We do have one, but its not ideal LO basically sleeps downstairs on me or the couch, then at ten I go up to bed, we change her and then I give her another feed in bed before we go to sleep. Do other co-sleeping mummies do this? I feel like a failure for not having a 7:30 bed then mummy time or anything We tried down in her cot when she was 3 months but I couldnt handle it, I ended up in tears and OH even shouted at me, first time ever. I feel so bad about this ps. I didnt intend to co-sleep, just kinda happened that way, she does spend some time in her moses next to me, I don't want to move her to her own room until 6 months.