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CSA things you need to know. Collation of all the evidence

edinsam

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Right I am sick already of the CSA really. The things I have learned in the last few weeks I wish I had known months ago so I wanted to start this thread and everyone can add to it as they see fit. Good idea? bad idea?

So I will start with

a) Do not even attempt to contact CSA until you have set up child benefit. CSA will not touch you until you have the Child Benefit number that you get when that is set up. Incidentally this can take 3 weeks to get so almost a month delay there to start with

b) Do not do it online!!! Apparently they only pick up online apps once a month!! mines has never been picked up yet! (submitted 3 weeks ago!)

c) Note that the CSA have confirmed that payment is only backdated to when the father says he is the father of the child, not when you submitted forms. So if your ex denies it and refuses for as long as poss they wont back date for the months you been out of pocket

d) Rules have changed for Self Employed people - there are ways to get round this and fathers may claim low earnings - you can challenge this - hard work but worthwhile

e) All going well with a-d above average time for CSA to write to ex is within 4 - 12 weeks with cases taking abother 12 weeks afterwards to pay out so please realise you are in this for the long haul

f) If a DNA is required then CSA will write to FOB and ask if he is father if he says no then he will be given option of DNA. If it comes back positive then CSA pay if its negative then he has to pay.

Anything anyone else can add?
 
They lie!! They tell u FOB has not paid when he has, and it can takes weeks/months for them to forward the money to u.

It costs a fortune to fone them up all the time.

They take a man to court to have get the money off him and it still fails. My son will be 16 next month and ive had 6-10 payments from his father, even tho they had all details from us at the start. and he has worked in all those years!

Fathers can change jobs and they dont automatically chase him up unless u keep on there backs...
 
Thanks for this edinsam, im learning alot, i think i may have been fooled by the woman from the csa, as she didnt mention any of this, i think i must have been lucky with my online application as they contacted me a couple of days after i submitted it and that was her aksing for the CB number, im like you and will be going down the DNA route aswell and to make things worse he is self emplyed and the bitch he is with is his accountant, so i should imagine will make it very hard and will claim low earnings so him her and there baby will have it all and i will be struggling xxx
 
tink if you need help let me know. Happy to help make sure he doesn't get away with it. Accountant or not if he declares low earnings then you have options to report him and her as an accountant could have serious repurcussions.
 
Oh my god.......And what is the point of the CSA????

Ladies take my hat off to you and silently thank my lucky stars my ex hubby pays for my eldest no bother.
 
thanks for advice, im not looking forward to this, but he isnt getting off with it. i downloaded the form to post, as couldn't get online application to work, glad i did now! i have all the info i need, bet it still won't be easy!!
 
go precious go.. he so should not get away with it.

Luckily now I have found a woman in the Csa who is super clued up and really lovely calling everyday to let me know whats happening. Rare though I think!
 
I have to say, all of mine got sorted very quickly.

However, I'd agree that you shouldn't fill out the form online. Half of mine went missing and I had to go over all of the details again by phone.
 
can i say as well if u go down the dna route my son was 5/6 b4 they fianlly got round to a dna test. even tho they were dealing with the case since he was weeks old!!
 
campaign for single mothers to get payment from fathers me thinks?! what newspaper.. hrmmm... watchdog?!

not looking forward to that battle.
 
tink if you need help let me know. Happy to help make sure he doesn't get away with it. Accountant or not if he declares low earnings then you have options to report him and her as an accountant could have serious repurcussions.

Oh thats brilliant thanks edin, im gonna give it until get me stuff sorted etc, but thanks so much for the offer, we all need to stick together and help each other out xxx
 

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