I thought, just to kill some time, how about we write about things that would concern us when we get our BFP or when we have a little one, or people who already have little ones, what sort of things concerned you, other than the usual worries of a parents like falling over or getting sick etc etc. I have a huge list of things so I'll go first - 1. I am completely vegetarian. I know OH's family don't approve of that and they are not above 'spiking' food with animal fat, thinking I need the nutrients (completely rediulous). Until my child is old enough to decide for it'self, I would like him/her to be vegetarian. I am worried about if I ever have to leave LO with OH's family, if they will feed him/her meat. No matter what I say to them, I wouldn't put it past them. 2. I wouldn't want to let LO go out in the car with OH's Nana and Grandad, OH has a two year old cousin and last time I was in the car with them, he wasn't strapped into his car seat. It made my blood run cold. Nana was sitting right next to him the whole journey and didn't make an effort to strap him in, I mean I know that they are old fashioned but seriously ! 3. When my SIL got a new puppy she took it around OH's Nana's where all the family have their Sunday Lunch and OH's 2 year old cousin was there. When the puppy was being fed, the 2 year old was sticking his hands in the food bowl. I said "Sweetie, don't play with the puppy's food." and his dad says to me "Oh it's fine, the puppy has to learn." Ok yes fair enough but what it the child then thinks it's ok to do it to every dog, he will end up bitten ! 4. One word - Tar - I can't stand it. Growing up in Norfolk and Suffolk, when my little brother was younger I always remember his fathers family saying Tar to him instead of Thank You. It sends shivers down my spine, I hate the word and I know it sounds mean but I don't want my child to grow up talking like that. I know that they are just trivial ones but I am trying to keep this as light hearted as possible while still airing my concerns. It keeps me busy in the terrible 2WW. On a more positive note. Only 3 more days until AF is due so we will see what happens I guess *FX*.