Dating question

[staycutee]

Has being a mum changed what type of man you are looking for? And are looks less important as long as they are a good father figure?

Just confused about the type of person I should be on the hunt for really

I've dated single dads hoping we would have something in common.. I was wrong.
I've tried people older expecting maturity but

 

[flower74]

Hi,

Before I met my second husband I met/dated allsorts of men, both older and younger than me, bizzarely the younger ones were more flexible and one was even said 'You can't meet tomorrow (1st date) coz you've got children and no child care...no probs we'll all go out together!' very sweet but not a reality!! However an older guy didn't even acknowledge I had kids and was very unflexible even though we dated for 3 months!!

In the end go with what you want, if it feels and works out well for you and LO then that's the one!!

Hope this helps...good luck!!

XX

 

[Marlarky]

It has definitely changed me. I still missed my ex when I was dating FOB, and since we broke up, my ex heard about it and started talkign to me and said we should go out sometime because he really misses me and think of all our memories. Before I had Aaron, I would have said, hell yes, take me away!!! But now, no matter how much he misses me, I know hes not ready for kids and Im done playing around with little boys with no responsibilities.

 

[xJG30]

I never thought about whether OH would be a good father figure or not.. I just went for someone that made me happy and waited before he met Tom so knew it was right.

 

[leoniebabey]

i was picky before but now im even more picky, hence the fact im still very much single

 

[littlekitten8]

Its definitely changed my outlook, but not hugely. I still wouldn't date someone I had no attraction to, no matter how sweet. But I am definitely alot more wary, and look for someone who wants children and is stable!