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Confused about this month :(

Newmrsb

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Hi everyone, just feeling SO frustrated and confused and wondering if anyone has any insight.

Since I started OPKs and charting, I've had a consistent 12 day LP. I fluctuate between long and short months (cycles are about 26-31 days long) but always start AF on 13 DPO. I actually just added charting last month to make sure I was ovulating when I thought, and on 13 DPO, I had a major temp drop and then started AF.

Today is 14 DPO. No temp drop yesterday, and a slight one today but still above CL and no AF. I usually get some spotting and blood in the CM, but there's nothing. But of course, also negative HPTs. I had been using cheapies but bought FRER yesterday, and BFN there as well. I've tried examining my BBTs from the month and trying to see if I could have miscalculated, but I had a positive OPK on CD15 and a temperature rise CD17! It all looks picture perfect, but no AF and no positive test. My OH is thinking I'm one of those people that can't get a positive test until a few days after missed period, but I don't know, I don't want to get my hopes up. Any ideas what might be going on??
 
Hi everyone, just feeling SO frustrated and confused and wondering if anyone has any insight.

Since I started OPKs and charting, I've had a consistent 12 day LP. I fluctuate between long and short months (cycles are about 26-31 days long) but always start AF on 13 DPO. I actually just added charting last month to make sure I was ovulating when I thought, and on 13 DPO, I had a major temp drop and then started AF.

Today is 14 DPO. No temp drop yesterday, and a slight one today but still above CL and no AF. I usually get some spotting and blood in the CM, but there's nothing. But of course, also negative HPTs. I had been using cheapies but bought FRER yesterday, and BFN there as well. I've tried examining my BBTs from the month and trying to see if I could have miscalculated, but I had a positive OPK on CD15 and a temperature rise CD17! It all looks picture perfect, but no AF and no positive test. My OH is thinking I'm one of those people that can't get a positive test until a few days after missed period, but I don't know, I don't want to get my hopes up. Any ideas what might be going on??

Do you have a chart I can see? I guess my crazy one with no solid indication of O should make you understand that nothing makes much sense while TTC... up until now I have had very clear O on day 13 or 14 and a triapsic chart pattern. Everything is a MESS this cycle. PS - I, too usually have spotting, etc. like you but once and a while I have nothing, no temp drop, then AF comes with a bang. Not to be negative - just sharing my experience. Everyone tells you not to stress and I know it's true - doing that though - ugh!
 
Don't know why I didn't think to add the chart...

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4b9218
 

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