Coming off Cerazette in 3days

[Luxoire]

MME - yeah thanks, i guess once period is over, i will try again for this month...bought those ovulation testing sticks and pregnancy testing sticks from Ebay, so when i suspect I am ovulating, i will test and then hopefully be really that week...lol OH wont know what h it him - or he might just think Christmas has come early, bless him...

Yeah that seems a good time to test, i think it is round about same time i tested, it would be around 31days since the start of your period by then, i waited 32days which is fine - so unless your cycles are as long as mine, it should be safe to test then ...good luck hun, will keep everything crossed for you and will be checking for updates

Bumble - all you need it one very eager sperm and one very eager egg - i will be praying for you this weekend...

 

[Bumblebee24]

Thanks Lux. OH dropped a bomb last nite by again sayin “don’t think am ready again.” I said I thought we could try a little this month & he said yeh I no but I just go through different thoughts & don’t think am ready again.”

Well, my evening was far from fun, yet I feel so guilty being in a mood with him & try my best not to b. I can’t blame him for not being ready. I really, really want to try, not full on try but I have just a little try.

I said to him when do you think u might be ready, I no its like askin how long is a piece of string but I just want to no to give my poor brain & emotions a rest. I am going to give it my everything on Sunday (fancy underwear the lot, all I am asking is just 1 go this month & thanks Lux ill need all the prays possible lol )

Lux u`ll be with me on this one, my emotions are up and down as it is, 1st the thought & excitement of stopping the pill, then waiting for my 1st eva AF, being told he’s not ready to try, then he is and excitement of the thought of trying and now he says he isn’t not sure again. Wat a rollercoaster I have been through already.

MME I think 31-35 days is good to test as both me & u where on a 35+ AF after stopping the pill, but I too will keep everything crossed for u. I knew b4 the pill I was a bang on 28 day cycle, hence y I was so concerned when I got to 35 days and still no sign of AF.

 

[oceania]

Ive been off Cerazette since March 29th 2012. Had a very light period at the end of April, no period ever since. Nipple pain, stomach pain, etc once in a while + feeling very bloated. Im gonna book a time with the gynecologist tomorrow to figure out whats wrong and if theres anything they can do to help me get back on track with my periods (had regular 28 day cycles before starting cerazette june 2011). I really hate this and hate all the BFNs ive been getting, sigh.

 

[Luxoire]

OCEANIA - ohh dear!! you seem to have had a tough time of it..yeah i think you should see a doctor to try and talk you through what is going on - they might run different tests to see if there is any other underlying reason. it must be hard getyting all those BFNs...dont you worry your BFP is on its way..

keep us posted and we are here if u wanna chat or just vent..

 

[Luxoire]

BUMBLE - ohh you poor thing!! imagine him going hot and cold like that on you!! sometimes i think men really do not have an idea what we are going though - my OH said to me last night - with all the blood your loosing and pains etc..and still able to get upa nd do stuff - thats like amazine - i said thank you appreciating it - but u should count urself lucky - sometimes its so wearisome i would consider being a man if i came back in another life.... anyway, that aside....

i agree - pull out all the stops this weekend and whilst he is in the heat of the moment, he just might give in for that moment, would he resent you later if u get a BFP and feels he was tricked and not ready? only u know ur OH better than anyone else...

It sounds like he is ready, he might just need a push so to speak in the right direction and maybe like u advised me earlier once its in and he can see the first scan of his baby, it will all come together for him....oh just be upfront with him and tell him u need to know where u stand, you can use condoms and wait a few more months, but you are ready and you think it is not asking for too much to give you some indication of how much time he needs - December, next year, but you need to know...it does not have to be that date, but at least ur emotions know what they are going though and you cna both plan Birth control u are happy with going fwd depending on what you decide..

ohh hun, i hope it goes well for you, we are here if u need us..

 

[Luxoire]

Goodness gracious i feel really weepy today...been mpoody since last night and this morning i had an argument wiht OH and i just feel like i want to cry at every little thing...and i'm at work...not in a happy place right now

how are you ladies?

MME - 2days to test, whoo hooooo...how r u feeling?

BUMBLEBEE....is your OH feeling more optimistic about this whole thing now? hope you arefeeling better.

TINKS....hope you are well.

