CaptainMummy
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So I have been 'worried' about Ella for quite some time now. More than a year I'm sure. Her behaviour doesn't strike me as normal and she is definitely not quite the same as her peers (or sisters). I'm not entirely sure what I'm expecting to happen or for anyone to say, but I am so over it and feel like my only option is to speak to someone about her.
I called today and spoke to the nurse who said the HV would contact me, although systems were down today so I've not actually spoken with her. Anyway, I've Writtle down a list of things about her that make me think there is more to her behaviour than just being a 'typical 3yr old'.
If anybody cares to read through and give me any insight as to what seems to be going on, that would be fab!
Very Emotional.
Can't sit still - always climbing and jumping. Up and down when eating dinner, leaning on table/standing on chair/on and off etc. Can't sit and watch 5 minutes of tv never mind a film or even a 15 minute episode of something.
Cant stand at peace - always jumping and fidgeting /shuffling about. Bumps into and falls over things alot and hurts herself as a result.
Bedtime is a nightmare - She cant 'switch off' and lies kicking the wall, singing and talking non stop to herself, wont lie still.
Awful eater - only eats certain foods, wont try anything new/different.
Wakes early, on the go from the minute she opens her eyes until she falls asleep. Has no 'down time'
Bold as brass - Not shy in the slightest, extremely over friendly with strangers (men in particular)
Touches other people's clothes/bodys without thinking (when she likes their clothes/hair etc)
Squeals loudly when playing, and also randomly.
Won't snuggle. Even as a baby she has never ever enjoyed a cuddle, wont sit and snuggle in at all.
Very persistent - interrupts, doesn't take no for an answer. Will repeat things until blue in the face without giving up.
dance class - doesn't pay attention, or do as told. Sits and spins or cartwheels etc whilst the rest of the children are following instructions.
Physically bold and unafraid. Even as a very young toddler was always very forward physically.
Laughs at discipline, doesn't care about consequences.
Harms cat - literally doesn't leave him alone and seeks him out constantly. Grabs him and doesnt let go, impulsively hits and kicks him without even thinking about it.
So yeah, quite a lengthy list. Despite this she is an extremely smart girl. More so than pretty much every other child of her age. She has many talents including dance and art, and she excells in both. Very very good with numbers, can do simple sums mentally (and very quickly) and she has always been ahead of the game in pretty much everything (speech, all milestones as a baby/toddler etc)
I can't cope with her anymore, she is wearing me down and I feel like there must be something to make it easier!
I called today and spoke to the nurse who said the HV would contact me, although systems were down today so I've not actually spoken with her. Anyway, I've Writtle down a list of things about her that make me think there is more to her behaviour than just being a 'typical 3yr old'.
If anybody cares to read through and give me any insight as to what seems to be going on, that would be fab!
Very Emotional.
Can't sit still - always climbing and jumping. Up and down when eating dinner, leaning on table/standing on chair/on and off etc. Can't sit and watch 5 minutes of tv never mind a film or even a 15 minute episode of something.
Cant stand at peace - always jumping and fidgeting /shuffling about. Bumps into and falls over things alot and hurts herself as a result.
Bedtime is a nightmare - She cant 'switch off' and lies kicking the wall, singing and talking non stop to herself, wont lie still.
Awful eater - only eats certain foods, wont try anything new/different.
Wakes early, on the go from the minute she opens her eyes until she falls asleep. Has no 'down time'
Bold as brass - Not shy in the slightest, extremely over friendly with strangers (men in particular)
Touches other people's clothes/bodys without thinking (when she likes their clothes/hair etc)
Squeals loudly when playing, and also randomly.
Won't snuggle. Even as a baby she has never ever enjoyed a cuddle, wont sit and snuggle in at all.
Very persistent - interrupts, doesn't take no for an answer. Will repeat things until blue in the face without giving up.
dance class - doesn't pay attention, or do as told. Sits and spins or cartwheels etc whilst the rest of the children are following instructions.
Physically bold and unafraid. Even as a very young toddler was always very forward physically.
Laughs at discipline, doesn't care about consequences.
Harms cat - literally doesn't leave him alone and seeks him out constantly. Grabs him and doesnt let go, impulsively hits and kicks him without even thinking about it.
So yeah, quite a lengthy list. Despite this she is an extremely smart girl. More so than pretty much every other child of her age. She has many talents including dance and art, and she excells in both. Very very good with numbers, can do simple sums mentally (and very quickly) and she has always been ahead of the game in pretty much everything (speech, all milestones as a baby/toddler etc)
I can't cope with her anymore, she is wearing me down and I feel like there must be something to make it easier!