Hubby has gone off to Glastonbury this week and I'm struggling with the boys. My oldest one is used to a lot of attention which I can't give him by myself and is playing up. None of us are sleeping well which is making it worse.
My boiler broke this morning and I had to ring hubby to ask him how to fix it. He didn't ask how the children were just said 'can you hear the rain' in a depressed voice.
He went last year, came back and moaned he was tired. Which he probably was but he wasn't going to get sympathy from me I was pregnant looking after a toddler.
His answer is to get help off his/ my mum...
At what point should I expect him to grow up. When he comes back I really want to say something along the lines of I hope you've had a nice time but please don't ask to go again it's not fair on me or the children. Am I being unreasonable, I feel like I gave him an inch allowing him to go last yr and he took a mile. He is expecting to go away for his 30th in September but that will be the last as far as I'm concerned. He also goes away for work but that's not his fault obviously. His friends are childless and egg him on basically
Eta he went Tuesday and will come back Monday night so will be away the best part of a week
My boiler broke this morning and I had to ring hubby to ask him how to fix it. He didn't ask how the children were just said 'can you hear the rain' in a depressed voice.
He went last year, came back and moaned he was tired. Which he probably was but he wasn't going to get sympathy from me I was pregnant looking after a toddler.
His answer is to get help off his/ my mum...
At what point should I expect him to grow up. When he comes back I really want to say something along the lines of I hope you've had a nice time but please don't ask to go again it's not fair on me or the children. Am I being unreasonable, I feel like I gave him an inch allowing him to go last yr and he took a mile. He is expecting to go away for his 30th in September but that will be the last as far as I'm concerned. He also goes away for work but that's not his fault obviously. His friends are childless and egg him on basically
Eta he went Tuesday and will come back Monday night so will be away the best part of a week