule out any problems there too if I was you. They are cheap tests so they are likely to agree! I say that because we always knew the problem was with me not ovulating- we never imagined that OH would have issues too- but he did!

 

[xkissyx]

it was the gyno and doc that said it wouldn't need to be done but no harm in asking for it ....

i just get so fustrated and jealous and then angry for feeling like that nad then get so angry i'm cryin and then feel sorry for myself and then snap out of it just to be reminded a few days later ... i just never imagined TTC would take over my life like this ...

as for the neighbour hehe am sure she is but will teach her to start a fight when she's hungover xx

 

[Britt11]

Good morning girls
Sam- good luck hon, hope everything is ok, keep us posted
Babylou- yeah to O!!!! your chart looks fantastic!!
Lisaf- any news???

Caz, TTC how are you doing this morning?

has anyone had their CD3 bloods done and can post on their FSH? mine was on the high end- considered boderline I guess (I posted an update on my FS results a few pages back but you were all sleeping
the good news is my u/s is fine, no fibroid to be concerned of at all

hugs,

 

[lisaf]

My update:
I had a confusing hpt test last night. Very very frustrating...
Told DH last night before bed "honey, I need you to do something for me. Make sure I get a positive test in the morning." Told him that I was going to be mad at him if it didnt happen.. that I married him so I'd have someone to blame for stuff so he just needed to go along with it. You gotta laugh about this stuff, right?

This morning, BFN and temp drop, but still no spotting. Was slightly nauseous but really not sure that should count for anything... cramping has changed a little and seems more like pre-AF cramping but I'm in denial about that right now. Any hope for me out there?

 

[keepsmiling]

ur not out til the witch shows up xx

 

[caz & bob]

britt i am fine ty hun just hate the wait for o lisa keep testing hun x x x x

 

[lisaf]

that test from yesterday just upset me though... its so confusing and I've posted pics of it everywhere and 75% of of people say it looks positive. If it was just a matter of a faint line, I'd believe it, but since its all smudged funny I wasn't sure it counted.

 

[caz & bob]

if theres a second line hun its a + i seen it and it look good to me x x x x

 

[babyloulou]

Where is it posted Lisa? So I can have a look xxx

 

[lisaf]

but I had a BFN this morning (my pee wasn't quite as dark as it was when I took that other test yesterday afternoon.. but I feel like thats a slim hope to cling to) also took another one 4 hours after that one yesterday and it was negative too - of course pee wasn't as dark either.

my temp dropped today too

I'm scared of having a momentary implantation then losing it because of low progesterone... my doc said if I get a positive test then he'll give me progesterone supplements, but I'd have to call him like right now or risk waiting the whole weekend

And with a negative test this morning I just don't know that I can insist to him that I am.

 

[lisaf]

https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy-tests-gallery/329561-positive-test-its-weird-smudged.html