Coming to join you lovely ladies!

[want2beamum]

Hi im Lou
Im moving over from miscariage support to ttc after a loss heres a little bit about my story:
Me and my OH started trying for our first baby last summer,got a bfp in Sept which ended in miscarriage and a Dnc end of October.
In Dec after lots of bleeding problems and going back to the docs i found out id had a molar pregnancy.
Ive had my hcg monitored for 6 months and just been given the all clear to ttc again.
Im getting married in 4 weeks and after that we are officiallygoing to ttc!
This last 7 months have been the hardest of my life,i know all of you will feel the same when you have a miscarriage you dont just lose a baby you lose all of your hopes and dreams that went with it! And seeing friends and family getting pregnant and having their babys breaks your heart over and over!
Ive spent the last few months living in this bubble thinking why me,being angry with myself and bitter towards others.
But now ive had enough of my own negative thoughts,and im trying out PMA! (positive mental attitude)
I have to believe in order to concieve,and i prey i will hold my next baby in my arms! Im not saying that every day im not scared to ttc again because i really am scared, and when i get that bfp i will be so worried about what will happen.But for mine and my future hubbys sanity from now on its PMA all the way! Whos with me?

 

[africaqueen]

Hi and welcome Lou
I am so sorry for your losses but love your PMA
You are so right about not only losing your baby but also the hopes and dreams that went with it... i think that is the most devastating part of it. The emotional side for sure.

You will get all the support u need here and i hope u get that bfp soon

I got pregnant the wk before i married my dh in dec last yr and didnt even think about that mth as we had so much going on with planning our wedding ;-)

Are u having a big white wedding? we had a traditional church ceremony and i had 4 bridesmaids etc but i wore a red dress as u can see in my avatar pic
Ooh i love weddings! loved planning ours and we even designed the order of service ourselves and i decorated the function room we had for our reception is a christmas theme and it was beautiful

xxx

 

[want2beamum]

Ah thankyou,the emotional side is definately the hardest to deal with.It would of been my due date in a few weeks too.
Your wedding sounds fab,you look lovely on your pic!
We are getting married in Las Vegas at the little white chapel,its just us going over,but when we get back we are having a big Vegas/Casino themed party!
xxx

 

[africaqueen]

Ooh sounds fab! we didnt manage a honeymoon but we are hoping to have a belated one in october U must b sooo excited!!

xxx