CSA

[TiredNurse27]

want to arrange for child support changes, can't remember wanker FOB's address, don't want to ask us or he'll be on to us. Any way around this?

Also even if I get it how do I prove he's received it, he's a piece of shit and will dodge anything.

Cheers

 

[TiredNurse27]

I should mention he's on jobseekers or sick pay or god knows what kind of benefits

 

[xSophieBx]

Are u sure u even want to go through the hassle of CSA if his on benefits? All u get is £5 a week...

When I 1st rang CSA the nob wouldn't give me his address as he'd moved since when I was with him...& the 1st person I spoke to told me they couldnt take it any further without his address... But then when I rang back the 2nd person I spoke to told me thats not true... they can find out if they have enough info.

Good luck cos CSA are useless when theres a man that will do anything to dodge paying. A year later and I'm still not getting maintenance.. x

 

[TiredNurse27]

Yeah, see he was working while I was working, he was making £1000 a month and never bothered now I'm kicking myself.

I want his £5 a week that's a trip to swimming or the cinema for my son. Save it up for a year and it's a holiday!

I was hoping they'd get him through jobseekers.

 

[xSophieBx]

Thats very true. My FOB quit his job when I got 2 payments... & now according to his facebook is working again but not declaring it.

Yeh they would be able to track him through his jobseekers. Just ring them up... and keep on at them.. I think it will be quick to get it sorted if his on benefits. I had to get a deduction of earnings thing and it still took forever.. & if he goes self employed then its nr on impossible. Such a joke... stupid sperm donors. x

 

[TiredNurse27]

soooooooooooooooo glad I applied for this now, he's just told me he's got his job back I still haven't told him I've applied for CSA but hahahahaha

 

[AbbynChloe]

good on you tirednurse!!!!

 

[xSophieBx]

Thats good news hun.. but b prepared for it to take months.. even longer if his gonna be a twat about it. Not trying to put a dampner on it, just I'm SIIIICK of rubbish CSA, I'm gonna ring them for the 1000th time tomoz. Hopefully u get something eventually xx

 

[TiredNurse27]

hopefully about time he paid up

 

[xSophieBx]

Exactly. Does he see LO? I think its a total joke when this 'fathers' want to be involved and get all the best bits but arent willing to contribute towards them financially x

 

[TiredNurse27]

almost every sunday he takes him most of the day, unless he decides to let us down or mess up our plans last minute which can happen quite often, or if he goes on a 6 week holiday somewhere. Always brings him home to be fed though...cheapskate