When you were on about your baby not being as engaged, I was at the consultant on Monday this week, my baby isnt engaged at all... head down but totally free (she could turn if she really wanted too) the hospital said it will make no difference what so ever to me going into labour spontaneously... Im not sure if this is true as my first didnt engage an I had to be induced... I know its different with a 2nd baby but Im not sure how!!! Just thought Id share that with you hun, it may not be as bad as you think lol xx