ShanandBoc
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Deleted for personal reasons, thanks all for ur input
How about you go down to see her then? You could take her out for dinner? That way hubby can't run and hide away while she's there and she's still involved too.
I will tell in no uncertain terms would I have her and four dogs moving in
Also if she's that unstable and threatening to kill herself I would tell Hubby to take them threats very seriously and take her to the doctors to make sure that threats like this are dealt with in the correct way!!
Personally, even though he is her mother you just need to limit contact with her....i totally would....... do not let her move in with you ....this would be the worse thing ever for your marriage and for you all as a family.
She has got to use to her son/mother looking after her, shes an attention seeker.....she needs to start becoming independent...make friends etc..........families are there to support but its not fair on anyone to have to deal with it on a daily basis.