Curvy ladies

God she does sound lazy, don't have kids if you can't be bothered with them!

I'm trying to persuade Dougie to let me get a private scan at about 26 weeks, just for another peek, but he's not budging with it! He says we can't justify it, which i suppose is right, but still! I just don't think i'm going to be able to talk him round on this one.

I'm sleepy today, and have SO much ironing to do! I swear everything i own is in the ironing basket. This is what i get for leaving it until i have nothing to wear.

Hope everyone is having a good (ish) monday. X
 
Consultant appt was fine. She was a bit arsey which was to be expected. Asked me what kind of monitoring i wanted instead of induction. Wasn't prepared for this so had to say that I had heard that people have scans to check the flow of the placenta. There's no other monitoring they can do so she was just bein awkward

Then she told me that monitoring was a waste of time. So I said oh so we shouldnt bother? Which ofc is bullshit. Hey can pick up if problems are developing they just can't tell what will happen between scans. I asked how often they would monitor and she said they don't do it so she doesn't know. I can tell her it's daily...

Cancelled heart scan on Friday as they won't be able to see enough. Will have to rebook that so that's four days pay lost now for their bullshit. What is the point.

Waking for diabetic team now. Have an appt in September with them which (if my blood sugars are fine) I'll forget to attend.
 
Aww god sounds like your having a right day of it. How come they are bringing up the subject of induction so much? Because of the diabetes? Or because you have made it clear you will not agree to it or both? x

My cousin is due to be induced on thursday as she is only 37 weeks and already baby weighs 9lb also her last baby's shoulders got stuck, caused a broken bone (is collarbone right) and has an issue with the use of her arm still (Shes 6 now). she also has suspected pd and they are testing today and if she has they have told her they will do a c-section straight away. My cousin also has a heart condition. Its her 4th bubba too. Just waiting to hear how she gets on x
 
It's the diabetes. Tbh if things are fine I'm going to miss my next appts. There's no point if all is fine and I'm self monitoring. Only thing I need is pee checked for pre eclampsia and if sugars are high I'll need to be looked at.
 
Im sure that you will have it all under control...you could always go to your scheduled apps if you dont have any work booked in x

Im dreading my next bloods i wouldnt be suprised if i end up with gd i eat that much rubbish...why can i still not eat healthy despite knowing this?!
 
thing is if youre gonna get gd theres not much you can do about it. its not the same as non preg diabetes. the placenta produces hormones which mean any underlying insulin resistance even if its mild gets worse and worse. eating healthily can help to a point but cant control it completely.

rich just called mil. said they couldnt do most of the scan but what they did looked fine and she just said oh is that it then, then went on about her own shit. i wont bother getting rich to tell her next week even if we do find out the sex.

looked at babybond and next sexing scans are 16th aug - they only do them on tuesdays :( theres one appt next tues at 2.30 but Id have to leave work early and we have the nhs scan at 4pm so is there much point? I dont want to go away upset again tho if they treat me in such an offhand manner.

or maybe should just wait til after next tuesdays scan. ofc i want baby to be healthy but theres such a small chance of any problems its not rly worth worrying about. i want a nice experience so i can bond with bubs.
 
The kids' Mum and her partner are nice people to be fair, I think she just has too many kids to cope with and then she joked on Facebook "note to self, dont get pregnant this year!" errrr I hope she doesnt get pregnant any year from now! lol.

Helen, why are you losing money? Your employer has to pay you for reasonable time off for antenatal appointments and scans AND the travelling time.
https://www.direct.gov.uk/en/parents/moneyandworkentitlements/workandfamilies/dg_10026556

Im booked for GTT as well in September. If I have GD it just means more monitoring and checks during labour.

xx
 
Helen i would highly recommend a private scan as they are such a nicer experience than nhs ones. However you could pay for one and they could be unable to tell too and then they would invite you back a week later or so. If you like the idea of having a private scan for the experience of bonding i would maybe wait and see if you can find out at the nhs scan then if you can book a private 4d scan for around 26 weeks. Although if you book with babybond you get a 4d sneaky peek at their gender scans too. I really really loved the private experience they were so nice and friendly and not rushed at all they take time to get some great pictures and show you everything you wanna see. If i were you just think how will you feel if you pay and go next tues morning and then go to the nhs one and they can tell too and they are really nice and friendly too. Will you regret spending the money? x
 
Ahh right. Bugger. I was the same when I was self employed, no perks is crap eh. I had no holidays, no time off etc ;)
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well i think the chances of them being crap and me being upset are quite high. weigh that against feeling silly for wasting £79, I dont rly mind. only thing is that private scan would be 2.30pm and nhs is 3.45pm, so not much time if I need to get up walk around etc.

I have loads of time off tbh, just cant rly afford it atm as theres little work around as it is. normally work about 25 hrs a week but when things are restricted by appts which i cant alter (ie scans) I lose 4-8 hrs of that. Ive got about 10 hrs of work in this week...can book something in for friday now if anything comes in that is.
 
