Cycle Buddies wanted! CD 1 Feb 6! No matter what CD you are on!

[cazd]

Here it is:

www.beautifulcervix.com

Probably not best viewed when you're eating your tea!

 

[Pato]

How does one "check" their cervix??? and what is TMI??

 

[Pato]

Sorry for the double post ..modified. I couldn't find the 1st one and thought it hadn't gone through. sorry

 

[Pato]

OOOKKKK, viewed he website 1st page, can't get any further...too painful...I get queasy seeing stuff like this.
I once had colposcopy done and watched it on the wall mounted monitor while the doc was poking around and cutting piece out of me... I still get sick thinking about today and that was 4 yrs ago. I can watch certain things on the tele but I know what my limits are....

 

[Conswayla M]

OOOKKKK, viewed he website 1st page, can't get any further...too painful...I get queasy seeing stuff like this.
I once had colposcopy done and watched it on the wall mounted monitor while the doc was poking around and cutting piece out of me... I still get sick thinking about today and that was 4 yrs ago. I can watch certain things on the tele but I know what my limits are....

Yes it is graphic! I had a colonoscopy done too, I know exactly what you mean, but I was mostly out of it due to the meds they gave me.

Well use your middle or index finger to fell around up there. Be careful and make sure your nails are trimmed so you don't scratch yourself. You will hit the back of your wall, and there is a little ball (that is your cervix) at the front of it, is a hole, its not big and it may feel like a dimple. Its hard to explain what your cervix will feel like when you find it because it changes all day everyday. When you are Ovualting (or approaching) it is high (hardly reachable) and soft, the cervix will be open. When you are not fertile, it will sit lower and fell firm like the tip of your nose.

https://www.sisterzeus.com/cervob.htm

Good luck, and happy hunting!

 

[Conswayla M]

How does one "check" their cervix??? and what is TMI??

TMI- Too Much Information

 

[claire99991]

oh god i had a colonoscopy and they said u can watch it was lyk no ya alright! was worst day of my life lol

conswayla aww sorry you didnt get any last night could you give it ago tonight? like u said it could still be hanging around?? My oh will be the same next week i carnt even get none out of him when im not ovulating so god knows what it will be like next week! been trying it on every night and he is having none of it (tierd from work blah blah, tonight its his wisdom teeth that are hurting) and he also told me he doesnt think he will be able to do a sample for the doctor even if its at home and he has a helping hand haha. Oh mi god i have broken his man parts they dont work anymore !!

 

[claire99991]

oh me and OH have our docs appointments tomorow OH at 9am and me at 4pm. Im really nervous about it im so scared they will fob me of, after so long i think i would just cry and not stop! how embaressing would that be. I will let you know how we get on anyway. xxx

 

[Conswayla M]

Ohhh Claire, the best of luck to you both tomorrow! I hope everything goes well.

I think this whole process is stressful us ladies because we feeel all the phantom symptoms......but hard on our men because they get broken!! DH was under the impression I wanted him for last night.....well he was right, and that would get anyone out of the mood LOL. So maybe tonight, I am not going to try anything, I will just let it happen if it happens, that way he wont feel pressured. I am CD 14, so I probably still have a chance really, especially since my last cycle was 30 days, I may not O yet. We also have a babysitter on Saturday night which will be CD 16 which could also be a good day too hehehehe!

Let us know how it all goes Claire!!

 

[snugglebot]

Hope you get the answers you are looking for claire! Good luck Conswayla on operation: get !!

I am on my own operation get too but that is only because...I actually have needs (strange feeling actually, ttc hasn't put me much in the mood either...can't blame DH that is for sure)

 

[Conswayla M]

Little mini update from little ol me.
Still have EWCM!! I don't think I O'd yet!! YAYAYAYAYAYA. Okay, calm down.....calm.....calm......calm.

 

[Irish_eyes]

Good luck for tomorrow (or later today) Claire.

 

[claire99991]

conswayla go work ya magic on him!!! mission get !!!

Ok well OH went for his appt, mine is at 4pm, hmmmmm it didnt go great the arrognat idiot doc didnt diaspoint in being a arsehole! The good thing is he offered my OH the sperm analysis the bad thing is he gave him a wee sample pot to do it in so when i go in later i will ask for the proper sample pot he also didnt tell him how to prep for it and im sure you have to not have sex or do any DIY for a couple of days before it, and im also sure it has to be at lab within a hour well the GP said u can hand it in to hosp or you can had it bk to us if you like (WTF!!) he didnt mention how long the results would take or weather he just rings or comes bk in for results. Oh but wait for it ladies im saving the best bit till last!! he said its very unlikly its him with the problem its normally the woman!

Please god im praying i get on better this afternoon!

 

[snugglebot]

one word for that dr: BRUTAL

 

[cazd]

Claire - sounds like you're doctors a right W*****! Can you ask to see someone else?

I had a colposcopy but they didn't give me a chance to watch - BOO!!!
(If I have a c-sec - I want to see them lifting it out!)
found out from a nurse last year that up to 5 years ago they were smearing girls too early. and so many results were coming back abnormal - loads of ladies had un-necessary colposcopies. Immature cervix she called it.
Now don't know if its me -but wonder if there might be a link between that and the massively increasing number of cervical cancer cases!!!!!!
Messing with bodies like that is just wrong. Hey ho - whats done is done.
Oh sod it - we're on TMI anyway...
My cervix isn't round like a ball - its kind of squished at the top...
Hope that's not a result of the surgery!

 

[Conswayla M]

Thats too bad Claire that you didn't get the information you were looking for! Good luck at your appt today, I hope it goes well and you get some answers soon!!

I am frusterated a little. I can not wait until DH gets his surgery! I want him back!!! I mean we were at least every 1-3 days in between AF, and now not so much. I understand that it is hard for him, and he feels bad. But it makes me feel wose knowing that we are missing our chances. So CD 10 was the last I don't think it was close enough to catch the egg.....I am pretty sure my chances are very slim that I caught it. Even if I did O already....chances are so small. It hurts though when you are used to all the time to go to little to none. But it may be for the best right now!

 

[cazd]

CD10 still gives you a good chance though - and especially if you've got ewcm...

 

[Conswayla M]

Yeah I did, I had it more on CD 12 and 13, a little yesterday but it was more creamy, so I think it was over by then.

 

[claire99991]

ok well went to my appt she was lovely very sympathetic and very friendly, i explained i had been trying a while (didnt even say how long so i didnt lie) and i was worried cos i had the 1 ovary, anyway she looked at my notes and i have a yearly scan to check my left ovary to make sure a large cyst doesnt appear like the last one my last scan was in october where the doc afterwards said everything was fine! anyway she said well you only have 1 ovary and its polysistic i said WHAT!? she said yea thats what it says on the scan report and i said no one told me they said it looked fine, so i have a polysistic ovary! and she said its harder to get pregnant. But she did say its a good sign that my periods are regular and has ordered me for cd 21 progestrone tests to see if im ovulating and blood tests for when i get my period to check my hormone levels then she said if they show im not ovulating then i will be refferd to a gyne (oh and she still wants OH sperm checking)

So i feel like shit i cried when i come out of the surgery and i think i will probs cry all night i feel so cheated that they didnt even tell me what was happening with my body

 

[snugglebot]

That is so terrible claire. How could they have missed that I am so sorry...

Thank goodness you found a dr who knows something now and is willing to test and make sure things are working as they should.