 

[Bumblebee24]

Ohh big hug lux. It's horrible wen ur at that stage in ur cycel poo poop. Here's hoping u feel better soon. Hope the argument with oh wasn't 2do with babies like mine the other nite. It got to a point where I was p*ssin myself off with baby talk but just cudnt stop.
Oh said sumtin about tryin this morn but I wad half asleep so didn't really catch it all, like u said I think he is ready but scared about it actually happening so still holding bk alittle. 2day according to the online info, shud b my 1st day of ovulation, think oh trying 2stay away though unless it me giving out the wrong vibe. Goin 2try later, not bothered about it goin inside but warm him up for Sunday.
MME, did u test sweet fingers crossed ekk
Tinks, any af huni sending the biggest hug if not I no it will b needed

 

[Tinks86]

Still nothing for me

Glad to hear your all ok though
Bumblebee - have fun on sunday

 

[Luxoire]

BUMBLEBEE....yeah yesterday was crap - i creid myself to work, in the toilets and on my way home - money troubles really, but that just made everything else seem soooo big, and i felt completely not understood. u know how it is!! lol. better this morning though. so heres hopin i stay this way till hormoes decide to reappear.
Does ur OH know whe ur due to ovulate? if not, then what he doesnt know he cant control, and it sounds like he's up for it, even tho he is scared. judging from this morning, he may want to have sex soon too - if u work it properly, u can do the deed when there is an egg floating about - it only takes one time...fingers crossed for you. i think its going to have ot be a case of when ur pregnant he will be happy...as he is probably scared to think about the whole thing and comitt to it just now....i'm praying for u

MME - ur testing tomorrow right? i'll be waiting for your results ...i hope u get a big fat BFP..xoxo...

TINKS - ohh darling, dont worry ur AF is around the corner how long has it been now?have u given any more thought to Agnus Castus...ur soo strong him, keep going i'm sure it will come soon, in full flow

 

[Bumblebee24]

TINKS: ohh no, wat the heck. Do try Agnus castus. I have heard it really wrks wonders for bringing on AF. What a nightmare, where u quite regular b4 the pill or was that one of the reasons u went on it due to painful, irregular periods. Heres hoping she`ll drop by very very soon…

MME: I am dying to hear an update from u, got everything crossed.

LUX: ur poor thing, wat a way to start the day. Did ur OH see u like that, sounds like u to need a super big hug. There’s nothing worse than worry, I shud no I worry when I have nothing to worry about lol. My mum, when I lived at home called me her little worry wart LOL. Worry & money well no wonder u felt down. I am glad to hear u feeling a little better today sweet.

My OH has no idea what ovulation is or even when it happens I think he thinks u can get pregnant at anytime wen ur not bleeding. I have to say, I kind of thought the same before I become total obsessed with reading on how to get pregnant info. I think I could write a million books on the subjects HA HA HA.

I think u have hit the nail on the head with my OH thoughts of becoming a daddy. Plus I think he feels we’re still only young. What do u think 24 & 25 are we a little to young

 

[Luxoire]

BUMBLEBEE- you did make me laugh - i am regular worrier - i worry about worrying too much, and then i worry about not worrying - my OH somethimes gets really frustrated as he is just like leave the worrying to God and enjoy ur life - i'm like noo i cant, i have to worry..lol. money worries on top of a worrisome personality is not a good combo

hahah ur lucky in that sense, just tell him there are only like 3days in a month when u can technically get preganant and he should trust you...if not dont worry, when u think ur ovulating - TEMPT him and before he knows it, u will be like oopppss i must have been ovulating that time, this and hope he understands... i know i could write a book about it too and my worrying / obsession has got my OH involved in the charting and signs and now, he knows all the signs and symptoms and can normally guess the time i am ovulating, and he will say ur fertile i dont think we should..lol, i'm like, ermmmm its my body if i were i would know (but i cant sneak it past him)..he just laughs and says nice try baby

From that age i knew i wanted a baby, i just had to wait for the wedding and house first (the wedding happened, the house seems ot be taking forever to get a deposit)...i think as long as you are both mature and can afford to look after the baby, emotionally, psychologically and financially then ur good to go. i dont know u personally but from what i have read on here, you both would make good parents. Men are a little slower in maturing than women so at mid-twenties i can undertstand why you are more confident in approaching this than he is, especially as parenthood comes more naturally to most women compared to men. If u feel ur are ready to give all of urself and put this little person first for a long time, then yes...maybe ask him why he is scared or what is holding him back...maybe u can help him through that barrier - it sounds like u both want it TOGETHER and NOW and that is a good thing for any LO to be born into. Parents that plan and work together for his/her good

 

[mme]

Afteroon ladies

Yes tomorrow morning I will test. I am not hoping for a BFP though. I just feel that this in not our month....maybe I am wrong but I dont feel anything other than bloated which to me means AF is due a visit.

Lux - sorry to hear your having a rough time of late. I worry alot too. I am always planning, making lists etc..OH thinks I go a bit overboard sometimes but its just the way I am. How are you getting on with AF ? Have you worked out when you are due to ov?

Bumble - as Lux says you both sould like you really want it and would make great parents. Wishing you lots of luck this weekend

Well if you do not hear from me before then I will report as early as I can tomorrow with my result. As said above I dont expect a BFP this month. dont they say average to get bfp is approx 3 months after first AF??? Or have I understood wrong?

