Could he be ....damaged?

[sandrass]

I had to delete this. Thank you all for your comments!

 

[Caroline]

Try not to worry hun, until you have trying for awhile.

My OH used to cycle loads b4 we met, upto 100 miles a day.

Spending that much time on a bike is notorious for making men have fertility pprobs, but it didn't make any diff to him. I feel pg twice coming off pill, and third lo was a surprise.

Good luck ttc and wishing you a speedy

 

[Vickie]

I agree with Caroline, it's best not to worry yourself to much right now. As you said you haven't been TTC for too long and it takes the average couple 5-6 months to conceive, and some up to a year. Good luck

 

[Wobbles]

FAR to early to be worrying about that!

Should and IF the time ever comes that you both feel its time to discuss things with a GP it will be you both that that gets tests. I think this can just be everyones worst fear thats all and they do say alot of men don't feel 'manly' until he knows hes the bringer of children then all you'll hear is how he has super lol

 

[sandrass]

Ok, thanks girls. Ill try not to worry about it unless it takes us a really long time to get a BFP.

 

[Samo]

Its ok hun, cheer up i'm sure your OH is fine don't get yourself all worked up and worried so early in your TTC journey. "What ifs" can really do your head in. Stay positive, i'm am sure you'll get your in due time i've got my fingers crossed for ya xoxo

 

[xclairex]

hun i dont think you have to worry my oh had an op at 9 years old as he fell off his bike and fell on it(u no) he had alot of damage and not much feeling there he also has a scar all down it bless him! he would be mortified if he knew i was telling anyone but if it makes u an ur oh feel better im sure he will understand! anyway he had to have tests done for 5 years to put things rite they told him he mite not be able to have children he is 24 and has got me preggo twice keep ur chin up u will get ur bfp soon!xx

 

[genkigemini]

they do say alot of men don't feel 'manly' until he knows hes the bringer of children then all you'll hear is how he has super lol

HAHAHAHA!!! Ever since my husband had his SA, he is so macho about it which is funny because that is very OOC for him. LOL He is like, "My minions are mighty!"

Seriously, I would not worry about him specifically until you try a little longer however if you are really worried, just go get it checked now. No harm in finding out, right? It is not like you have to go on fertility drugs or anything and the test should be quick and easy for him, right? Good luck!