My OH is darling! A real thoughtful honey! However! He's volunterring in Emergency Care for years and has just finished his EMT training. He's a naturally worrisome soul when he's not 'in amongst it' himself.
My dilema!
He is NOT going for a homebirth. He wants me in the local hospital with all the bells and whistles! (Not happening buddy!)
The whole natural birth thang sounds just my bag - this is my first and I don't know much about much, in truth! What's more I'm naturally odd! And a prude to boot!! I'm not a fan of being touched - even by family - and I'm certainly not a fan of making my L&D a spectator sport! And I can't suffer fools. So minimal interruption is something I will be going for.
I have a local MLU (a proposed compromise) but my MW from there is......lacking in social skills! Possibley just a personality clash, everyone else loves her - but I can't have her. OH is terrified I'll lose my patience with this woman and hoof her out on her ear! In truth - likely!
Can anyone tell me how the whole Doula/IMW thang works? Where to find 'em? Costs etc? (I'm just outside Reading.) MervsMum - would you have a colleague down here? And last but not least - any thoughts of how I can get my man onside? I don't want to be worrying about him too when I'm concentrating on the task at hand.
Thanks in anticipation!
My dilema!
He is NOT going for a homebirth. He wants me in the local hospital with all the bells and whistles! (Not happening buddy!)
The whole natural birth thang sounds just my bag - this is my first and I don't know much about much, in truth! What's more I'm naturally odd! And a prude to boot!! I'm not a fan of being touched - even by family - and I'm certainly not a fan of making my L&D a spectator sport! And I can't suffer fools. So minimal interruption is something I will be going for.
I have a local MLU (a proposed compromise) but my MW from there is......lacking in social skills! Possibley just a personality clash, everyone else loves her - but I can't have her. OH is terrified I'll lose my patience with this woman and hoof her out on her ear! In truth - likely!
Can anyone tell me how the whole Doula/IMW thang works? Where to find 'em? Costs etc? (I'm just outside Reading.) MervsMum - would you have a colleague down here? And last but not least - any thoughts of how I can get my man onside? I don't want to be worrying about him too when I'm concentrating on the task at hand.
Thanks in anticipation!