 

[Luxoire]

MMe - thx hun, its one of those patches i guess...AF is still here reduces a bit since the over flow on sunday, so it is going slowely - it should be gone by saturday...or sunday hopefully

i have one of these android apps for ovulation etc..on my phone -- WOMANLOG...its called - its brill, i love it..well according to it, i am due to ovulate on 18th - but should be fertile between 14-21...

its my bday and wedding anniversary this month so should be a good time / excuse to get lots of well hopefully, i will try to fit it in, everyday around that time for a week and see...

cant wait for ur results tomorrow - even if u get AF like i did, atleast like u said, it means AF is getitng back to regaular pattern

 

[mme]

Well ladies it looks like I wont need to test in the morning. Got slight back ache and when I last went to pee I wiped and there was a tiny amount of dark dark blood. I feel like AF is just around the corner. If AF comes tonight then its a 30 day cycle or 31 if comes tomorrow. I worked out I was 17 days in when I ovulated last month so guessing my day will be around 19th Aug.
Really close to you Lux. Tempted to buy a couple of ov tests but dont want to get too caught up in the trying and enjoy the more fun side of it at first. Tbh I did not expect it to happen in the 1st month so not as gutted as I should be. Another month of saving money is how I am looking at it and hubby totally agrees with me. He is really laid back about it but does want to actually try and cant wait to have a child. Roll on 2 weeks I say Lux
Good luck this weekend bumble
We never know it could happen for us all in the same month after all

 

[Luxoire]

MME - AF coming is a good sign and ovulaiton too means there are eggs ready to meet with sperm lol - obvious i know but its all it will take...lol
I have put on quite a bit of weight since coming off hte pill - my size 14dresses dont fit anymore - seems like i am movin closer to a 16 than 14...not a good thought - need to do something about this weight arghhhhhh. i might go on some kind of diet

I am sure u will enjoy the MMe..lol,....i just want to make sure i can catch ovulation when it happens by testing - rahter than jsut shoot blindly in the dark - esp as the last month was hormone filled..lol

I think the testing etc...round about the dates i experience the ov symptoms will make it easier as i will be doin it with OH he likes to get involved and this should help him feel part of the process - i think iw ill need to learn how to inc him in the pregnancy process - migth as well start learning now...lol

it would be great news if WE ALL caught at same time....AMAZING!!!

 

[mme]

Yes it is a good sign, means my body is getting back to normal

Had a rubbish weekend. Been in pain and been very busy too. I forgot how much I hate AF. Also how much I hate AF while at work!!

Roll on 18th-20th - when we ov. Fingers crossed we all get bfp this month

I added the same app to my phone, thanks for that.

 

[Luxoire]

hello ladies,
been away for a few days back now and as tired as they come...our families are puting quoite a bit of pressure as it ws our anniversary on monday and i think it is really begining to stress my OH...he is actually thinking of moving the date another few months and having a talk with them (mainly his family) to show it is our decision not theirs...oh dear what drama!! anyway we are still on course for now, i will let you know if/when it changes...God willing it wont..lol

Glad you liked the app MME - if you remember your last period dates you can enter them in..apprently i am to be fertile about 14-25th with ov about 17/18...not sure when cause last time because my cycle was longer, it was a few days out - that is when i will use the ov test to know...lol

Anyway BUMBLEBEE & TINKS..how have you ladies been?

TINKS any sign of AF yet?

 

[mme]

Not good Lux, know the feeling. We are lucky on DH side at the min as they have just been given a grandchild so the pressure is off for the time being. They used to be really bad asking us all the time!!
As for my side they dont really mention it much so lucky again there.

Less than a week to go until your fertile period and just over a week for me.....sooo exciting!!

Yes I have updated the dates in the app. Thats how I know my fertile period starts 17th but my ov is 20th. I guessed it would be 20th as I am sure it was last month. If I get the same pain again then I know its ov. Anyway I bought some ov tests off ebay. DH seems ok with it but not spoke too much about it as its not ov time yet.

Bumble & Tinks - how are you both getting on?

 

[Luxoire]

MME...my OH does not know that i bought OV tests yet - he just thinks its pregnancy tests - happy to let him think that for now before it freaks him out as i did buy a fair amount hahahaahah...lol

yay!! i am looking fwd to trying around ov - think we might try everyday around then just in case - i hope i have the strength

this is soo excitiing - praying we all catch round about same time ...xx

 

[Tinks86]

Still no AF for me :upset:

Went to the doctors on Monday and she got me back in on Wednesday for blood tests and should have the results tomorrow or Monday.

I'm sure everything is fine but was so happy they didnt leave me waiting!

Sounds like things are going well Luxoire and MME
How are you bumblebee?
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