Cycle Buddies wanted! CD 1 Feb 6! No matter what CD you are on!

[Conswayla M]

Ohh Claire, I am so sorry!! Thats terrible to have to find that out. At least you have a good doctor that is ready to help you. And remember if you are not ovualting there are things they can do to help like Clomid, and most women that go on that are pregnant awfully fast, so think of that as a good thing! This must be so rough for you right now, but now you know what is going on and now you can move in the right direction to get it fixed and get help. to you hun!! We are here for you to vent as much as you need!!

 

[claire99991]

thank you for all of your lovely comments it really means a lot xxx

My OH is genuinly gutted which im suprised about and he wanted full details of the appt and what was said what the next steps are and what options will be available, he is saying we can adopt i said it hasnt come to that just yet haha!! bless him

 

[snugglebot]

so does that mean he is ok with the SA?

 

[claire99991]

yep and he is fine with it, he read all the instructions by doctor gave me to give him (not the one he seen this am) and he has to ring the lab to arrange a appt to drop it of so sumone is there to examine it straight away so he said he will ring them monday.

 

[Conswayla M]

You will probably be put on Clomid, and there is always IUI and stuff like that, there are so many ways around infertility now, so I am sure you will get there!! Hopefully everything is okay with your OH!!

The past 2 days, I feel like my ovaries are being pulled!! Like I am very aware of them right now, and they feel like they are stretching and stuff....very odd sensation AHHHH!!

 

[claire99991]

conswayala could be ovulation pain? maybe you popped a egg out of both lol

i think your probs right about clomid and i have heard some good stuff about it so its all ok, just need to see what my cd21 test comes bk like later in the month

 

[Irish_eyes]

Oh Claire so sorry to hear that hun but as Conswayla says there is many ways around infertility now so it does not mean that you'll not get pg. That doctor does sound nice (compared to the S**t oh seen earlier). I just can't believe that they did not tell you that you had a polycystic ovary...how can you by pass that now? Wait and see after your cd21 test and see if you are Oing and I suppose they take it from there. After all that has been said about you OH when ttc, god bless him, it so nice that he is being supportive when you really need him too. With him by your side you'll both get through it. Well you'll not have lon until that CD21 test. Can I ask...can you request this CD21 test yourself?

I have requested that my doctors check my prolactin again. I am going to the nurse on Thursday to get that done so I know what level it is at. It is mean to be under 500 and 350 unstressed (don't ask me what this all means...my sister told me this). So after taking 5mg of bromocriptine a day I am wondering has it decreased much. It was around 1600. It was higher than this before then it was down to about 550 or so then I came of bromocriptine because me dad passed away and I wasn't thinking of taking my tablets then.

 

[claire99991]

irish im not sure if you can request the blood test hun, she offered me it. xx

 

[cazd]

Claire! That's awful. They told me my other ovary looked fine (they had been scheduled to remove the good one 'till they saw it and went to check on the other cysted one just in-case!).

OMG - You must be absoloutely gutted. Just thinking about it makes me fill sick!
I've seen on PCOS threads that some girls are given specific medication to control it so maybe there's some hope. If they'd told you before you might not have had to spend so long TTC...

 

[claire99991]

well im not giving up hope yet, im still convinced i ovulate i have a pos opk, ov pain and my cervix is high soft and open i also get sore boobs 2-3 days later indicating a rise in progestrone, maybe the eggs are just shit and not of good quality i wonder if clomid would help to make strong eggs i dont know just going to see what the results are and then make another appt she said to most deffo keep trying though she said its quite comman to get get a bfp whilst waiting for refferals etc as sum of the stress has gone.

 

[snugglebot]

I am not sure how common it actually is, but it is possible to get a bfp while waiting.One of my closest friends just told us she got preggo a few days before her appointment. My other friends who just had their baby, just got their results back from the SA as being fine and they got preggo the very next cycle... I am not saying that happens for everyone. I think it is a coincidence...but hey! I am sure you will take that kind of coincidence any day!

 

[claire99991]

i sure will hun, you getting ready for sum serious BDing!?? I am giving my OH a couple of more days rest before we start lol

 

[snugglebot]

Well since DH doesn't know I am ov'ing next week, I would phrase it as "getting ready for some serious seducing"... But so far I have managed 2 times over the last three days with not a word of complaint from DH so my plan may just work

BTW, he and I are still both committed to ttc, but he just thinks I am ov'ing when I am gone... I am NOT trying to get knocked up without his consent.... just to be clear

 

[Irish_eyes]

Geesh, I'm nowhere near O and already dh is complaining!!!!

So my little plan may not work after all....but I am determined girls.

 

[Irish_eyes]

Isn't it ridiculous that you have to beg for it in ttc from other half?

They know that you are ttc and they consent to it so how else is there going to be a baby made...

 

[quail]

hi ladies well i did another hpt today and got a nice big evap line so gonna try again tommorow ive got between 1 and 6 days to go until witch arrives so hopefully still time.x

 

[cazd]

Hi gilrs.
Sounds positive quail (spelt right this time - soz) - fingers crossed!

As predicted I got a faint opk yesterday so I expect a nice fat line this afternoon.
OH was knackered last night so no for us. Its horrible having to ask for it.
He hates that its all so clinical now but even when I try to just flirt a bit - he knows I'm just after his man milk!

Claire... all those symptoms show you're definitely ovulating. Hopfully the cysts you do have aren't affecting some egg production - and its all going on quite naturally in spite of the PCOS. Honestly... your body wouldn't be going through the natural hormonal cycle so regularly if it wasn't making eggs - would it?!!

 

[snugglebot]

I can't remember which thread it was in but there are a few girls handing the "BD" timing over the the man. (I hope it wasn't this thread! Sorry I am forgetful).

Anyways they arm him with all the info about ov and good BD timing but it is left ENTIRELY up to him when to BD. So they never have to beg. I think it would take some serious tongue biting though for me. Although it could reveal some interesting insights into how truly interested the man is in having a baby... or maybe that is just what I would read into it.

 

[claire99991]

cazd, good luck catching that egg hun you gonna have to try get sum tonight lol good luck

snuggleboot oh god i think all the info for my OH would be to much to handle haha i would never trust him lol

irish i agree its really crap that we have to beg for in our fertile week i feel awful i didnt want it to be like this i just thought it would be fun but its very stressful espcially if our OH dont play ball

well as for me cd9 (could be cd10 though as i dont know if i counted day 1 from the right time or not i got spotting enough for every time i wiped to be quite a lot of pink and a bit of pink on pad and then full flow day after well i counted day after as day 1 is that right??) anyway i noticed lots of discharge in my underwear this morning TMI i know! anyway havent checked my cp or cm at all this cycle so i thought i best check and got sum EWCM (whooooo never get this lol) and my cervix is high almost unreachable still feels hard and closed though from what i can feel but i think its getting ready by going really high. Anyway my little girl been out all day with my sister so got sum just incase! lets just hope i havent started him of to early haha think ill leave it till cd12 now, dont know weather to get the opk tests out i soooo wasnt going to do that this month was going to have a au natural month lol but its nice to A test go positive isnt it haha. Oh and im also telling OH not to do sperm sample till next week cos i need all the this week lol

 

[snugglebot]

lol good plan claire! I wouldn't worry about opk's if you think you can get regular BD in... it won't tell you anything you don't know unless you want to use it to have a definite OV date for predicting AF purposes. Up to you.