my son is now 10 weeks old, and since he was born, i reckon my partner has held him 4 or 5 times, for a few minutes at a time. he has never changed a nappy, never bathed him, he has done nothing at all with him, even when he comes home from work he completly ignores our son like he isnt there. if im doing housework and billy starts crying my partner just shouts me to come and get him. we have had countless arguments about this and he just tells me to leave him if i dont like it. i dont know what to do, surely this isnt normal for a new dad, most dads want to help and spend time with their children? i feel like he doesnt want our son, i have got no one around me to talk to, my friends havent got children so they dont know what to say.