where do you live? In the US there are tons of fertility clinics that would start checking you out right away... then again, you might end up paying for some of the services. Your husband should be able to see anyone for a semen analysis (can be a different doc even) - just be sure he asks for a complete detailed analysis (sometimes they only test to see if the sperm is there or not, not how many, how healthy, how well they are moving, etc). Even if you paid out of pocket for this, its not *that* expensive, and at least you'd have peace of mine.
If it was me, I'd just say, look, we want you do the semen analysis - we'll pay for it if you wont submit it to insurance (or have it covered by whatever medical service you get) and don't take no for an answer.
Then you'll have a better idea of what your next steps are. Keep trying at home in the meantime -- sometimes it just takes a number of cycles of trying, particularly if you are in your mid-30s. There are a lot of tips earlier on this thread about ways to inseminate at home.
If it was me, I'd just say, look, we want you do the semen analysis - we'll pay for it if you wont submit it to insurance (or have it covered by whatever medical service you get) and don't take no for an answer.
Then you'll have a better idea of what your next steps are. Keep trying at home in the meantime -- sometimes it just takes a number of cycles of trying, particularly if you are in your mid-30s. There are a lot of tips earlier on this thread about ways to inseminate at home.
) I thought she would have been more nervous, but she wasn't! It was funny watching her keep the soup in the bowl... ha. Certainly not a romantic process -- lol. I feel pretty good about the timing. She got a +OPK late afternoon & then we inseminated about 6 hours later & then again the following day - like 16 hours later. She was having alot of ewcm which i thought was a good sign -- but then it con't for the next few days & the +OPK con't for 3 days too! So -- i just hope we didn't "jump the gun" & insem too early!!! She has been feeling some pain & pressure down there -- hope that is a good sign?? Of course the worry-wart in me tho was like "Oh no, i hope you're not having an adverse reaction to the sperm!" We joked about her body making a yucky face & spitting it back out -- ha! 
First time 
were ever swimming around in there!!!
lol. I miss the fun/stress of it all! On to next month!! Was at the doctor today ad have been refered for tests regarding my 4 miscarriages, so hopefully have some answers soon! Blood tests first, then genetic tests if they don't show anything, so hopefully I'll be pregnant again soon (and keep the baby this time!)
