could someone help please? need advice...

[tootsy1987]

Has anyone got a bfn on af due date then gone on to get a bfp a couple of days later? im on 14dpo today (on a 30 day cycle) i know that i ov'd 14 days ago today, i had extreme exhaustion for the past week or so and i kept a log of any un toward symptoms. i keep getting niggles of cramp and nips and last night after a bfn i convinced myself i was out this month, thismorning thought i would do another test bfn (all on internet cheap tests) and i have cramps, nothing like really painful like normal af but the tightness and cramps are there... feeling slightly sick today but thats prob more nerves as i just want to know. i have never been later than today on any cycle and i would normally start af somewhere in the morning of 14dpo anytime up until about 1.30pm ish so ive kinda got to that time... i just havent got a clue and im beginning to believe if i had caught the eggy i would have had a by now???

please stay away!!!!

xxxxxxxxxxxx thanks xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[tootsy1987]

bump

 

[dan-o]

Not me, but there are deffo ladies on here who have got a BFP at 16-18dpo!

What kind of test did you use?

Good luck xxx

 

[tootsy1987]

Hey dan-o thanks for replying... al the tests i have used were just the little dip stick internet cheapies... oh bought me a digi last night, came back not pregnant but i was told they need a higher concentration? i do keep getting cramps but we done sooo much bd this month i really thought i was in for a good chance... xxx

 

[hopedance]

sometimes internet cheapies suck too. try out a FRER in a few days time, maybe? you're not out yet!

 

[tootsy1987]

Thanks hopedance i have asked OH is he can bring me a frer in when he gets home tonight, thats if witch hasnt got me by then... i feel like she could grab me anytime.... did anyone feel like witch was going to get them but yet still get a bfp? xxxxxxx

 

[lola]

I think alot of people feel like the witch is coming before they get there BFP I know I certainly did! fingers crossed you get a BFP! xxxx

 

[tootsy1987]

Thanks Lola! i just done an opk which was stronger and darker than a one a done with a ic hpt the other day, i also done a ic hpt at same time which was generally the same, not much there... why would i have a slightly pos opk? i also checked cp and its very high as i cant find it ?? lol!! any advice?? thanks girls! xxx

 

[dawny690]

F'x you get a on a different test babe as I said ic's arent that good I didnt get my til 19dpo as you know xx

 

[Laura H]

Hi, it took me awhile to get BFP with my ds and I had the feeling for a few days before like I was going to come on but kept rushing to the loo to find nothing! Fingers X'd for you xxx

 

[tootsy1987]

Hey, thanks everyone, still no witch as yet! so fingers crossed she stays away, ran to the toilet before as i thought i had come on but it was a huge clump of creamy CM! any ideas what this could have been?? i still getting niggles but mainly high up where my belly button is and got an achey back! sooo worried she going to get me through the night!! xxxxx

 

[dan-o]

All sounds good to me! Try a FRER maybe, tomorrow morning or the day after, with some nice concentrated FMU! Good luck! xx

 

[tootsy1987]

i forgot to say i done a frer tonight but i didnt need a wee when i done it and made myself wee enough to do the test but came out neg? i also think it may have been too diluted... or do u think it should be positive by now? sorry to be a pain and ask soo many questions lol xxx

 

[MrsJD]

i forgot to say i done a frer tonight but i didnt need a wee when i done it and made myself wee enough to do the test but came out neg? i also think it may have been too diluted... or do u think it should be positive by now? sorry to be a pain and ask soo many questions lol xxx

Squeezing pee ain't good for tests not enough urine.

Wait till the morning.

X

 

[Tink1o5]

Well i dont trust internet cheapies
I also have had cramping and 4 or 5 days late now.. thought for sure AF was coming, but NOPE she still isnt here.

So dont count yourself out hun!
Give it a day or so and test again