I know someone similar rachel, really nice person but 25 and on baby no5!!! never worked a day in her life and no decent man behind her to help support her brood!
 
heres the pics :/
 

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Just go for it and book it ..i doubt you will be disapointed. Is it close to the hosp you have to go to? They generally send you off for a 10 min walk and tell you to have the sugary drink choc etc to get baby moving just go prepared (im sure you will anyway!) x

Sis just had a 4d one with babybond and baby was holding her foot infront of her face so they sent her off and told her to return in 10 mins when they got some better pics x
 
Just got a load of work in for mid aug so things won't be hard at all if I get that. Fingers crossed. I'll be knackered doing weds-Sunday full days but needs must

Also decided that if they don't sex the baby next week I'll have a private scan. Rich doesn't want one but he can suck it tbh. If hes so against it he's welcome not to come. And breathe.

Watching true blood and eating cheese! Loving mini portions of cathedral city at the moment.

edit - just booked a private scan in cardiff for saturday 2pm. Will be too stressful at the nhs one even if they can see. If I know the sex I will be able to relax and focus on the health aspects. Rich forbid me from booking one, but thats just because he didnt want to pay for it. Ive paid so he can come with me if hes nice, if not then Ill go by myself and he can risk not finding out on tuesday!
 
YAY Helen so excited for you will be lovely, men can be so miserable....and tight! You will love it and im sure he will too once he gets there x

Great news about a busy August ...fingers crossed you get it x
 
Thats exciting that you have booked your private scan!! I bet its a lovely experience! Here is my 21 week bump, i feel like a huge ugly whale now!!
 

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Pft you look great. Relish the bump!

My Doula just emailed me about my consultant appt. Wants to talk to me about something which sounds sinister. Probably wondering if I might possibly want to refuse further tests. I'm leaning that way tbh.
 
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Helen - that's crazy! I had a very similar experience at my 12 week one and told to rebook for 10 days time but that baby looked fine! (I'd told my midwife my dates were out but she didn't listen) I'm glad that I'd changed my 20 week scan now as the first date they gave me I'd have been 18+4, got it changed to a week later but it's being changed all over again because of the whole chicken pox shebang!

Jade - I don't iron it, just hang it out until it's bone dry and fold it :D If you've got any shirts just hang them on a hanger when they're damp and they dry nice and straight and you can't tell if they've been ironed or not :) (I hate ironing with a passion, I managed to burn a hole in my ironing board at uni and have never got round to replacing it :lol:)

Rach - The kids mum sounds like a nightmare! My cousin has 6 kids, 7 births and 9 pregnancies and I hope to god she's done, I love them individually to bits but as a collective they're LOUD! And she sits on her arse all day and her OH and mum run round after her while she sits there molly-coddling her youngest and ignores the rest of her kids.

For the many of us who are having GTT tests - take a book! It's a long wait otherwise! I'm not looking forward to mine, I hate drinking fizzy drinks fast let alone Lucozade! At least I can drink the orange flavour rather than original!

Jayne, seriously, 25 and on her 5th?? Sod that, being 25 and turning 26 on my 2nd is enough thank you very much!

Helen - bubs looks so snug in there! I can see why they didn't want to open their legs :lol: and awwww! Yay for private scan on Saturday :) Will keep an eye on facebook while I'm at work :D

Jade - LOVELY bump, I'm envious! And you're not an ugly whale! :hugs:

Helen - What tests are you thinking of refusing? Have you spoken to your doula yet or will you speak to her tomorrow?


Today I went out, and bloody regretted it, most shops had no air conditioning, it was overcast and humid, tourists were fucking EVERYWHERE getting in the way, walking slowly, kids running all over the place unwatched, one pissing snotty little kid came up to Tegs and tried to hold her hand but wouldn't say anything to her, and then did the same thing again while we were waiting for Luke to pay for the shopping! Rar! Leave her alone and go bug your own sister in her pram! (Obviously I didn't say that apart from to my mum afterwards!)

I did manage to buy a lovely purple dress/tunic/top thingy in New Look for £5 mum was looking at the sale rails for me while I was hunting for decent trousers and she pulled it out and said that it'd look nice and it fits lovely, lots of growing room too, but I had to send to Luke to pay for it as there was no way I was joining a queue that was 30-odd people long with 1 or 2 people on the counter! Had to escape to a bench outside and some stupid twat sat the other side of the bench and nearly pushed me off. I think I need to wear a neon sign that says "Pregnant, do NOT piss off" :haha:

Planning on just a walk tomorrow along the prom so that Tegs can also stretch her legs and we can get an ice cream or something, meant to be a lovely day so I might shave my legs and wear my new toppy thing with leggings :)

We're going to watch True Blood after I've watched the Panorama thing on BBC, featuring one of the members on here :) One of my fellow Septembryo's who's had another bambino. Should be good :) Although I think they're also investigating the care we get on the maternity wards, which should be interesting viewing!
 

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