Dezireey - Update, hello everyone!

[Dezireey]

Hi guys, not sure if anyone remembers me on here but I have not been on here for some time. I hope everyone is doing great?. Thought I would just post an update on what I have been doing and let you know that even after lots of heartache, there can be sunshine.

For those that remember my horrendous ex, the FOB of my little boy, well, still not seen any sign of child support, left it with CSA (who are useless by the way) to go with enforcement. Probably not going to see a penny off him.

Ex left me when I was pregnant, told a HUGE amount of awful lies to me, refuses to have anything to do with his child. Was in a four year relationship with him and now he is shacked up with someone else and allows her teenage kids to call him Dad. I have, like the worst ex you could possibly imagine in the history of worst possible ex's. He was and is a total waste of space. (and that is putting it mildly)

Aaaanyway.........roll on almost three years and I am finally at a great stage in my life, well I was doing really well a year ago, sort of, so it took two years really to get over everything, and it was bloody hard work. I have met someone else now and am very happy, I am 41, so never thought I would meet anyone again, ever!. So if its possible at my age, its possible to meet someone special and love again, no matter how old you are. He is a fab,kind bloke and great with my son.

So, the best advice I can give, is that no matter how bad it gets, no matter how desperate or alone or sad you feel, it will get better and life just finds a way of turning around. Time is definitely the greatest healer and as long as you allow yourself and you really want to be happy, you will be.

So to all you lovely, brave single mummies, you are doing a fab-tastic job and lovely, kind karma will find you.

 

[Meezerowner]

Thanks for the lovely positive update! I remember you - your ex was the crazy SOB that pretended his kid had died?!

You defo deserve some happiness after all that craziness and I'm glad it's happening for you. Congrats on finding a decent guy hopefully your LO can have decent male role model.

CSA/CMS are a joke aren't they. I heard recently on the news how messed up they are ATM. I haven't had much joy from them and am not holding my breath.

Good luck for the future!

 

[Jade--x]

So great to hear your update Desireey, I remember all the awful times you had because of FOB and so glad to hear everything has worked out for you and your LO x