Hi All - after 2 miscarriages and being 43, we have decided that a donor egg will be the safest way to go. Dr. says could be up to a 75% success rate using donor. I want a baby badly but I am so afraid of something going wrong during pregnancy. Surrogacy is so incredibly expensive. My doctor assures me that I would be able to carry a baby fine, but I think due to being hospitalized for the first miscarriage (second had a D&C), I am just petrified of health complications for both me and baby. I talked with a therapist about my fears and she said my fear has gotten too powerful, but yet I can't lessen it.
I am told adoption in the US could take up to 5 years.. I would be almost 50!!
I guess I am asking if anyone else here has had such strong fears and has been able to work it out?
Thank you and best of luck to all!
I am told adoption in the US could take up to 5 years.. I would be almost 50!!
I guess I am asking if anyone else here has had such strong fears and has been able to work it out?
Thank you and best of luck to all!