bee.bee
Well-Known Member
- Joined
- Jan 16, 2013
- Messages
- 83
- Reaction score
- 0
I had my second loss in April, and the original plan with my SO was to wait a few cycles for my body to return to normal, and then start trying for a healthy pregnancy. Lately we have done a lot of talking and decided we aren't quite ready. There are many things we'd like to work on in our lives before bringing another life into this world. I want to be completely fair to my child and give them the life they fully deserve, and I'm not sure if we are ready to do that yet.
Ever since we have made this decision I feel like I am going backwards with my progress as far as my emotional recovery. Before, when I found myself feeling sad I would just think "I will be working towards my family soon!" Now I don't know when that will happen, and it is just killing me. I am confident that I am making the right decision, but has been so hard for me.
Has anyone else decided to wait? How have you coped? I'd really love to talk to someone that understands.
Ever since we have made this decision I feel like I am going backwards with my progress as far as my emotional recovery. Before, when I found myself feeling sad I would just think "I will be working towards my family soon!" Now I don't know when that will happen, and it is just killing me. I am confident that I am making the right decision, but has been so hard for me.
Has anyone else decided to wait? How have you coped? I'd really love to talk to someone that understands.
