ladies, firstly CONGRATS to all you newly baked mummies!!! such lovely names, weights and pictures! makes me so excited to meet mine!
i'm still here, 2 days til due date and nothing happening. i'm surprisingly patient so far and don't expect her anytime soon. my mum called today to wish me a happy due date as she's soooo convinced it'll happen on time, as both me and my brother were on time... she then went on saying that she only knows of one person who ever went "over" and that she never heard of the 42 week term... we then chatted a little bit and i told her about baby's hiccups and she hadn't heard of unborn babies hiccuping before either... oooh great!
i'm more than convinced now to not have her attend my birth. it'll just stress me. they fly in on sunday and then they can enjoy their florida vacation and come see me before labor starts and once LO is out (that is if she makes it before they leave again).
had midwife appointment yesterday, but my midwife was in naples on the florida gulfcoast attending a birth, so i was attended by a nurse midwife that usually takes care of the hospital patients of the OBGYN and not the birth center patients in that doctor's office. was quite unhappy about that, as i had some questions for my MW and couldn't ask them plus this MW doesn't know my story, so she ended the appointment with "have A LOT of sex now...". well, love to, but i'm single and it's not the same!
got some stuff done now i'm off work and all of a sudden, FOB contacted me by email asking about me, baby, due date bla bla. will see how that will continue.
today was not that great then. my german friend that wants to attend my birth and also recently fell pregnant, had an ultrasound done today at 10 weeks and unfortunately, there was NO BABY

. she somehow had a funny feeling all along, but it still hit her hard of course. there was only the sac visible with nothing in it. the tech called the doc and the doc gave some comfort and said they could scrape it out right away or let the body try to do it naturally. she opted for naturally and has now 2 weeks. i went over to her house in the afternoon and we cried a little together and then i kept her occupied with grocery shopping before her hubby came back from work. i feel soooooo bad for her, as she's got all us pregnant mummy-cows around her (me, another german friend, her SIL) and she so wanted a baby and was so happy that it happened in the first month trying.

she does however still want to be at my birth, so i'm a little relieved as i would've understood if now she wouldn't feel like it, but i would have no other support there, so she'll be of great help.
on a brighter note: bought a bottle of red wine today

and i think i'm gonna have me a nice glass tomorrow evening while soaking in the bath tub with candles lit and my cafe del mar music playing. whoop! would've done it tonight.... BUT, baby brain forgot that i don't have a wine bottle opener
hope yall that have not had their babies yet, have something going soon! especially you ness!!!

besides that, patience for all of us!
